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To be totally addicted to romantasy books?

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yourethemoon · 14/09/2026 14:44

I know I know, they’re not exactly literary greats.

But I can’t get enough of them. I’m on my fifth romantasy series back to back, I’ve read 19 books in the last 6 weeks! I just eat them up. My partner thinks I should broaden my horizons a bit because, in his words, it’s “fairy porn” without much value.

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Ponderingwindow · 15/09/2026 13:35

There is no harm in loving a particular genre.

Often particular genres of books are dismissed as being light or unworthy when in fact they allow authors the opportunity to explore deeper themes. The framework of the genre can act as a screen for subversive ideas. Another author might use world-building as a way to entice readers to listen to social commentary.

Fairy smut isn’t always what it appears. Sometimes it is, but not always.

Polyestered · 15/09/2026 13:45

Throne of glass is an epic complex amazing world and storyline, with barely any sex at all! It definitely doesn’t deserve to be classified as “fairy smut”

MadMAGA · 15/09/2026 15:26

TOG definitely has its smutty moments - R and A on the beach, anyone? It's not just falling from one sex scene into another though, there's a lot of world building, character development and action.

GameOfJones · 15/09/2026 19:16

DialSquare · 15/09/2026 13:29

Have you read The Night Prince yet? I liked both but prefer the second book. Looking forward to the 3rd!

Yes! I agree I preferred it and am fully Team Blake 🤣. I'll have to do a re-read as she's just announced The Wolf Queen will be out next spring.

DialSquare · 15/09/2026 19:35

GameOfJones · 15/09/2026 19:16

Yes! I agree I preferred it and am fully Team Blake 🤣. I'll have to do a re-read as she's just announced The Wolf Queen will be out next spring.

Team Blake here too!

GameOfJones · 15/09/2026 22:46

Viviennemary · 15/09/2026 11:44

There's a lot of books here. I want one to try. Which one? Thanks.Not too fantastical.

A lot of people start with A Court of Thorns and Roses (ACOTAR) ....there are five books in the series so far and the next one is coming out next month. The only caveat is that I know lots of people that didn't like the first book and stopped reading the series (madness!!) but book two is where it really gets good! I loved it from book one so you could be the same.

I'd perhaps look for a Romantasy standalone novel rather than jumping straight in with a series to see if you like it or not. Something like Phantasma by Kaylie Smith? It does have an interconnected second novel, Enchantra which I enjoyed even more but they focus on different characters so you could read Phantasma on its own and go from there. The basic premise is a woman searching for her sister that enters a deadly content inside a haunted mansion to try to save her....and then a handsome ghost turns up (of course! 🤣)

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 15/09/2026 23:54

I don’t really know anything about romantasy but if you like it carry on! Your partner shouldn’t judge your tastes or try to move you onto something else that he prefers.

You enjoy it!

jezlifecoach · 16/09/2026 00:11

Shield of Sparrows is a really good one! Hated fantasy before and got given it to try thinking I’d hate it… nah I enjoyed it. Just finished rose and thorns… gonna order the next one this week!

garlictwist · 16/09/2026 00:53

My friend is addicted to fairy porn. I thought I’d give one a go and I’m afraid I found it dreadful! But I was impressed how people can suspend believe and enjoy this stuff. Maybe I’m not imaginative enough for wizards.

PaperFlyingFucks · 16/09/2026 20:39

I am so glad I came across this thread.

I've raced through ACOTAR and am now ⅓ way through the second book! I'm keeping place for other recommendations in the same genre.

I'm enjoying it and that's what's important!

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