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To think that Harry and his kids should have security

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Noras · 15/09/2026 12:24

Frankly I don’t want another year of wondering if Harry will attend another event or stay in a palace or will or will not get security etc.

For the sake of our sanity the matter needs to be resolved.

Harry could become a working royal and Meghan could go back to being an actress - they are then both happy

Harry and the kids get protection and Meghan can pay for her own

If Harry and the PoW could make up it would make next year much better ( 30 year anniversary)

Meghan needs to stop trading ( in my opinion) on the memory of Diana ( if it is true she wanted to do a speech re Diana etc) Leave Diana to the boys only.

There are innocent children involved and they do need protecting.

Harry needs to change his attitude and stop fighting the system for the sake of the nations sanity. Meghan has to realise that she upset many of us re the courtesy thing etc and the attack on the POW and POW.

The POW needs to realise that Harry can’t steal his thunder.

Everyone needs to think of King Charles who frankly needs to have a break from all this.

I am not a Meghan supporter or a bot. I just can’t bear another 3 months of frenzied speculation. My head is done in.

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Minasama · 15/09/2026 22:15

I agree with you.

mumumental · 15/09/2026 22:15

I can’t understand why the richest family in Britain struggles with this. They’re fucking skinflints, all of them.

Didimum · 15/09/2026 22:14

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:39

Fair enough. I think you're wrong and have confusedly allowed yourself to get all caught up in the games H and M have been playing.

I'll stop trying to point out facts about the workings of armed security in the UK and let you get on with it.

I don’t read anything about Harry and Megan. My opinion is based solely on what children in this amount of public eye should be afforded compared to their counterparts. End of.

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 22:02

Obviously at times roads are closed and the lights come on but that’s for big things generally and events.

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 22:01

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:58

So you believe that the working royals should get more security than they do at the moment? It is interesting the range of opinions.

I’d assume they have general security as in look at where they live it’s basically in secure compounds that means there is security there all the time. The schools royals and celebs attended again will have some sort of basic security.

Kate was pictured driving the school run, bus up her bum one detail officer as passenger.

Id assume when shopping even then is likely one waiting in her car or also “shopping”.

Just real security blends in on a day to day basis it isn’t closing roads and flashing lights.

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:58

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 21:51

I think all armed security should be via threat.

General security for working royals and their families.

edit.

And by family I mean those in their direct family as in partner and minor children.

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So you believe that the working royals should get more security than they do at the moment? It is interesting the range of opinions.

Somethinggg · 15/09/2026 21:56

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:21

Harry does not want his security to be paid for by the public purse. He wants to be allowed to pay for armed security.

I wonder whether that's really true, but either way he shouldn't be able to because it shouldn't be for sale. To anyone.

If he needs it, we should all pay. If he doesn't, letting him buy it anyway means opening the doors to other people who don't need it also being able to buy it. That's a bad idea.

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 21:51

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:29

This raises another question. When should Charlotte and Louis’s protection cease? At 18? When George has children? Should they only have it now if they’re with their parents or brother, but not for their own trips to school? It’s all so vague.

I think all armed security should be via threat.

General security for working royals and their families.

edit.

And by family I mean those in their direct family as in partner and minor children.

Vannin · 15/09/2026 21:45

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:18

I didn’t say they should get it because Harry and Megan want them to. I think they should get it regardless, and the OP asked if we think they should – simple as that. Harry and Megan could say they don’t think they need it tomorrow and I would still think they do.

Maybe lay off Megan’s Insta page for a while if it’s getting you a bit too riled up.

Maybe Meghan should lay off putting her kids on Instagram? They’re just young kids. They can’t consent.

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:39

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:35

And - again - the thread is about whether we think they should get it. It’s no more simple or complicated than that. Maybe you shouldn’t give it so much head space.

Fair enough. I think you're wrong and have confusedly allowed yourself to get all caught up in the games H and M have been playing.

I'll stop trying to point out facts about the workings of armed security in the UK and let you get on with it.

AlexandraCarrington · 15/09/2026 21:36

Not because I think succession to the throne is important, but because they are child who haven’t had the choice to be placed in the contentious life they have been placed in.

But what is the risk to them? That is what RAVEC bases its decisions on, not who they are.

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:35

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:28

I don't look at Meghan's Instagram, I avoid them in the media as far as possible. It's currently difficult to avoid because in the space of a few weeks they've managed to cram in enough drama for several lifetimes

And riled up? I'm trying to point out that in the UK people get armed security because they need it, not because they want it. Which you say you don't think should happen, at the same time as thinking it should happen in the case of H and M.

And - again - the thread is about whether we think they should get it. It’s no more simple or complicated than that. Maybe you shouldn’t give it so much head space.

Londonrach1 · 15/09/2026 21:33

Why?

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:32

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 21:16

You really think the what 6th and 7th in line have an equal threat level to the 2nd, 3rd and 4th in line?

Unless something bloody terrible happened they are basically irrelevant.

