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To ask what you would wear in Rome in November?

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inpraying · 16/09/2026 17:18

I’m travelling there for a week, one small hand luggage only bag!!

I’m plus size, size 16-18 and looking at the average weather it seems to be about 16° or so in the day and cooler at night.

I feel a little lost on what I need! It doesn’t seem like summer clothes would be suitable, but neither would winter by the looks of it!

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CosyDenimShark · 18/09/2026 08:29

Amazon vacuum bags

Ive never linked on here before so hopefully this works!
if not they are £19.99 on Amazon and called ZOESTORAGE vacuum bags.

Hope that helps! Have a fab trip!

Amazing thank you!!!!

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Shedmistress · 18/09/2026 08:31

I'd look at the forecast the week before and pack stuff suitable nearer the time.

CosyDenimShark · 18/09/2026 08:29

inpraying · 18/09/2026 07:10

Could you link me the bags please?! I’ve just looked at how much it is to add a larger bag and it’s £75! The whole trip was only £350!

Amazon vacuum bags

Ive never linked on here before so hopefully this works!
if not they are £19.99 on Amazon and called ZOESTORAGE vacuum bags.

Hope that helps! Have a fab trip!

Amazon

Amazon

https://amzn.eu/d/02qebcIJ?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-am-i-being-unreasonable-5579186-to-ask-what-you-would-wear-in-rome-in-november

Twatterati · 18/09/2026 07:17

Toga and a big coat.

inpraying · 18/09/2026 07:10

CosyDenimShark · 17/09/2026 16:51

We've just done Prague for 5 days with a rucksack and those vacuum bags with the mini device for the way home. Managed to get much more in than I did without them in Barcelona last year. If you roll your clothes into sausages first, they don't crease too much.

My tips would be choose a colour palette that all works together, like black and white. Wear everything big and bulky, jeans, coat, jumper etc and your walking shoes. Tie a hoodie around your waist on the flight to save space. A flat pair of more evening shoes can go down the sides of your bag.

Pack wide leg trousers and various tops that can be mixed and matched. Put an umbrella on the outside of your rucksack.

Could you link me the bags please?! I’ve just looked at how much it is to add a larger bag and it’s £75! The whole trip was only £350!

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CosyDenimShark · 17/09/2026 16:51

We've just done Prague for 5 days with a rucksack and those vacuum bags with the mini device for the way home. Managed to get much more in than I did without them in Barcelona last year. If you roll your clothes into sausages first, they don't crease too much.

My tips would be choose a colour palette that all works together, like black and white. Wear everything big and bulky, jeans, coat, jumper etc and your walking shoes. Tie a hoodie around your waist on the flight to save space. A flat pair of more evening shoes can go down the sides of your bag.

Pack wide leg trousers and various tops that can be mixed and matched. Put an umbrella on the outside of your rucksack.

inpraying · 17/09/2026 16:08

DeftGoldHedgehog · 17/09/2026 02:26

I went 20 years ago in November and it was 20 odd degrees every day - lovely! Check the weather forecast before you go, but I'd think normal English summer weather clothes would be fine. T-shirts, jeans, more lightweight trousers or skirts for warmer days, socks, trainers, jumper/warmer layers.

Argh. I’ve got so many lovely autumn clothes!

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 17/09/2026 02:26

I went 20 years ago in November and it was 20 odd degrees every day - lovely! Check the weather forecast before you go, but I'd think normal English summer weather clothes would be fine. T-shirts, jeans, more lightweight trousers or skirts for warmer days, socks, trainers, jumper/warmer layers.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 17/09/2026 02:15

inpraying · 16/09/2026 21:26

It’s 16 degrees in Rome in November. Nothing in the long range forecast suggests it’ll be hot.

More than 2 weeks out, the long range forecast is just the average temp for the same day in previous years. I'd really suggest waiting until you have a real forecast if you're planning to buy anything especially for the trip.

I say this because I'm currently in Italy and it's far hotter than I planned for. But it's an excuse to go shopping so I'm not complaining!

PermanentTemporary · 16/09/2026 23:23

I’m going to be there in October. I’ve bought a super light showerproof jacket with a hood in Uniqlo which I hope will cover a lot of ground. I’m going to take a light cardigan layer too. Ive got a Go Outdoors kinda dress, some light/quick drying trousers, that sort of thing I’ve got a rucksack about the same size as yours, and am taking a Nanobag backpack as a day bag.

