My parents have become insufferable.

Do you know what?? This attack on elders in our community is really not necessary.
EVERY generation becomes more 'tolerant' until they age! Nobody gives a fuck in their teens. Twenties.. wee bit more moany but generally still tolerable and open. Thirties.. things getting harder...kids, mortgage, childcare costs, full time stressful work...starting to feel a bit older and a tiny bit resentful to those who don't work. Forties...starting to feel more physically tired through work and life... still dealing with the kids probs now teenagers who need everything now, lifts everywhere etc... becoming more fucking raging about non-workers who chose it as a lifestyle.

Fifties.. well here we go. This is the age i actually feel myself and will not hold back.
Our country is in danger. This has to be acknowledged. If i was 20, 30 or even possibly 40.i would have laughed and called people racist.
This shit is now real. We have never, never had this amount of illegal 'migrants'. Its not oldie folk being scared. It's real. The amount of illegal migrant rapes on women is not to be ignored.

Just back from a Tommy march?

Oh and if you voted for Brexit, the increase in illegal immigrants is on you.

Do they have access to the Internet? Sounds like they have been radicalised.
Its a big problem with that generation as they lack the skills to discern between good and bad information.

I agree with this. Im in my sixties. My siblings who are both older than me fit this description perfectly. They also both watch GB News exclusively for their news. Im really shocked at the change in both of them in the past 18 months.
My close friends and I have noticed the same with many of our age group and are both concerned, bemused and embarrassed by this behaviour. We are all quite active and connected. We are all retired but with volounteering jobs.
I also wonder whether it is the less active retired with few outside interests and reduced social interactions.
I personally have reduced my visits as its just pretty unpleasant, so perhaps Im contributing to the issue!

Thanks for thinking about this. Yes, she has had a hearing check. I suspect this confirmed she has some hearing loss but will not admit it or do anything about it!

Unfortunately, she won’t accept advice or help from me…what do I know, I’m only a woman…might get my partner to talk to her…😉😊😵‍💫

There is definitely an egocentricity about her though. She NEVER asks about anyone, me, my DC’s. I changed jobs nine months ago and despite her knowing this, she has not asked anything at all about it.

I’ve learnt to accept her ways, otherwise, she makes me feel invisible.

The amount of illegal migrant rapes on women is not to be ignored.

Do you have the data and statistics for this?

I suggest that it’s very easy to focus only on this and not the amount of general shitty behaviour including rapes and also coercive control and behaviour by men who are as white British born as they come. These total knuckledraggers seem to be ignored by GB News

We definitely aren’t like that! Perhaps they now have more time to read newspapers or online news and believe the Daily Mail and other such influencers? They need hobbies.

I have a friend that does that all of the time and has done so for decades! Cracks me up!

[By the most basic of reason and logic] Mass, uncontrolled, often hostile and (most pertinently) illegal (worth noting that the poster you quoted DID stress same) migration is alarming. And by 'most basic' I mean, to be entirely explicit, only a fool would suggest otherwise. It's something for which many people are, obviously, concerned.

So why the haughty derision? You must know you're conveying obtuseness? When I see derisory/caustic replies like yours, I just wonder why?

For the broader conversation, my Dad is 81, and his character and integrity are entirely unchanged.

I think that you should examine your own rather ill informed bigoted attitudes.

Are you replying to me, or to someone else?

I was responding to the OP I have no idea why it came up under your post I apologise.

My father was a kind tolerant person until the end. My mother on the other hand showed her true colours when two siblings married Asians. It was ugly.

If there is a problem with her hearing AND she feels defensive about it, it will explain a lot of her behaviour. In the first place, she may not want to engage in conversation, because she can't actually hear what the other person is saying, and therefore avoids the situation.
Also, I heard on a radio 4 discussion that hearing loss does lead to cognitive decline, because of the lack of psychological stimulation.
I would say, do your best to persuade her to followup on a hearing check and have hearing aids if recommended. I guess it's a hopeless task if she can't admit to the situation. I believe NHS hearing aids are very good these days, as well as discrete, and should make an enormous difference, if that is the initial cause of the apparent lack of interest in others.

Well, go on a trip to somewhere nice, then, and cheer them up. Go to the cinema with them. I doubt they'll complain about migrants all the way through the film if it's one they're enjoying. 😆If they do complain, buy them some popcorn and a drink. That should do the trick.
Honestly, I do find a lot of this thread a bit OTT.

My mum lost most of the top range of her hearing after a bout of COVID last year. 18 months wait for NHS aids.

My gran was hard of hearing most of her life as she lost hearing after having scarlet fever as a child. My mum is 77 and is halfway through a degree. Her hearing loss has not caused cognitive decline.

Oh yes !!! My mum gets angry if my dad gets a Drs appt before she does 🙈🙈🙈🤣

Yes and also children and football are (generally) pretty inoffensive/ positive/ happy things to make conversation about.

The topics your parents talk about are negative, controversial things that rile people up.

Doubt it's good for their stress levels or blood pressure to be living in a world where this is all they think about.

Yes isn't it. It's exactly the way many people on this thread have been talking about their parents. The irony.

I do hope the children on this chat, who have been slagging off / nasty about their own parents, get left nothing in their parents' wills.

Any parents reading this chat who get told what to say / how to think, by their ungrateful brats - cut them out of your will. But don't tell them you've done so - that's the fun part!

I'm not sorry for being concerned over how unhappy this is making my parents. I don't see how that means I deserve to be cut out of a will.

This is not a given. I a post menopausal, in my 60's, and still live the same sort of life that I did 30 years ago. I work in central London, go to the gym, have various hobbies and interests, go to gigs, and live a full and active life. My parents were fully active up until their mid 80's. Stop thinking yourself old!