Yep, I do. Not because I think succession to the throne is important, but because they are child who haven’t had the choice to be placed in the contentious life they have been placed in. And yes, I do think public opinion and media-whipped up frenzy is worse for Harry and Megan, and vis-à-vis their children.

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:31

fridaynightzzz · 15/09/2026 21:20

And Andrew, Anne and Edward were the children of a queen and were only getting it when working.
Why is Harry set apart, because of his behaviour?

They won’t want security just for the children. That’s not the point of all this. Harry wants full RAVEC status.

Andrew and his children did get it.

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:29

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 21:16

You really think the what 6th and 7th in line have an equal threat level to the 2nd, 3rd and 4th in line?

Unless something bloody terrible happened they are basically irrelevant.

This raises another question. When should Charlotte and Louis’s protection cease? At 18? When George has children? Should they only have it now if they’re with their parents or brother, but not for their own trips to school? It’s all so vague.

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:28

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:18

I didn’t say they should get it because Harry and Megan want them to. I think they should get it regardless, and the OP asked if we think they should – simple as that. Harry and Megan could say they don’t think they need it tomorrow and I would still think they do.

Maybe lay off Megan’s Insta page for a while if it’s getting you a bit too riled up.

I don't look at Meghan's Instagram, I avoid them in the media as far as possible. It's currently difficult to avoid because in the space of a few weeks they've managed to cram in enough drama for several lifetimes

And riled up? I'm trying to point out that in the UK people get armed security because they need it, not because they want it. Which you say you don't think should happen, at the same time as thinking it should happen in the case of H and M.

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:27

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:14

Harry and Meghan can pay for private security like other celebrities, including many far more famous and recognisable than they are.They will get tax payer funded armed security if and when it's deemed necessary by people who actually know about these things, not because Harry is a paranoid mess and M is an attention obsessed narcissist.

If they want armed security 24/7, they should return to the US where anyone can wander around with a gun. Luckily laws are far, far stricter about it in the UK.

Who is more recognisable and famous than a man whose wedding was viewed by nearly two billion people, whose father is head of 15 states and whose mother was the most photographed in the world, and who had a prominent role at her funeral
watched by 2.5 billion people?

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:22

AplineDaisies · 15/09/2026 20:59

Of course H and M and their children need security. You cannot compare them Zara Philips or other Royals. The amount of hatred on Mumset towards them is monumental. I can't imagine what some more extreme nutters out there would to them given half the chance.

It’s like done posters feel they’ve been personally slighted by them.

AI41 · 15/09/2026 21:21

yorktown · 15/09/2026 20:59

Could they maybe set up a gofundme?

I don't mind if they have security but I'd rather it wasn't publicly funded.

Harry does not want his security to be paid for by the public purse. He wants to be allowed to pay for armed security.

fridaynightzzz · 15/09/2026 21:20

afishcalledpanda · 15/09/2026 20:33

Agreed OP, son of the king FFS, not something he chose, whether or not he's a working royal, he's at risk.

And Andrew, Anne and Edward were the children of a queen and were only getting it when working.
Why is Harry set apart, because of his behaviour?

They won’t want security just for the children. That’s not the point of all this. Harry wants full RAVEC status.

TheWytch · 15/09/2026 21:19

If he wants protection then he needs to pay for it.

There are too many people struggling at the moment to pay for the bare necessities of life so the last thing we should be doing is spending taxpayers money on this pair and their family.

They have more money than most of us can ever dream of yet they want us to pay towards their luxury lifestyle.

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:18

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:14

Harry and Meghan can pay for private security like other celebrities, including many far more famous and recognisable than they are.They will get tax payer funded armed security if and when it's deemed necessary by people who actually know about these things, not because Harry is a paranoid mess and M is an attention obsessed narcissist.

If they want armed security 24/7, they should return to the US where anyone can wander around with a gun. Luckily laws are far, far stricter about it in the UK.

I didn’t say they should get it because Harry and Megan want them to. I think they should get it regardless, and the OP asked if we think they should – simple as that. Harry and Megan could say they don’t think they need it tomorrow and I would still think they do.

Maybe lay off Megan’s Insta page for a while if it’s getting you a bit too riled up.

Holeymoley28 · 15/09/2026 21:16

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:02

No, I haven’t thought about it much at all. Probably they should get the same arrangement as George, Charlotte and Louis, whatever that is – and I believe it should not be disclosed for obvious security reasons.

You really think the what 6th and 7th in line have an equal threat level to the 2nd, 3rd and 4th in line?

Unless something bloody terrible happened they are basically irrelevant.

Noodledog · 15/09/2026 21:14

Didimum · 15/09/2026 21:06

Almost all those people would have had either police or private security at points during the course of their public engagements, performances or events.

Harry and Meghan can pay for private security like other celebrities, including many far more famous and recognisable than they are.They will get tax payer funded armed security if and when it's deemed necessary by people who actually know about these things, not because Harry is a paranoid mess and M is an attention obsessed narcissist.

If they want armed security 24/7, they should return to the US where anyone can wander around with a gun. Luckily laws are far, far stricter about it in the UK.

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