So this isn’t a big deal but I’m curious what others think.
My partner and I are getting married next year, we used to work together and are inviting some people from the office. DH still works in my previous work place but I know most of the people we are inviting from there.
One of the woman pretty much exclusively goes by a diminutive of her name, think an Isabella who goes by Bella or a Francesca who goes by Cesca. This is the name on her work email, her LinkedIn etc, I have almost never heard anyone use the full name. Another goes casually by a diminutive but uses the full name as her LinkedIn, work email etc.
I decided to address accordingly so using just the diminutive for person A but the full name for person B.
DP thinks this is strange and I should have either used diminutive for both or full name for both.
Was I unreasonable to address them the way I did?