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To wonder how people can cope with smells worse than this!?

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DurhamDime · 11/09/2026 15:30

Just got home from being out for the day.

As I entered the dining room I was hit by an awful smell. Immediately started looking around for a mess. Maybe the cat had thrown up etc. Nothing.

So shone a torch under the side table/cabinet. Tiny dead mouse.

Have got it out and thrown it away. It wasn’t badly decomposed or anything, not actually decomposing visibly yet thank goodness.

But the smell was awful. Like a food bin in hot weather. I disinfected the floor and I’m now sat in another room, outside doors open in both rooms, and I can still smell it (or feel like I can….)

Not the first time we’ve had it. (Aren’t cats great 🤣)

Every time this happens though I can’t help but think how awful those houses you see where everything they move there are dead mice/rats etc. Or worse, how awful it must be for people who have to find (and smell) dead bodies.

Just crazy how bad one teeny mouse can smell.

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Foolish1984 · 11/09/2026 19:34

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 11/09/2026 16:04

I teach a student who smells like this. I described their smell as the vegetable drawer in the fridge when you’ve forgotten about something and it turns putrid, but abandoned mouse (we also have a cat) also works.

It’s a long way between “I can’t be arsed washing my hair today so I’ll stretch it until tomorrow” or “I’ve cycled in and smell a bit sweaty” to smelling of actual decomposition and my mind actually boggles.

Do you not think you have a duty of care to report this? Or are they an adult?

Muffsies · 11/09/2026 19:15

Phineyj · 11/09/2026 16:28

I worked in a place where a mouse died under the stairs in a completely inaccessible place and had to smell it for MONTHS!

We had that in my old workplace, too. It was a very old building with lots of little gaps, we couldn't work out where it was. Once the smell finally went the flies all hatched. How many flies can emerge from a dead mouse? The answer is way more than you are thinking.

Periperi2025 · 11/09/2026 18:53

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 11/09/2026 16:48

I'm all right with the smell of death - I can cope with that, and muckspreading - living in the countryside those smells are common. The one that gets me is stale wee. When I worked in the supermarket we had one customer, an otherwise very well turned out older man, who smelled so strongly of urine that customers in the queue would back off and I had to breathe through my mouth to serve him over the counter. He clearly had no idea how bad he smelled and I can only conclude that he was drying out and rewearing incontinence underwear.

I (Paramedic) went to a mentally ill alcoholic who had urine of various ages in bowls, glasses and bottles throughout the house, the floor, walls and toilet were covered with diarrohea. There was a lovely community first responder at scene who prewarned me, but even so I walked in, walked out again, took a deep breath, composed myself and went back in, my eyes where literally stinging and watering.

We had a regular caller 'the reverand' who was a chronic alcoholic and wholey unpleasent man, but to his credit he did try to make healthy dietary choices when he was soberish, the problem was he'd always pick up alcohol at the same time, and depending how desperate he was for the drink would determine how far past the front door his shopping made it, and therefore there would be food in various states of decomposition throughout the downstairs. He was particularly fond of brassicas.

But in 20 years the longest deceased person I've been to is only 5 days, so I think I'm doing well there!

Nameshavebeenchangedtoprotect · 11/09/2026 18:33

I can confirm durian tastes as bad as it smells. I bought some because everyone said it was delicious. Er no.

EatingCelery · 11/09/2026 18:11

Waitingfordoggo · 11/09/2026 16:29

Sorry, bit of a darker example but I often wonder about the woman in Essex who killed her parents and then lived with the bodies for four years.

This?!?

We had to rip out built in cupboards due a dead mouse!

Katemax82 · 11/09/2026 18:09

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 11/09/2026 16:48

I'm all right with the smell of death - I can cope with that, and muckspreading - living in the countryside those smells are common. The one that gets me is stale wee. When I worked in the supermarket we had one customer, an otherwise very well turned out older man, who smelled so strongly of urine that customers in the queue would back off and I had to breathe through my mouth to serve him over the counter. He clearly had no idea how bad he smelled and I can only conclude that he was drying out and rewearing incontinence underwear.

