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To be totally addicted to romantasy books?

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yourethemoon · 14/09/2026 14:44

I know I know, they’re not exactly literary greats.

But I can’t get enough of them. I’m on my fifth romantasy series back to back, I’ve read 19 books in the last 6 weeks! I just eat them up. My partner thinks I should broaden my horizons a bit because, in his words, it’s “fairy porn” without much value.

AIBU?

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PaperFlyingFucks · 16/09/2026 20:39

I am so glad I came across this thread.

I've raced through ACOTAR and am now ⅓ way through the second book! I'm keeping place for other recommendations in the same genre.

I'm enjoying it and that's what's important!

garlictwist · 16/09/2026 00:53

My friend is addicted to fairy porn. I thought I’d give one a go and I’m afraid I found it dreadful! But I was impressed how people can suspend believe and enjoy this stuff. Maybe I’m not imaginative enough for wizards.

jezlifecoach · 16/09/2026 00:11

Shield of Sparrows is a really good one! Hated fantasy before and got given it to try thinking I’d hate it… nah I enjoyed it. Just finished rose and thorns… gonna order the next one this week!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 15/09/2026 23:54

I don’t really know anything about romantasy but if you like it carry on! Your partner shouldn’t judge your tastes or try to move you onto something else that he prefers.

You enjoy it!

GameOfJones · 15/09/2026 22:46

Viviennemary · 15/09/2026 11:44

There's a lot of books here. I want one to try. Which one? Thanks.Not too fantastical.

A lot of people start with A Court of Thorns and Roses (ACOTAR) ....there are five books in the series so far and the next one is coming out next month. The only caveat is that I know lots of people that didn't like the first book and stopped reading the series (madness!!) but book two is where it really gets good! I loved it from book one so you could be the same.

I'd perhaps look for a Romantasy standalone novel rather than jumping straight in with a series to see if you like it or not. Something like Phantasma by Kaylie Smith? It does have an interconnected second novel, Enchantra which I enjoyed even more but they focus on different characters so you could read Phantasma on its own and go from there. The basic premise is a woman searching for her sister that enters a deadly content inside a haunted mansion to try to save her....and then a handsome ghost turns up (of course! 🤣)

DialSquare · 15/09/2026 19:35

GameOfJones · 15/09/2026 19:16

Yes! I agree I preferred it and am fully Team Blake 🤣. I'll have to do a re-read as she's just announced The Wolf Queen will be out next spring.

Team Blake here too!

GameOfJones · 15/09/2026 19:16

DialSquare · 15/09/2026 13:29

Have you read The Night Prince yet? I liked both but prefer the second book. Looking forward to the 3rd!

Yes! I agree I preferred it and am fully Team Blake 🤣. I'll have to do a re-read as she's just announced The Wolf Queen will be out next spring.

MadMAGA · 15/09/2026 15:26

TOG definitely has its smutty moments - R and A on the beach, anyone? It's not just falling from one sex scene into another though, there's a lot of world building, character development and action.

Polyestered · 15/09/2026 13:45

Throne of glass is an epic complex amazing world and storyline, with barely any sex at all! It definitely doesn’t deserve to be classified as “fairy smut”

Ponderingwindow · 15/09/2026 13:35

There is no harm in loving a particular genre.

Often particular genres of books are dismissed as being light or unworthy when in fact they allow authors the opportunity to explore deeper themes. The framework of the genre can act as a screen for subversive ideas. Another author might use world-building as a way to entice readers to listen to social commentary.

Fairy smut isn’t always what it appears. Sometimes it is, but not always.

DialSquare · 15/09/2026 13:29

GameOfJones · 14/09/2026 22:33

I read my first Romantasy novel at the end of 2024 (The Wolf King by Lauren Palphreyman) and was hooked from there.

I totally agree with a PP that if many of these books were written by men they'd just be called fantasy as "fairy smut" seems to only be directed at books written by female authors. When The Moon Hatched for example really is a high fantasy novel and some of these books have way less sex in them than Game of Thrones does!

Some of my Romantasy reads have been absolutely excellent. I read Liv Zander's Feathers so Vicious duology in a weekend.....but that one is very dark so I'd check the trigger warnings.

I've also read Alchemised recently and loved it. It annoys me no end that it is often looked down upon as being smut when it's actually a hugely complex political book about prisoners of war and trauma. But if a fantasy book is written by a woman and has a couple of sex scenes in it, it is derided.

Anyway, some books I've loved purely as an easy read and for the romance and sex elements. Who doesn't like a bit of escapism?!

I need to have a break from Romantasy every couple of books so I do mix things up but I'm currently heading off to bed to read the next chapter of Brimstone after loving Quicksilver last year.

Have you read The Night Prince yet? I liked both but prefer the second book. Looking forward to the 3rd!

yourethemoon · 15/09/2026 13:26

Polyestered · 15/09/2026 11:45

OMG I’ve found my people - can somebody please just talk about throne of glass with me?!? None of my real life friends read this sort of stuff . I’m only halfway thru the TOG series and I am just so emotionally over involved and obsessed 😭 so much better than ACOTAR once it gets going.

