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AIBU to question the school banning prams from the buggy shed?

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ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:28

Just a quick one bc I feel like an idiot for pushing on this and rationally I know it’s not a big deal.

My kids school is very strict, but we are fine with that.

I have a 3 year old in a school nursery (drop off 8.30) and a 6 year old in year 1 (drop off 8.45- main gates open at 8.45 and we walk into the playground).

Recently we’ve had emails asking parents to stop leaving strollers/scooters/bikes in the stroller shed. I have actively ignored those and carried on leaving my pram there.

Today, a teacher approached me and asked me not to leave the pram there. The school’s reasoning is that there is a stay and play session, once a week for one hour in which parents need to store their buggies. So space needs to be left for them.

It is boggling my mind that they would stop regular nursery parents from leaving prams and essentially have the shelter empty for the whole week, bar one hour a day.

We can’t take cars on the school road as it has become pedestrian only. School is a 13min adult walk away but my kids walk really slowly and it takes us about 25mins if no pram.

I have to run (actually run as in running clothes and trainers) back from the kids pick up to make it back for my 9am meeting on my WFH days. office days I go straight from school to the station (walking). I can’t run back with my pram. The teacher suggested if I’m struggling with the timings with work I put the kids into breakfast club- that would be costly for two kids and it’s a matter of minutes.

if they had a good reason for this rule I’d completely understand, but this just seems so odd. I don’t want to push it because it’s such a minor issue and it’s embarrassing to make a fuss about sometime like this.

Am I not seeing sense here?

OP posts:
gamerchick · 15/09/2026 23:17

frogspawn15 · 15/09/2026 22:38

OP can’t set off 12 minutes earlier. The issue is that she cannot drop her eldest until the gates open at 8.45, and she needs to be home for 9am to start work. So she runs, which she can’t do with the buggy.

That's the point of setting off earlier. To accommodate the slow walking. She can still run home.

TheJuryIsOut · 15/09/2026 23:18

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:58

Good for you! I don’t like tiring out my little one before she has even started the day.

Walking to nursery for an energetic 3yo shouldn't tire them out that much. I mean the easiest solution to your problem is to just get the 3yo to walk.

Also surely your 6yo isn't walking it in 13 minutes anyway so having your 3yo walk won't make it that much slower if they can do it in 25

velomumhackney · 15/09/2026 23:20

your child’s stamina will increase massively if you walk them daily, and invest the time it takes with them being slow now, they will be faster soon.

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 15/09/2026 23:21

StolenTeapots · 15/09/2026 23:16

See my post above this one.

The information is in the thread.

What an overcomplicated mess. Why OP is sprinting home to start work when there is an option of breakfast club is beyond me. What a stressful start to a load of mornings. Get rid of the stroller, scooter of bikes for the kids on the days you're in the office OP and breakfast club on the WFH days

PurpleThistle7 · 15/09/2026 23:22

My kids have walked to school and nursery since they were 2/3 (my son would walk with me to my daughter’s school for dropoff. Almost exactly a mile). Kind of tedious at the start but now he can do that walk in about 10 minutes - it’s super worth putting the time in when they’re little, he runs circles around me now.

Janefx40 · 15/09/2026 23:23

Well my 3 year old wouldn’t walk 13 mins. He’ll walk 2-3 mins tops before asking me to carry him and then have a massive tantrum if I don’t. Neither walking with a screaming child or carrying one sounds like a reasonable thing to do every morning. I think the school should respond to a polite request for an exception. Yes if everyone did it, the space would be full but probably most people don’t need to do it so maybe they could accommodate those who really do. They could always email parents and ask who needs it - if loads of people respond they can think of another solution . But if it’s just a few then maybe make some exceptions.

BrighterDaysAhead2026 · 15/09/2026 23:23

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 15/09/2026 22:54

You walk 1 mile in 13 minutes? That's like..
.power walking fast! 4.6mph!

It would take most women around 20 minutes to walk a mile....

I walk a mile in 15 minutes and I wouldn't say I walk particularly fast!

