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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 14:43

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:28

It depends what you mean by those statements. If by ‘trans women are men’ you simply mean that trans women may have been born with male-typical reproductive anatomy and do not share all of the same physical characteristics as the majority of women, then no, I would not automatically call that transphobic.

If what you mean is that trans experience is not real, that trans women are merely men pretending or ‘cosplaying’ as women, that their identities are fundamentally false, etc, then yes — I would regard that as transphobic, because it moves beyond acknowledging anatomical differences and into denying or denigrating trans people’s identity and experience.

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The vast majority of the population is “transphobic” by this definition.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 14:43

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 13:10

The central flaw in your logic is that while tossing a coin is random, selection into prison is anything but. That's why the prison population is not a representative sample from which you can draw more general conclusions - if it were selected randomly through tossing a coin, it would be and you would be able to draw conclusions based on probability.

So is your suggestion is that TW do in fact commit sexual offences at an equal rate to female people, but are jailed far more often due to unfairness in policing or sentencing? I haven't crunched the numbers (might do if I have time) but I'm pretty sure to make that add up you'd have an "unfairness" factor in the hundreds, potentially thousands of percent. I mean, it's a theory I guess, but the bigger that fudge factor gets, the less convincing it becomes.

Or is it that TWs do commit sexual offences at a higher rate, but it's their life experiences as trans rather than their maleness that drives this? In which case I'd say that is a very important distinction when it comes to the trans person, but totally meaningless when it comes to trying to suggest this means they somehow don't pose a significantly higher population level risk of sexual assault than other men, and an astonomically higher one than women.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 14:44

Terfarina · 11/09/2026 14:40

Call me a transphobe or say my ideas are transphobic - same same and I don’t care.

I don’t respect the idea that a subset of males are women because no one has ever been able to explain to me how an adult human male is really an adult human female.

a woman is an adult human female with any likes, interests, personality or sartorial choices.

there is no mystical essence of indefinable womanhood that some men have - wanting something to be true doesn’t make it so

women are not simply substandard men, no amount of surgery or medication can turn a man into an adult human female

if a subset of males wants refuge from other males that is not women’s problem to solve, welcome to the world of feeling scared of men (we dint care how you dress, you are scary to us)

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Exactly. They’re just men, and anyone claiming they aren’t has zero credibility.

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 14:46

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:28

It depends what you mean by those statements. If by ‘trans women are men’ you simply mean that trans women may have been born with male-typical reproductive anatomy and do not share all of the same physical characteristics as the majority of women, then no, I would not automatically call that transphobic.

If what you mean is that trans experience is not real, that trans women are merely men pretending or ‘cosplaying’ as women, that their identities are fundamentally false, etc, then yes — I would regard that as transphobic, because it moves beyond acknowledging anatomical differences and into denying or denigrating trans people’s identity and experience.

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They mean what they say, "transwomen are men" "transwomen are not women". There is no judgement within them, as they stand, about what individuals 'experience'.

You have claimed you are not expecting "unquestioning affirmation", but that's exactly what your reply here implies. People are free to acknowledge the anatomical reality of transwomen (how magnanimous), but they must also affirm the 'reality' of the way that transwoman feels. In what way is that not asking for unquestioning affirmation?

I'm also still curious as to what you think is behind the fact that in all different subgroups of people - divided by say ethnicity, religion, disability etc - it is only among the group called 'trans' that the man/woman offending rates and patterns see the 'women' offending at a much higher rate than the 'men'.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:52

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 14:43

So is your suggestion is that TW do in fact commit sexual offences at an equal rate to female people, but are jailed far more often due to unfairness in policing or sentencing? I haven't crunched the numbers (might do if I have time) but I'm pretty sure to make that add up you'd have an "unfairness" factor in the hundreds, potentially thousands of percent. I mean, it's a theory I guess, but the bigger that fudge factor gets, the less convincing it becomes.

Or is it that TWs do commit sexual offences at a higher rate, but it's their life experiences as trans rather than their maleness that drives this? In which case I'd say that is a very important distinction when it comes to the trans person, but totally meaningless when it comes to trying to suggest this means they somehow don't pose a significantly higher population level risk of sexual assault than other men, and an astonomically higher one than women.

No. My point is that prison statistics do not allow us to estimate the sexual offending rate of trans women in the general population. That is a basic statistical limitation. I am not proposing either of the explanations you’ve invented for me,I am simply saying that the available prison figures simply do not answer the question you want them to answer.

This conversation is not a valid discussion about statistics, it's just the reproduction of the usual stereotypes about trans women as sexually perverted predators.

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 14:53

Stereotypes exist for a reason.

FrippEnos · 11/09/2026 14:56

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:28

It depends what you mean by those statements. If by ‘trans women are men’ you simply mean that trans women may have been born with male-typical reproductive anatomy and do not share all of the same physical characteristics as the majority of women, then no, I would not automatically call that transphobic.

If what you mean is that trans experience is not real, that trans women are merely men pretending or ‘cosplaying’ as women, that their identities are fundamentally false, etc, then yes — I would regard that as transphobic, because it moves beyond acknowledging anatomical differences and into denying or denigrating trans people’s identity and experience.