I love it. So so much

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runnerducky · 15/09/2026 12:16

ToG is my Roman Empire.

Polyestered · 15/09/2026 11:45

OMG I’ve found my people - can somebody please just talk about throne of glass with me?!? None of my real life friends read this sort of stuff . I’m only halfway thru the TOG series and I am just so emotionally over involved and obsessed 😭 so much better than ACOTAR once it gets going.

Viviennemary · 15/09/2026 11:44

There's a lot of books here. I want one to try. Which one? Thanks.Not too fantastical.

HardStopAt4 · 15/09/2026 11:38

You should definitely read what you like OP. I tried a bit of romantasy and it wasn't my cup of tea, but I binge on fluffy regency romances when I need to de-stress.

I use on my kindle though so you can't really tell what I'm reading unless you are up close!

GameOfJones · 14/09/2026 22:33

I read my first Romantasy novel at the end of 2024 (The Wolf King by Lauren Palphreyman) and was hooked from there.

I totally agree with a PP that if many of these books were written by men they'd just be called fantasy as "fairy smut" seems to only be directed at books written by female authors. When The Moon Hatched for example really is a high fantasy novel and some of these books have way less sex in them than Game of Thrones does!

Some of my Romantasy reads have been absolutely excellent. I read Liv Zander's Feathers so Vicious duology in a weekend.....but that one is very dark so I'd check the trigger warnings.

I've also read Alchemised recently and loved it. It annoys me no end that it is often looked down upon as being smut when it's actually a hugely complex political book about prisoners of war and trauma. But if a fantasy book is written by a woman and has a couple of sex scenes in it, it is derided.

Anyway, some books I've loved purely as an easy read and for the romance and sex elements. Who doesn't like a bit of escapism?!

I need to have a break from Romantasy every couple of books so I do mix things up but I'm currently heading off to bed to read the next chapter of Brimstone after loving Quicksilver last year.

MadMAGA · 14/09/2026 21:58

YANBU. I read all sorts, fiction and NF, but have no shame in admitting to loving romantasy. I just finished The Bridge Kingdom series and will miss it a lot!

DialSquare · 14/09/2026 21:53

DialSquare · 14/09/2026 19:01

I believe many of us were hooked by A Court Of Thorns And Roses (ACOTAR) so that’s a good place to start. Even if it’s not the best book in the series, it makes you want to read more. I started there then, A Throne Of Glass, then Crescent City which are all by Sarah J Maas.

Just to add, these are all names of different series of books. So best to read the next book in the series before moving on to the others. Throne of Glass is the only completed series though.

fuckeditupbadly · 14/09/2026 20:05

The only issue I have is how samey they are. In the bookshop its a wall of 'The something of something and something'. Words like fae, fire, forge, heat, crown, court, throne, thorn, wolf, blade, sword, spell, spark, magic, in various orders. I like them, they're fun, but the level of 'spice' somewhat detracts from the story sometimes, I tend to skip over it and I wander off to more historical fiction for a while.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 14/09/2026 20:03

I read fact (just started Make Me Well, by Xand van Tulleken), fiction, older fiction, and love dystopian fantasy to disappear into. My absolute favourite is Anne Bishop, all of her series, but especially The Black Jewels books. I've recently finished the Sarah Maas House of... trilogy, and I'd add to your lists of authors with CL Wilson, Grace Darven, Holly Black, Naomi Novik, and Juliet Marillier.

TheBookShelf · 14/09/2026 19:58

I have an English Lit degree and am a firm fan of romantasy and other light, escapist fiction if you enjoy it. I do! I have also read most of the heavy 19th century classic novels. I love the latter, as they make me think and analyse, but they aren't at all what i want to read when I just need some relaxing downtime and a mental rest. Light fantasy/romantasy fills that space for me, along with classic crime fiction. Different types of books can serve different purposes in your reading/emotional life. I think humans are wired to need and appreciate storytelling, and romantasy is one enjoyable outlet amongst many for that. From a literary perspective romantasy owes something to much earlier sources such as traditional fairy tales, gothic novels etc, but you don't need to be aware of that background to thoroughly enjoy romantasy on its own terms. Reading is reading, whatever the book.

Brokenfurnitureandroses · 14/09/2026 19:54

life is hard enough. If you enjoy doing something then how can it be “without much value”? Keep on enjoying them and don’t mind anyone else.

Sunbringer · 14/09/2026 19:51

Allmarbleslost · 14/09/2026 14:55

I've been toying with giving romantasy a go. Where would be a good place to start for a romantasy virgin? I've read nothing but psychological thrillers for a very long time and im getting bored!

You’d like Rose in Chains

MadamDicey · 14/09/2026 19:25

My DH calls them book porn and he is almost right , im on book 56