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To wonder if Jesus Christ is swearing

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badmornin · 16/09/2026 18:41

Because I exclaimed OH JESUS CHRIST in frustration today on the school run. Not my finest moment and I will admit that; it had not been a good morning, lots of stress here and my younger child nearly tipped me over the edge demanding to be carried and blocking everyone’s way on the very narrow pavement, picked her up, dropped everything else I was carrying and said the above.

We have had a message about bad language in front of the children and I feel like it’s aimed at me.

wondering what MNetters think?

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 18/09/2026 11:33

LizzieW1969 · 18/09/2026 10:17

Biblical writers are quite crude in a number of places, actually. More so in the Old Testament; for example, when Elijah mocks the prophets of Baal, he suggest that Baal might be on the toilet. So he was quite crude really; translators toned it down.

I admit that I’m not above a bit of swearing myself; I sometimes mutter ‘shit’ under my breath, for example. (I don’t actually understand why that’s a swear word, really, but obviously it’s crude.)

I do find the subject of language very interesting.

Me too!

globalswimmer · 18/09/2026 12:17

Abracadabra12345 · 17/09/2026 22:06

But why say the name of Jesus Christ? Why does his name get used as a swear word? I don’t get it. There”s a whole raft of words to use to express annoyance, from the very mildest to the not-to-be-said-in-public 😁

Only because that's what everyone around me said growing up. And variations on it. Learned behaviour basically

Thegirlwhowent · 18/09/2026 13:34

Whynottryagain · 18/09/2026 09:11

It isn't like saying shut the door.

If everyone started using a particular common name in the same way as Jesus Christ, in place of a swear word, people with that name would care and I bet it'd fall out of use. Just like Karen, Fanny and Dick. I feel very strongly against the modern use of Karen too and although it's not a swear word being used as an insult is bad enough.

I'd hate my name to be used like that.

Edited

Yes, but Karen, Fanny and Dick are real people who can tell us if they're offended. God isn't and can't. Jesus might perhaps once have been real but even if he was, he's not around now to hear it.

BeanNaGealai · 18/09/2026 14:39

Darkdiamond · 18/09/2026 09:53

Very true, and I guess that again its a doctrinal position that I hold and most likely a conversation for another thread. I guess I left Catholicism for a reason so have my own points of contention on theological topics and I guess my question is 'devotion to what or whom?'. Anyway, it's not relevant for now. Thanks for you kind words about my daughter. I think I have it sorted thankfully.

In the case of my mother, she has a particular devotion to St Anthony who is used as an intermediary to god. That is also common in Ireland. Lots of people have their favourite saint who they pray to. Again, it harks back to polytheism. There is nearly always a picture of the sacred heart hanging in the house of devout catholics and when we were kids, the rosary would be said in front of the picture every night.

For my mother, Jesus would be the one you pray to seriously whereas st anthony is more akin to a good friend. But Jesus would still be a family member.

Whynottryagain · 18/09/2026 15:20

Thegirlwhowent · 18/09/2026 13:34

Yes, but Karen, Fanny and Dick are real people who can tell us if they're offended. God isn't and can't. Jesus might perhaps once have been real but even if he was, he's not around now to hear it.

I'm not Karen but I'm offended on behalf of Karens. Other friends of Karens may feel the same.

The question was, is Jesus Christ a swear word if used as the OP used it. The answer is that many people find using it in lieu of a swear word very offensive. It's irrelevant whether God is real or not, if your goal is to avoid causing offense.

Darkdiamond · 18/09/2026 16:32

BeanNaGealai · 18/09/2026 14:39

In the case of my mother, she has a particular devotion to St Anthony who is used as an intermediary to god. That is also common in Ireland. Lots of people have their favourite saint who they pray to. Again, it harks back to polytheism. There is nearly always a picture of the sacred heart hanging in the house of devout catholics and when we were kids, the rosary would be said in front of the picture every night.

For my mother, Jesus would be the one you pray to seriously whereas st anthony is more akin to a good friend. But Jesus would still be a family member.

Oh I know, I'm Irish! If you lose your keys, St Anthony is on speed dial in my parts. St Jude if you're really stuck. St Gérard Majella if you're trying to get pregnant. I am a teacher and a few years ago was teaching my class about Viking gods, with the god of war and god of wheat and god of whatever, and it really resonated with me growing up Catholic. The polytheism really clicked.

BeanNaGealai · 18/09/2026 16:45

Darkdiamond · 18/09/2026 16:32

Oh I know, I'm Irish! If you lose your keys, St Anthony is on speed dial in my parts. St Jude if you're really stuck. St Gérard Majella if you're trying to get pregnant. I am a teacher and a few years ago was teaching my class about Viking gods, with the god of war and god of wheat and god of whatever, and it really resonated with me growing up Catholic. The polytheism really clicked.

That’s only for those without a special relationship with st Anthony. He does everything for my mother apparently. He has god’s ear so just sorts it all out for her regardless of whether there is another saint who is officially in charge.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/09/2026 17:51

BeanNaGealai · 18/09/2026 16:45

That’s only for those without a special relationship with st Anthony. He does everything for my mother apparently. He has god’s ear so just sorts it all out for her regardless of whether there is another saint who is officially in charge.

Has God asked St Anthony where His ear is yet?

Thegirlwhowent · 18/09/2026 21:07

Whynottryagain · 18/09/2026 15:20

I'm not Karen but I'm offended on behalf of Karens. Other friends of Karens may feel the same.

The question was, is Jesus Christ a swear word if used as the OP used it. The answer is that many people find using it in lieu of a swear word very offensive. It's irrelevant whether God is real or not, if your goal is to avoid causing offense.