There was a very old lady who frequented the supermarket restaurant I worked in who smelled like this

Katemax82 · 11/09/2026 18:03

We had a dead mouse in my airing cupboard for a day or 2 and it absolutely janked

BePoisedPlumUser · 11/09/2026 18:02

I work in a supermarket and a customer came in while clearly having a mental health crisis. I stayed with him for a few hours while trying to get help from the emergency services but eventually had to just put him in a taxi home. He absolutely stank though and when I got home I took my uniform off but I could still smell him so had to have a shower and wash my hair. I’ve never smelt anything like it in my life!

smallglassbottle · 11/09/2026 17:55

I used to cope with the smell of decomposing flesh when I was nursing the elderly, who sometimes had pressure sores or fungating tumours, infected legs etc. We'd put some vicks vapour rub under our noses and then put a mask on. Sometimes masks weren't available, so we'd just have the vapour rub.

With pressure area care equipment improvements, it's more unusual to come across open sores now thankfully. One of the worst smells I encountered was pancreatic enzymes from a constantly leaking vacuum dressing. I can't describe the smell, but it was all down the corridor and lasted for a long time after the person had died.

Openmouthinsertfood · 11/09/2026 17:52

Waitingfordoggo · 11/09/2026 16:43

Anyone who’s travelled in the Far East might be familiar with durian which is a fruit. It smells like decaying biological matter. I encountered it in Malaysia, where the locals claim it’s absolutely delicious, but I couldn’t get near enough to one to actually try it- the smell made me spontaneously vomit. I believe it’s banned on public transport in many places.

I think there is also a cheese which is banned on public transport in France.

My siblings partner is from Asia though they both live in the uk now and she loves durian. My sibling always goes on about how disgusting it smells! 😅It must taste nice though as his partner always buys some when it's in stock.

Periperi2025 · 11/09/2026 17:47

DurhamDime · 11/09/2026 15:30

Just got home from being out for the day.

As I entered the dining room I was hit by an awful smell. Immediately started looking around for a mess. Maybe the cat had thrown up etc. Nothing.

So shone a torch under the side table/cabinet. Tiny dead mouse.

Have got it out and thrown it away. It wasn’t badly decomposed or anything, not actually decomposing visibly yet thank goodness.

But the smell was awful. Like a food bin in hot weather. I disinfected the floor and I’m now sat in another room, outside doors open in both rooms, and I can still smell it (or feel like I can….)

Not the first time we’ve had it. (Aren’t cats great 🤣)

Every time this happens though I can’t help but think how awful those houses you see where everything they move there are dead mice/rats etc. Or worse, how awful it must be for people who have to find (and smell) dead bodies.

Just crazy how bad one teeny mouse can smell.

Just hope you never smell Gangrene!!!

Helpmechooseausername · 11/09/2026 17:46

I worked in a high street bakery back in the early 90s. There was a god awful smell that just got worse and worse, especially in the mornings. They finally realised that there were loads of dead rats behind the huge bread ovens that were decomposing, and when the ovens got turned on every morning they got cooked a little bit as well. It was horrific. Customers stopped coming in after a while but management decided to just leave the rats to carry on decomposing until there was nothing left, rather than go go to the effort of moving the ovens 🤮 I didn't stay there for long after that!

Also, same place had a fly zapper which made me jump every time. The worst was when a huge beautiful moth got stuck in it and got repeatedly zapped for ages. It absolutely stank (not as bad as the rats did though!) and fizzed away for so long we had to get a stick to flick it out!!

Bunnyofhope · 11/09/2026 17:39

RaraRachael · 11/09/2026 17:13

I remember a dead whale being washed up on a local beach. For some reasons crowds of locals ( me and my dad included) went to watch it being cut up for removal.

50 years later I can still remember that awful smell.

Ah you've beat me!! I was just going to post about finding dead seals on a beach. Shockingly bad.

chattyness · 11/09/2026 17:34

Smell memory really sticks doesn't it, we used to walk our dog along the river bank , but after a spate of really bad weather, we couldn't get down to the flat gravelly area that she used to pad across and swim from, as it was in flood for about a week. Once the floodwater subsided we were able to get down there again but were greeted by an almighty stench, looked around and there was a decomposing sheep caught in a big fallen tree branch , poor thing must have got caught in the floodwater and drowned. I've never forgotten that smell and it was 25 years ago

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 11/09/2026 17:34

Came into theatres for an early shift one morning. During the night a woman was operated on as she had a clot blocking the main artery to her intestines which had pretty much died as had no blood supply for some time. The overnight specimens hadn’t yet gone to pathology so being nosy I took the lid off a large tub containing said entrails to have a look. Believe me, the appalling stench of several pounds of dead intestines stays with you a long, long time.

