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Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:45

moleinthehouse · 15/09/2026 15:33

Wait up, that’s not really what i said now, is it?

What she did was shameful, I just pointed that out to the posted who said the athlete should not be shamed. I was responding so using the language used by that person. I was really pointing out the difference between the act of shitting yourself - ok fine whatever, and shitting yourself and spreading it in shared spaces and in equipment used by others. - not fine. A lot of posters are focused on it being an accident, and are completely missing the fact that what happened next was quite deliberate. A choice.

“For continuing with her event and getting shit all overcharged equipment and spaces? Absolutely shameful”

so do you want her shamed or not

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:44

AnswerIsNo · 15/09/2026 15:33

shame them until they top themselves?

I think you've taken too many swigs from the jug of melodrama.. and if you go back and re-read my post, you'll clearly see I made the distinction between i/an accident during an intense sporting even and ii/making the decision to continue covered in your own poo, without any regard for the health of your fellow sporting cohort

in my world, if you shit yourself in the middle of an intense sporting event, you stop and go get cleaned up to the point you won't spread ecoli around the place.. which usually means getting a thorough hot shower with soap

or you can boast about it and say "by whatever means necessary" and get suitably flamed

hope that clarifies my world

Edited

It’s done now though isn’t it? Yet you’re challenging a poster who is suggesting it’s time to leave her alone and stop shaming her because you believe, in your world, we need to continue shaming a young woman in front of the world

LaLoba · 15/09/2026 15:41

Lovelyview · 15/09/2026 15:33

Some poo incidents in the Tour de France for your entertainment. Greg Le Mond's diarrhea sound especially grim. 😬
https://www.cyclingweekly.com/racing/mathieu-van-der-poels-protest-poo-and-four-other-famous-toilet-stops-in-cycling-history

1982 is how far back they had to go for a cyclist actually shitting themself. Once in 40 years doesn’t exactly make it a regular occurrence in the sport.
And any idiot knows not to eat fruit on the bike 😬

moleinthehouse · 15/09/2026 15:33

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:27

Why do you want someone shamed? A total stranger who lives on the other side of the world? What do you get out of knowing she’s been publicly shamed?

Wait up, that’s not really what i said now, is it?

What she did was shameful, I just pointed that out to the posted who said the athlete should not be shamed. I was responding so using the language used by that person. I was really pointing out the difference between the act of shitting yourself - ok fine whatever, and shitting yourself and spreading it in shared spaces and in equipment used by others. - not fine. A lot of posters are focused on it being an accident, and are completely missing the fact that what happened next was quite deliberate. A choice.

AnswerIsNo · 15/09/2026 15:33

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:23

What do we do in your world, shame them until they top themselves?

shame them until they top themselves?

I think you've taken too many swigs from the jug of melodrama.. and if you go back and re-read my post, you'll clearly see I made the distinction between i/an accident during an intense sporting even and ii/making the decision to continue covered in your own poo, without any regard for the health of your fellow sporting cohort

in my world, if you shit yourself in the middle of an intense sporting event, you stop and go get cleaned up to the point you won't spread ecoli around the place.. which usually means getting a thorough hot shower with soap

or you can boast about it and say "by whatever means necessary" and get suitably flamed

hope that clarifies my world

DollopOfFun · 15/09/2026 15:30

It's revolting.

Bodies are weird and wonderful things, any one of us could be caught short at any given time ...

But ANY situation that didn't involve me running off to clean up as quickly as possible, limiting who could actually see my predicament would 💯 need to involve several semi automatic guns / and or a bomb vest xx

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:27

moleinthehouse · 15/09/2026 15:26

She should not be shamed for what?

For shitting herself? Of course she should not be shamed.

For continuing with her event and getting shit all overcharged equipment and spaces? Absolutely shameful.

Oh, and it’s not up to you whether people discuss the situation, thankfully.

Why do you want someone shamed? A total stranger who lives on the other side of the world? What do you get out of knowing she’s been publicly shamed?

moleinthehouse · 15/09/2026 15:26

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:06

The athlete shouldn't be shamed for this and I find this thread to be in very bad taste. And no, I will not scroll on by because I want to comment to that affect.

I have just read a few news stories about this and it appears that the organisers (Hydrox) have made a statement that the event was unprecedented and they made a mistake in not reacting immediate during the race.

The athlete herself has also made a statement.

There should not be anything further to write/say about this.

She should not be shamed for what?

For shitting herself? Of course she should not be shamed.

For continuing with her event and getting shit all overcharged equipment and spaces? Absolutely shameful.

Oh, and it’s not up to you whether people discuss the situation, thankfully.

KidsAndDogsGalore · 15/09/2026 15:25

Jaxhog · 15/09/2026 15:22

And then I'm thinking, what if it had been an unexpected period?

You are joking, right?

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:23

AnswerIsNo · 15/09/2026 15:20

"There should not be anything further to write/say about this."

