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Sniffing on trains

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Pamcakey · 10/09/2026 06:23

Why is it that everytime I step on a train (happily fairly infrequently, just every few months for work), I immediately end up in the near vicinity of someone snuffling and sniffing and snorting.

It gives me the absolute rage. As well as people watching TikTok videos with sound, phonecalls on speaker phones and loud chewers. Last time I was sat opposite a woman who was literally SUCKLING on a croissant, complete with mhmm noises.

I cannot cope.
My partner allegedly does not experience this.

AIBU to start deploying violence in the future?

OP posts:
minipie · 10/09/2026 09:51

Bikergran · 10/09/2026 09:02

I agree it's disgusting, but it is you, many people don't even notice it. It's called misophonia. Wear earpods or headphones.

It really isn’t just you OP as this thread and many others show

It’s funny how there’s been such a rise in “misophonia” recently. Couldn’t possibly be that people have become less considerate, more “me me me” and more likely to make noise in public without caring about the effect on others.

Makkka · 10/09/2026 09:54

This thread has reminded me how disgusting some humans are 🤢

Meandthegherkin · 10/09/2026 10:13

Yes, perhaps people have become less considerate. Various forms of deodorant, the concept of hankies and tissues were created for a reason. Applying overpowering levels of perfume or aftershave used to be mainly confined to teenagers who weren’t yet to get the balance right.

angelos02 · 10/09/2026 11:12

minipie · 10/09/2026 09:51

It really isn’t just you OP as this thread and many others show

It’s funny how there’s been such a rise in “misophonia” recently. Couldn’t possibly be that people have become less considerate, more “me me me” and more likely to make noise in public without caring about the effect on others.

This - maybe it's my age but things are way worse than they were 30 years ago. People just behave as though they are in their own living room. Same as on planes, in cinemas, on buses. Just so inconsiderate and there is literally no excuse. None. Just pure lack of consideration for others.

gingerninja · 11/09/2026 17:59

Urgh, it all gives me the rage and I work on the railway so can’t avoid it 😫😂 my eyebrows have disappeared under my hairline due to the massive aggressive raising of them. Whenever I have asked people to use headphones I’m spoken to like I’m someone from a different century.

LakieLady · 11/09/2026 18:05

CatherineMaitland · 10/09/2026 08:15

"I immediately end up in the near vicinity of someone snuffling and sniffing and snorting."

Possible allergies? When I commuted morning trains were a nightmare for me with all the scents people put on.

I always get the sniffles on trains. I put it down to something in the upholstery fabric.

I just wipe my nose with a tissue though, I'm not uncouth enough to sniff in close proximity to others.

Mummadeze · 11/09/2026 18:10

Am so glad you started this thread as I have to sniff regularly. I have a recurring issue with my sinus where it is so swollen it is impossible to blow my nose! If I try, nothing happens apart from me going mind bendingly dizzy. However my nose still drips and runs constantly so my only option is to dab it every few seconds or sniff. Sometimes the area around my nose is really sore from dabbing it too much so sniffing is less painful, I know people don’t understand but it isn’t my fault!

WhatNextImScared · 11/09/2026 18:10

I always bring my own earphones

Hutinthemiddleofnowhere · 11/09/2026 18:13

It's the luck of the draw on trains. Unfortunately some awful, entitled people exist and there is no escape.

restingbitchface30 · 11/09/2026 18:59

The hocking and sniffing sends me absolutely feral. I can’t bare it. I once went absolutely batshit when some guy hocked and spat in my local playground. Imagine if a kid tripped and fell in that.

eastegg · 11/09/2026 19:47

I don’t know what those of us with allergic rhinitis are supposed to do. Just gone through the first page of replies and equal numbers are appalled by sniffing on the one hand and blowing the nose on the other. Nice to know I’m going to appall somebody.

But I’m 52, spent decades schlepping around on packed public transport so I stopped giving any shits a while ago.

I don’t like people who wear perfume and deodorant, making me sneeze or my nose run. They don’t tend to get the evils though.

Buffs · 11/09/2026 19:55

The sound of sniffing fills me with uncontrollable rage. I’m amazed it hasn’t got me into trouble.

justneedgoodsleep · 11/09/2026 22:28

Sniffling thing could be a tick. I know someone who has it, annoys the hell out of me but can’t be helped.

Katemax82 · 11/09/2026 22:55

RelaxAndDetox · 10/09/2026 08:25

Allergic reactions. The perfumes, the various smells. General allergies too.

You cannot blow your nose to sort allergies.

I used to work on the checkout at Sainsbury's. As soon as I got on my till it would be 4 hours of constant running nose and sneezing. Turns out the underneath of the till space had years of dust built up (for some reason the team leaders thought it was our job to clean it even though no one realised it was there)

Katemax82 · 11/09/2026 22:56

Buffs · 11/09/2026 19:55

The sound of sniffing fills me with uncontrollable rage. I’m amazed it hasn’t got me into trouble.