I totally get your point OP to have a facility that you can't use is annoying. At 3 mine had scooters. On the way back I was always pulling them along! Would have been a nightmare without the scooters. Why on earth doesn't the school have bike racks? I would maybe use your energy to petition for that.

Many nursery children came in buggies too. I don't think it is a big deal at 3. I always found those children who were out of buggies at 2 were driven around everywhere.Those of us who walked everywhere used buggies - not least to carry all your things and put the shopping in. My autistic eldest was a runner offer too so the buggy was needed for safety too.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:23

amyds2104 · 15/09/2026 23:06

There could be so many reasons why they don’t want it used. Someone may have damaged it. Someone’s pram/scooter was stolen during the nursery pick up and drop off times and now they don’t want responsibility for it. Someone left their child in the pram and there was a safeguarding incident. Most likely there was a complaint of some kind - always the thing that causes silly illogical rules. None of it really matters except they’ve asked you not to do it. You decided to do it anyway and then sent an email to complain! Honestly school will be a long hard slog for you if this is something that annoys you as they are full of rules that seem stupid (but most of the time there are reasons for them)!

Edited

Any of those given reasons would mean no one would be able to use the buggy storage, which is not the case. It’s solely because of the reason already stated.

However, you are right that I can’t really do much about it as they’ve said no.

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CalamityJane81 · 15/09/2026 23:24

mynameiscalypso · 15/09/2026 22:45

But OP isn’t using a buggy for a child of school age. She’s using it for her 3 year old. I think it’s quite normal for a 3 year old to still need a buggy. I know when my DS was 3, he would have struggled to work 25 mins to nursery and back every day.

They are at the school nursery and it’s a short walk by the sounds of it. Of course you’re entitled to your opinion. I’m not sure why you would disagree with mine enough to comment though. I have taught enough 3 year olds to know that there are the odd comments made like ‘you’re a baby.’ If they arrive in a pushchair or with a dummy. I’m not saying that it’s right or that I agree and of course I would intervene but I was trying to nicely give OP my opinion and benefit of my experience and suggest that they should maybe try and walk with extra time.

BrighterDaysAhead2026 · 15/09/2026 23:25

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 15/09/2026 23:21

What an overcomplicated mess. Why OP is sprinting home to start work when there is an option of breakfast club is beyond me. What a stressful start to a load of mornings. Get rid of the stroller, scooter of bikes for the kids on the days you're in the office OP and breakfast club on the WFH days

But there is nowhere to leave the scooters or bikes!

NinaGeiger · 15/09/2026 23:25

This sounds absolutely insane. You're not being at all unreasonable and all the posters saying get up earlier etc are completely missing the point.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:25

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 15/09/2026 23:21

What an overcomplicated mess. Why OP is sprinting home to start work when there is an option of breakfast club is beyond me. What a stressful start to a load of mornings. Get rid of the stroller, scooter of bikes for the kids on the days you're in the office OP and breakfast club on the WFH days

Money is not always free flowing :)

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DitzyDo · 15/09/2026 23:28

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:37

That is very true but also easier said than done! Also I will probably do that anyway but this is more questioning the logic behind the schools rule on this.

They want to stop the complaints every week from the stay ‘n play parents.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:30

DitzyDo · 15/09/2026 23:28

They want to stop the complaints every week from the stay ‘n play parents.

There’s only 3-4 kids that attend 😭

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KindlySurfiingPlatypus · 15/09/2026 23:32

School is a 13 minute adult walk away. You run it in 7ish minutes to get home by 9:00.
This could be resolved on wfh days by making your morning Teams meeting start at 9:15 - if you walk home with the buggy rather than running home unencumbered you'll be at your desk by 9:06 and will have time to catch up on emails before the morning meeting starts. Clearly you aren't expected into the office by 9 on office days so there has to be some flexibility, you've just got the wrong balance. In an average uk city the amount of physical ground space that would be needed in order to accommodate one buggy per nursery child plus every stay-and-play child would be worth tens of thousands of pounds, it's not a sensible use of resources. That's the logical reason.

Timeforachange26 · 15/09/2026 23:33

TheJuryIsOut · 15/09/2026 23:18

Walking to nursery for an energetic 3yo shouldn't tire them out that much. I mean the easiest solution to your problem is to just get the 3yo to walk.