Naples in November was very wet.

Pedant61 · 16/09/2026 23:13

Just be aware that you need comfortable shoes for the entire trip, not just the walking tour!

mumumental · 16/09/2026 23:12

I went the last week of October a couple of years ago and it was 26 in Rome in the daytime. People did think it was warmer than usual, though.

OutOfTheOtherSide · 16/09/2026 23:04

ExtraOnions · 16/09/2026 17:29

Gladiator Outift

👏😂

worrisomeasset · 16/09/2026 21:49

inpraying · 16/09/2026 20:56

I’m hoping to take a gorgeous pair of ankle boots I’ve got, but they may be replaced by trainers as I have a walking tour booked!

If the walking tour is anything like the one we went on, I’d strongly advise trainers! It was a bit of a route march but it was very informative and well worth doing.

Dandeloosha · 16/09/2026 21:31

On the plane wear jeans, your biggest shoes/boots, a t-shirt, jumper, scarf, and jacket - it you have a thin puffa or padded jacket that’s ideal. For packing I’d bring:

1pair wide leg trousers
3 tops/t-shirts
1 cardigan
1skirt
nightie
Another pair of shoes

If you have a well defined colour palette - e.g. Black, tan, and white, then everything will coordinate. Avoid the temptation to just try to bung in all your favourite stuff. It never works out well

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 16/09/2026 21:30

I’ve only been there once in November, and wore a coat with jeans and a jumper type clothes - and sunglasses as it was bright! It’s literally my favourite weather - cold and bright.

inpraying · 16/09/2026 21:26

aster10 · 16/09/2026 21:21

This. Totally unpredictable now based on how it was several years ago. I went to Rome end of August and September in the past and it was fine, sometimes hotter, sometimes cooler. This year… end of August… very difficult., 35-38 degrees. I suspect 22-25 in November?

It’s 16 degrees in Rome in November. Nothing in the long range forecast suggests it’ll be hot.

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Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 16/09/2026 17:38

Check the forecast before you go. It's still 30+ degrees this week. I don't think past averages count for much with the way European weather is these days.

This. Totally unpredictable now based on how it was several years ago. I went to Rome end of August and September in the past and it was fine, sometimes hotter, sometimes cooler. This year… end of August… very difficult., 35-38 degrees. I suspect 22-25 in November?

inpraying · 16/09/2026 21:13

gabsdot45 · 16/09/2026 20:58

I've been in Rome twice in the winter time. I wore warm clothes and my winter coat.

Is it that cold in November?

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gabsdot45 · 16/09/2026 20:58

I've been in Rome twice in the winter time. I wore warm clothes and my winter coat.

inpraying · 16/09/2026 20:56

worrisomeasset · 16/09/2026 20:04

The most important thing is sturdy shoes, it’s not a place for heels or flimsy sandals.

I’m hoping to take a gorgeous pair of ankle boots I’ve got, but they may be replaced by trainers as I have a walking tour booked!

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inpraying · 16/09/2026 20:55

Bjorkdidit · 16/09/2026 17:28

I wouldn't go for a week with just a small hand bag and that's with me rewearing my clothes more than the average Mumsnetter. I'd just pay the extra £50 or whatever for a second bag and free myself from the hassle. If you're going with a partner/friend, the cheapest way will probably be to book one hold bag to share.

You need to check the weather forecast just before you go and plan accordingly but I'd expect that you'll need a variety of clothes due to temperature variation and also if it rains.

It’s the small easyJet bag, so my 26l Osprey bag should cut it.

I’m there Monday to Friday, so I’m envisioning it being okay!

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SnapAndTap · 16/09/2026 20:12

Layers.
I went (many years ago) in November. Days were jeans and teeshirts. Nights required jumpers and coats.
It was a fabulous trip (chosen by "where can we go on £1 flights from our local airport")

worrisomeasset · 16/09/2026 20:04

The most important thing is sturdy shoes, it’s not a place for heels or flimsy sandals.

Datgal · 16/09/2026 19:39

I'm going for a week beginning of November and I'm hoping for a midweek beach day 😂😎.... and I'm serious. I swear I've been checking the weather there since I booked last year and it's been in the twenties all that time.