My stepson did it as a kid...gave me the rage but I had to bury it

Firefly1987 · 11/09/2026 23:04

I doubt people can help it and I think you're just lucky you don't deal with allergies. I didn't used to understand why people would need to sniff or even sneeze and then I developed hay fever and some other allergy. Now when it's bad I have no choice but to sniff occasionally unless I want to keep tissues stuck up my nose, it runs that much. Just be glad you're not the one suffering! If you don't have a runny nose you can't really sniff even if you tried, people aren't doing it on purpose.

JudyTeeny · 11/09/2026 23:12

CheeseAndSaladCreamSandwich · 10/09/2026 06:41

I recently did 2 long train journeys for the first time in about 20 years. Either people have got worse, or my tolerance has withered and died.

There was one guy who cracked out his Dominos pizza and cans of cider at lunch time. No issue with the pizza, thought it was a smart idea, wished id thought of it myself tbh, but the noises, it was like being on a farmyard. The lip smacking was unreal, he wasn't even close but I could hear him a good half a carriage away. At one point the woman sat next to turned and asked if it was just her... no love, its not!

Other than the chap who jumped on, downed 4 cans of fosters and jumped off at the next stop, leaving his cans and rubbish everywhere, the guy who kicked off because staff had the audacity to check tickets, and the guy having a loud and animated phone call behind my head for 3 hours, the journey was fine.

Actually, im sensing a theme here....

@U53rName
@Frikadelle
I agree that sneezing all over the window is disgusting but I once saw a boy put his head out of the old style train window and vomit. The train was moving so it splattered all over the door and along the next window. Unfortunately, a man getting off at the next station didn't notice and he shut the door and put his hand in it. You can imagine the look on his face

Growingaseed · 11/09/2026 23:21

There's nothing wrong with blowing your nose- the people who have an issue with that need to grow up.

Constant sniffing very annoying. It's just going to keep dripping back down just sort it. Fine some people have these conditions where they can't help it and we can be mindful of that but I don't believe that's the case for most sniffers.

NolanChanceJustLikeTheWeatherNSoul · 11/09/2026 23:21

FlibbertyGibbitt · 10/09/2026 06:44

It’s a zillion times worse when you’re at work. I’ve actually said “who’s sniffing?” Fella admitted it and carried on. Urghhhhhhh

A guy at work sniffing back heavily the noise was stomach churning
Was told fucking pack that revolting noise in
I can't help it
You can now go to the toilets and sort it out.

Denim4ever · 11/09/2026 23:29

U53rName · 10/09/2026 06:42

True…but honestly, I would rather be sat next to someone sniffing than someone blowing their nose. I cannot bear it when people blow their noses in public. Ick.

That's super weird. Have you never had a cold or hayfever? Some people have conditions that make them snuffle all the time and some have colds or hayfever. They should not be treated like pariahs. Unless you have never had a cold in your life you ought to be able to understand what that entails. If you haven't, you should still realise nose blowing is necessary and have empathy.

AquamarinePearlGold · 11/09/2026 23:29

CheeseAndSaladCreamSandwich · 10/09/2026 06:41

I recently did 2 long train journeys for the first time in about 20 years. Either people have got worse, or my tolerance has withered and died.

There was one guy who cracked out his Dominos pizza and cans of cider at lunch time. No issue with the pizza, thought it was a smart idea, wished id thought of it myself tbh, but the noises, it was like being on a farmyard. The lip smacking was unreal, he wasn't even close but I could hear him a good half a carriage away. At one point the woman sat next to turned and asked if it was just her... no love, its not!

Other than the chap who jumped on, downed 4 cans of fosters and jumped off at the next stop, leaving his cans and rubbish everywhere, the guy who kicked off because staff had the audacity to check tickets, and the guy having a loud and animated phone call behind my head for 3 hours, the journey was fine.

Actually, im sensing a theme here....

God some people are fucking gross.

Denim4ever · 11/09/2026 23:30

NolanChanceJustLikeTheWeatherNSoul · 11/09/2026 23:21

A guy at work sniffing back heavily the noise was stomach churning
Was told fucking pack that revolting noise in
I can't help it
You can now go to the toilets and sort it out.

Ridiculous, I'd report you to HR

Bloodysquirellls · 11/09/2026 23:33

Tbh when I have a runny nose to the extent I am sniffing…

Blowing it doesn’t help. I will just sniff again 30 seconds later.

Having now seen the candlesticks all of my offspring have produced permanently for the first 3 years of their life… I have come to believe this is a genetic defectiveness.

My sincerest apologies

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/09/2026 23:39

fuckeditupbadly · 10/09/2026 06:29

Oh I include watching sound up videos in music. That's totally not ok. I started reading my book out loud once when the guy next to me put the sound up on the football match he was watching. He looked at me like I was crazy and I nodded at his phone and said 'I thought we were sharing?' He turned it off 🤣

I love that!

NolanChanceJustLikeTheWeatherNSoul · 11/09/2026 23:40

Denim4ever · 11/09/2026 23:30

Ridiculous, I'd report you to HR

Cheers.the same guy got sacked for trying to modify safety equipment,sleeping during a lunch and learn tour of equipment you're ment to proffer info not glare at participants and pull your hoody up.
He was a disgusting creature who deserved to be told how to act in a civilised manner.

I used language that he'd understand.

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