I find the use of 'Karen' offensive but I'm not going to be bothered about upsetting any imaginary being. Whether they are real or not is absolutely relevant. I'd be mindful of the people around me because of their feelings, but I wouldn't worry about what the so-called god thought.

BeanNaGealai · 18/09/2026 21:28

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/09/2026 17:51

Has God asked St Anthony where His ear is yet?

That would be an ecumenical matter.

Chocolatelabsarebest · 18/09/2026 21:31

Thegirlwhowent · 18/09/2026 13:34

Yes, but Karen, Fanny and Dick are real people who can tell us if they're offended. God isn't and can't. Jesus might perhaps once have been real but even if he was, he's not around now to hear it.

As a Christian I believe that God gave us the Ten Commandments to live by; and the third commandment tells us not to use the Lord’s name “ in vain.”

TurquoiseGoldPeaches · 18/09/2026 21:41

PinkLemons99 · 16/09/2026 18:52

I absolutely detest passive aggressive complainers.

People who won’t say things to your face but make a song and dance and have a generic whinge to the world at large, can get to fuck as far as I’m concerned.

Try saying “Jesus, Mary and Joseph” next time. I’m sure that will help. 😂

P.S. DS went to a Catholic school and you should have heard the language from some of the parents, but then I live in Ireland and we don’t really give a feck.

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I love Jesus Mary & Joseph - 😆🙌

ProjectFailScary · 18/09/2026 21:43

I’m an atheist so blasphemy isn’t important to me, also blasphemy isn’t a crime. However, I would be respectful in a Church school. 😂 No harm done, move on, it was a mistake, learn from it.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 18/09/2026 21:44

Darkdiamond · 18/09/2026 16:32

Oh I know, I'm Irish! If you lose your keys, St Anthony is on speed dial in my parts. St Jude if you're really stuck. St Gérard Majella if you're trying to get pregnant. I am a teacher and a few years ago was teaching my class about Viking gods, with the god of war and god of wheat and god of whatever, and it really resonated with me growing up Catholic. The polytheism really clicked.

I’d never really thought of it like that! That patron saints are a bit like trying to replace the “lost gods” if you like.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 18/09/2026 21:44

TurquoiseGoldPeaches · 18/09/2026 21:41

I love Jesus Mary & Joseph - 😆🙌

You mustn’t forget the wee donkey!

trekkiemonster · 18/09/2026 21:48

Not sure but better than saying ‘Gosh’ or ‘Oh my gosh’ 🤮

Thegirlwhowent · 18/09/2026 22:04

Chocolatelabsarebest · 18/09/2026 21:31

As a Christian I believe that God gave us the Ten Commandments to live by; and the third commandment tells us not to use the Lord’s name “ in vain.”

Do you follow the commandment about not making graven images? Actually, I think most of the commandments are sensible rules to live by, but I think they came from rational people, not from a god. If we use our brains, humanity and empathy, we can generally work out what's good and bad.

LizzieW1969 · 18/09/2026 22:10

Chocolatelabsarebest · 18/09/2026 21:31

As a Christian I believe that God gave us the Ten Commandments to live by; and the third commandment tells us not to use the Lord’s name “ in vain.”

^I believe the same as you, about using Jesus’s name. It does go against the Third Command. As I said earlier, I do find it upsetting, whilst I acknowledge the historical context in Ireland.

I don’t have the same concern about other swear words, though I’ve always disliked the F word. (Sadly, DD1 has developed the habit of using it during the last couple of years.)

Fulbe · 18/09/2026 23:54

Does this mean that "oh God" is offensive too? Just curious to hear others' views.

Chocolatelabsarebest · 19/09/2026 05:47

Fulbe · 18/09/2026 23:54

Does this mean that "oh God" is offensive too? Just curious to hear others' views.

Yes I would find it offensive and would not let my children say it. Also OMG.

Fulbe · 19/09/2026 07:25

Chocolatelabsarebest · 19/09/2026 05:47

Yes I would find it offensive and would not let my children say it. Also OMG.

Wow, I had no idea. Thank you, I don't want to offend people and clearly have been doing so for years without realising.

What do you say instead, in frustration?

LizzieW1969 · 19/09/2026 08:24

Fulbe · 19/09/2026 07:25

Wow, I had no idea. Thank you, I don't want to offend people and clearly have been doing so for years without realising.

What do you say instead, in frustration?

I tend to say ‘Oh my gosh’ actually, or ‘oh my goodness’. When I’m really frustrated, I confess that ‘shit’ can slip out occasionally, or ‘damn it’. So my language certainly isn’t perfect all the time.

BeanNaGealai · 19/09/2026 09:56

LizzieW1969 · 19/09/2026 08:24

I tend to say ‘Oh my gosh’ actually, or ‘oh my goodness’. When I’m really frustrated, I confess that ‘shit’ can slip out occasionally, or ‘damn it’. So my language certainly isn’t perfect all the time.

Surely “damn it” would also be offensive given that it’s short for god damn it? Dropping god’s name doesn’t change the meaning of the phrase.

LizzieW1969 · 19/09/2026 10:34

BeanNaGealai · 19/09/2026 09:56

Surely “damn it” would also be offensive given that it’s short for god damn it? Dropping god’s name doesn’t change the meaning of the phrase.

Point taken, it’s easy to forget that because it’s a word you hear so often being said on TV and in general conversation.

BeanNaGealai · 19/09/2026 11:01

LizzieW1969 · 19/09/2026 10:34

Point taken, it’s easy to forget that because it’s a word you hear so often being said on TV and in general conversation.

As is omg etc…

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