Also surely your 6yo isn't walking it in 13 minutes anyway so having your 3yo walk won't make it that much slower if they can do it in 25

My grandsons school walked all the kids a mile round the fields before lessons each day. MDe sure they had got rid of excess energy before lessons. This was the4-6 year old class

EmeraldShamrock000 · 15/09/2026 23:34

StolenTeapots · 15/09/2026 23:16

See my post above this one.

The information is in the thread.

Haha. It’s a mad house. Maybe type in cap lock for the people missing the information. 😅

mixingplaydoh · 15/09/2026 23:36

This would massively annoy me. Solidarity, OP. You’d think the school would be wanting to help you solve the problem.

Taking this up a level, we do need people to keep having children, and shenanigans like this that make life that bit harder to juggle kids and working etc are just so unhelpful.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:36

KindlySurfiingPlatypus · 15/09/2026 23:32

School is a 13 minute adult walk away. You run it in 7ish minutes to get home by 9:00.
This could be resolved on wfh days by making your morning Teams meeting start at 9:15 - if you walk home with the buggy rather than running home unencumbered you'll be at your desk by 9:06 and will have time to catch up on emails before the morning meeting starts. Clearly you aren't expected into the office by 9 on office days so there has to be some flexibility, you've just got the wrong balance. In an average uk city the amount of physical ground space that would be needed in order to accommodate one buggy per nursery child plus every stay-and-play child would be worth tens of thousands of pounds, it's not a sensible use of resources. That's the logical reason.

Thank you. Rational answer, I love it.

Unfortunately the 9am meeting is the only non negotiable at my workplace otherwise they are incredibly flexible.

Thank you again though!

OP posts:
ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:37

Timeforachange26 · 15/09/2026 23:33

My grandsons school walked all the kids a mile round the fields before lessons each day. MDe sure they had got rid of excess energy before lessons. This was the4-6 year old class

Edited

I should do that with my kids before I bring them home from school 🤣

OP posts:
Timeforachange26 · 15/09/2026 23:37

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:37

I should do that with my kids before I bring them home from school 🤣

The walk home should sort that lol

Annoyedbyhusband · 15/09/2026 23:39

Can you get a super lightweight small folding travel pushchair? If so could you ask them if they would let you hang it int he shed so it’s not taking up space? I got one that folded up really small for a trip when mine were small and I think it was about 15 quid on Facebook marketplace. You can get ones that folded up to the size of a backpack too.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:42

I will be setting off earlier!!

My kids are developmentally fine, meeting milestones, potty trained since 1.5 years for those who mentioned, my 3 year old gets tired in the mornings hence the stroller! She tends to walk back from school rather than sit in the pram but we have all the time in the world to do that.

I know it’s school property, nothing I can do to change that. I am not kicking down doors demanding answers. Also I know it’s not the schools job to sort my personal, logistical problems and I did not suggest it was.

The stay and play hasn’t even started running yet and there’s only ever 3-4 kids that attend. It’s just soooo silly. But clearly, none of my business.

Thank you all for taking the time to respond

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OrangeSlices998 · 15/09/2026 23:46

I find the kicking you’re getting here a bit odd OP. If the stay and play is 9-10 on a Wednesday morning it’s bizarre they’ve said no to the use of the shed all the other days! What do kids do with their bikes and scooters? Loads of kids in my area cycle/scoot to school! We bought a cargo bike we love for quick school drop offs without the car if that’s an option? I would want to email again and ask how this rule impacts encouraging exercise and kids to walk/scoot/cycle to school versus being dropped off? Better environmentally, for traffic reduction and air quality no? If I couldn’t leave my kids scooter at school we wouldn’t take it as I can’t then bring it with me on the train to work!

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 16/09/2026 09:10

BrighterDaysAhead2026 · 15/09/2026 23:25

But there is nowhere to leave the scooters or bikes!

Where does it say that? It says buggies can't be left in a buggy park! Every primary school I know encourages walking to school and has bike racks etc to leave bikes and scooters