Only in your world

If someone thinks shitting themselves mid-competition and not calling a halt (because 'accidents' do happen) and instead, decides that going for glory is more important, they may not be the "dedicated athlete at the top of their game", they think they are, but more "selfish and unhygienic bastard that does not mind putting the health of their fellow competitors at risk".

If this is the hard-end of the culture of Hyrox, then those people, including the organisers have taken a sharp deviation from normality.

Crossfit and Hyrox does attract the loons though - all the moves, done badly and with none of the safety. Just another fad sport, encouraged by social media

I like my sports not covered in other people's shit. YMMV

Edited

What do we do in your world, shame them until they top themselves?

Jaxhog · 15/09/2026 15:22

And then I'm thinking, what if it had been an unexpected period?

AnswerIsNo · 15/09/2026 15:20

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:06

The athlete shouldn't be shamed for this and I find this thread to be in very bad taste. And no, I will not scroll on by because I want to comment to that affect.

I have just read a few news stories about this and it appears that the organisers (Hydrox) have made a statement that the event was unprecedented and they made a mistake in not reacting immediate during the race.

The athlete herself has also made a statement.

There should not be anything further to write/say about this.

"There should not be anything further to write/say about this."

Only in your world

If someone thinks shitting themselves mid-competition and not calling a halt (because 'accidents' do happen) and instead, decides that going for glory is more important, they may not be the "dedicated athlete at the top of their game", they think they are, but more "selfish and unhygienic bastard that does not mind putting the health of their fellow competitors at risk".

If this is the hard-end of the culture of Hyrox, then those people, including the organisers have taken a sharp deviation from normality.

Crossfit and Hyrox does attract the loons though - all the moves, done badly and with none of the safety. Just another fad sport, encouraged by social media

I like my sports not covered in other people's shit. YMMV

ExtraOnions · 15/09/2026 15:20

No decent Human Being, who is in full control of their faculties, should think that spreading their shit everywhere, for others to walk / sit in, and for others to clean up, is in anyway ok.

Seen a lot of Hyrox content at the moment … thing looks like a cult, with the rules of a prison camp.

Jaxhog · 15/09/2026 15:20

Hmm. I think she was brave/crazy to continue. But, and it is a big but, how did this adversely affect her competitors? Were they inconvenienced by the 'product' e.g. smell, appearance etc.? Could the equipment, including the ground, be contaminated? Could they have been put at risk by infection? If the answer is yes to any of these, then no, she shouldn't have been allowed to continue.

pastadish · 15/09/2026 15:18

Did other people behind her use the same equipment or lie on the floor after she did? Because I can’t imagine anyone would be remotely ok with that!

Jc2001 · 15/09/2026 15:17

KidsAndDogsGalore · 15/09/2026 15:14

I do dog sports, if my dog goes in the ring, we're automatically disqualified.

Maybe we need similar for humans.

It's a sad reflection on our society if athletes are so without self awareness that we need to build that into sports as a rule.

FeliciaFancybottom · 15/09/2026 15:16

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:13

...and that is why the organisers should have intervened but they did not and have apologised for that.

She's presumably an intelligent grown-up; she should have made the decision herself and shouldn't need anyone telling her she needed to leave.

catsarethefuture · 15/09/2026 15:14

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:12

Yes, she has.

You mean ‘a win is a win’? I haven't seen anything else from her so please do share a link

KidsAndDogsGalore · 15/09/2026 15:14

I do dog sports, if my dog goes in the ring, we're automatically disqualified.

Maybe we need similar for humans.

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 15:13

HJ40 · 15/09/2026 15:11

So you don’t think she should apologise for negatively affecting other competitors? How bizarre.

It’s not bizarre when you consider all the people whose lives have been ruined or ended by public online shaming. I agree, let’s lay off her. No one deserves the weight of this criticism.

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:13

FeliciaFancybottom · 15/09/2026 15:11

She should be ashamed of carrying on covered in shit. The right thing to do would be to forfeit and return to the changing rooms to clean herself up.
No one else should have been made to participate with someone who had shit running down her legs.

...and that is why the organisers should have intervened but they did not and have apologised for that.

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:12

catsarethefuture · 15/09/2026 15:11

She hasn’t made a statement

Yes, she has.

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:12

HJ40 · 15/09/2026 15:11

So you don’t think she should apologise for negatively affecting other competitors? How bizarre.

I don't think that is up to her, and it is all in the statement made by Hydrox.

catsarethefuture · 15/09/2026 15:11

GoodGirlFaith · 15/09/2026 15:06

The athlete shouldn't be shamed for this and I find this thread to be in very bad taste. And no, I will not scroll on by because I want to comment to that affect.

I have just read a few news stories about this and it appears that the organisers (Hydrox) have made a statement that the event was unprecedented and they made a mistake in not reacting immediate during the race.

The athlete herself has also made a statement.

There should not be anything further to write/say about this.

She hasn’t made a statement