Does anyone else's partner criticise their driving?

My husband hates the sat nav, doesn’t understand why I use it when he does a much better job. He’ll suddenly say, ‘You need to be in the middle lane, pull out NOW!’ And gets annoyed when I don’t because I can see an articulated lorry thundering down on us. Apparently the driver of said lorry won’t mind at all if I swerve in front of him at the last minute, as long as I’ve indicated. 🙄
’Red brake lights up ahead!’
‘Do you know it’s 40 along this road?’
‘What gear are you in?’
The list goes on.
His all time favourite criticism was that I drove with my foot permanently on the clutch (I didn’t) and I’ve advised him he needs to find something else to fixate on as my new car is an automatic. I have no doubt he will.

He had literally just passed his test (aged 50). I've been driving since I was 17. Of course the dynamic was that I was in 'instructor' role.

I’m probably worse at this than my husband 😂

I have shouted at DH to stop this in the past (& we never shout at one another). He wouldn't do it to his friends. How does he think I manage to identify a parking spot when he isn't there? It drives me mad. Generally my DH isn't a critical (of me) man at all so I don't know what comes over him in the passenger seat.

I think this is why some women lose their driving confidence as they age.

Tell him to stop. Firmly.

I find DH's driving extremely irritating because he is always in the wrong gear and he tends to take his foot on and off the accelerator and it's infuriating! And sometimes I can't help but coment. And he tells me to stop. Firmly. And much though that annoys me, he's not wrong.

In your case, x100. Either you are a competent driver in which case, even if he finds some of the things you do annoying, tough. Or you are not, in which case, he should not be driving with you.

Incidentally, on lon gdrives, I mostly drive. I can't bear to be in the passenger seat when DH is driving and it consistently adds at least 10-15% time to the drive because he has zero ability to a) maintain speed and b) he's not proactive so doesn't think ahead. This avoids me being irritated with him, and him being irritated with me being irritated with him.

Mine does sometimes comment when I’m driving his car, it’s a manual and although I have a manual license I’ve driven automatic for 6 years now. So I get the odd comments on gear changes. Generally he buttons it as I don’t drink so I always drive back from places and if he doesn’t like it he can stay sober and drive