Betterbeingdead · 11/09/2026 17:34

Dead birds hidden under the stairs by dear cat !
And leg ulcers

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 11/09/2026 17:30

I've looked after people with gangrene (wet and dry) in care homes. That's pretty bad.
Even worse, there was a man who died in my flats last year in the heatwave. He wasn't found for three weeks.

TheInternetIsNotAnalogue · 11/09/2026 17:30

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 11/09/2026 16:42

Welllll if you read the long , repetitive (and tedious) thread about wanting air freshener in a loo, the answer is
Open The Window !

Yeah course .

A lost potato is a pretty rank discovery too .

Forget my rat story, I actually think a rotten potato is as bad!! You have reminded me of when I house sat for my parents. There was an unreal smell.in their kitchen which turned out to be a single potato, with maggots 🤢
I can't really look at potatoes since that!

TheInternetIsNotAnalogue · 11/09/2026 17:24

When I was pregnant, and only when I was pregnant, my 'darling' cat started hiding dead rats in the house.
My sense of smell and hormones were so heightened it often made me cry!
I couldn't get that smell out of my nostrils, despite trying to sterilise the house! It is inexplicable how bad it truly was!

Gettingbysomehow · 11/09/2026 17:24

My job involves gangrene most days. You never get used to it.

TorroFerney · 11/09/2026 17:23

Waitingfordoggo · 11/09/2026 16:29

Sorry, bit of a darker example but I often wonder about the woman in Essex who killed her parents and then lived with the bodies for four years.

Yes. First dead body in a house (one that had been there a bit) my husband went to (police) he was given some petty cash and told to go and get some Vicks to put round his nostrils . This is a long time ago I think the petty cash thing probably doesn’t happen how!

I suppose after a while there’s nothing to smell. I’ve just read “the girls” they put a body in the septic tank and they can smell it.

CluelessAboutBiology · 11/09/2026 17:22

40andwingingit · 11/09/2026 16:09

I take your dead mouse and raise you a toasted bluebottle fly that hit the electric bug zapper. The sound is satisfying, the smell is not. Absolutely grim!!

The bug zapper frightens the life out of me every time it claims a victim. The very first time I heard it, I thought it was a gun!

As for smells, I work in the waste industry. Decomposing food waste in hot weather 🤮

@redtagalan- just how big is your house that you can fit a dead whale in it?

My friend served in the Falklands and still talks about the smell of a dead elephant seal on the beach.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 11/09/2026 17:19

Sartre · 11/09/2026 16:24

Uni lecturer or school teacher? If school age this sounds like neglect. Uni age and I can relate, I’ve found history students smell the worst for some reason!

Once had the misfortune of the same stinky man sitting in front of me twice on the train in a week. I was shocked someone could smell so bad and not care. His hair was thick with grease and he just generally looked unkempt, the smell was like shit and death and foist mixed together. I had to move both times.

Lecturer - so this person (who has no disclosures of mental health problems, although I appreciate they may have MH issues they chose not to disclose) is choosing their choices as opposed to a parent not taking care of them.

Iamthemoom · 11/09/2026 17:19

We had this. The smell getting worse for days and I couldn’t find the mouse anywhere. Then I went to close the curtains and found it. It was stuck decomposing in a fold of my grey velvet mouse coloured floor length curtains!

It had died with its claws embedded in the curtain having climbed up it to escape the cats I imagine!

I had the same thought as you and now struggle with the smell of my then favourite candle as it now reminds me of decomposing mouse!

Dead bodies must be mouse x 1000 surely?!

RaraRachael · 11/09/2026 17:13

RedTagAlan · 11/09/2026 17:01

I raise you with the smell of a dead whale.

But that can't really count I suppose. Not many people have a whale in their house.

I remember a dead whale being washed up on a local beach. For some reasons crowds of locals ( me and my dad included) went to watch it being cut up for removal.

50 years later I can still remember that awful smell.