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The problem is that you are confusing/conflating the experience of being a woman with the experience of being a transwoman.

Is a transwoman's experience real?
Yes it is.
Is it the same experience as a woman?
No it is not.

But as with many things that the trans lobby puts forward it relies on the corruption of language to make it mean whatthe trans lobby wants it to mean.

Terfarina · 11/09/2026 14:59

Have we talked about autogynephillia yet?

BunfightBetty · 11/09/2026 15:05

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:52

No. My point is that prison statistics do not allow us to estimate the sexual offending rate of trans women in the general population. That is a basic statistical limitation. I am not proposing either of the explanations you’ve invented for me,I am simply saying that the available prison figures simply do not answer the question you want them to answer.

This conversation is not a valid discussion about statistics, it's just the reproduction of the usual stereotypes about trans women as sexually perverted predators.

Unless you have robust evidence that transwomen offend at rates that are equal to or lower than women, you have no basis on which to do anything other than use the stats for offending in males, in terms of your arguments for allowing these special males into female spaces.

In any case, it’s completely hypothetical, seeing as the law is clear there has been no change, and single sex spaces (they were never single gender, they were always segregated by sex) stay exactly that - single sex.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/09/2026 15:17

LVPLVT · 10/09/2026 21:27

Does no one else have an innate feeling that they are a woman? I know I’m a woman because I menstruate, get pregnant, have the anatomy etc. I adhere to some of the female stereotypes in that i occasionally wear make up, take care of my appearance etc. But I genuinely “feel like a woman” aside from that. If I woke up tomorrow with a penis and no memory I still think I would feel like a woman. I suppose it’s possible that it’s just so ingrained in me from the physical and social attributes. I can’t really verbalise why I have that feeling or what makes me feel that way (besides the obvious).

What seems to me to be genuinely tragic is men who have had the various surgery to get rid of their male genitalia and characteristics, and medication to grow their moobs, but then get dementia and forget they have done so, and seemingly wake every morning in panic and terror because they are in the wrong body. That's horrible to think of.

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1363460719876835 – you don't need the full article: the abstract offers nightmare enough.

(I'm sorry this isn't about Lacksie as most of the rest of the thread seems to have been at the point where I rejoined it this morning, but I am not particularly interested in Lacksie whereas I do care about human suffering even in the most exasperating individuals.)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 15:17

I don’t believe there is an innate property called “gender” which is distinct to a person’s biological sex. It’s an ideological claim based on an incoherent world view.

Ducketta · 11/09/2026 15:23

It would be really interesting to hear how many people think they have gender identity/ believe in the concept. Cause when you survey women confidentially the vast majority say they don’t want trans women in their single sex spaces / sports etc. I bet the number of people who think this is nonsense is sky high but they’re too scared to voice that publicly..

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TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 15:26

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:52

No. My point is that prison statistics do not allow us to estimate the sexual offending rate of trans women in the general population. That is a basic statistical limitation. I am not proposing either of the explanations you’ve invented for me,I am simply saying that the available prison figures simply do not answer the question you want them to answer.

This conversation is not a valid discussion about statistics, it's just the reproduction of the usual stereotypes about trans women as sexually perverted predators.

No one is saying that "most" TW are sexual deviants (or at least that's not what I'm saying) but it's got to be taken into account that TW have a much higher rate of sexual offending than women. Therefore women are at risk from them as a group, just as much as they are at risk from men.

Terfarina · 11/09/2026 15:28

Ducketta · 11/09/2026 15:23

It would be really interesting to hear how many people think they have gender identity/ believe in the concept. Cause when you survey women confidentially the vast majority say they don’t want trans women in their single sex spaces / sports etc. I bet the number of people who think this is nonsense is sky high but they’re too scared to voice that publicly..

Gender is socially constructed so there cannot be any innate gender identity, any more than anything else socially constructed someone might identify as is innate - a football supporter, teacher or great seamstress.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 15:28

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:28

It depends what you mean by those statements. If by ‘trans women are men’ you simply mean that trans women may have been born with male-typical reproductive anatomy and do not share all of the same physical characteristics as the majority of women, then no, I would not automatically call that transphobic.

If what you mean is that trans experience is not real, that trans women are merely men pretending or ‘cosplaying’ as women, that their identities are fundamentally false, etc, then yes — I would regard that as transphobic, because it moves beyond acknowledging anatomical differences and into denying or denigrating trans people’s identity and experience.

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What is the purpose of this though?

Putting it in a wider context, the only reason women are highlighting the behaviours and attitudes of some trans women, or questioning the basis on which trans women claim to be women and asking how that aligns with the reality of being female is that we are being faced with this TWAW construct and being told we can't simply say "no they aren't, because women are female, and that anatomical difference to men and the consequences that it brings for us are significant enough to justify that".

It is yet another witch trail scenario.

If we just say "Female people do exist and so it is reasonable and fair that the name women and all the things that come with it continue to be female-only" we are dismissed as transphobic, gentital fetishists, biological essentialists or whatever for saying women have to be female.

If we take that on board and go to the next level of explaining why provision A or provisin B exists, then we are dismissed because we are implying that "all" trans women are thing A1 or do thing B1, and that is transphobic. (Even though it's no more true to saying excluding all trans women implies something about all trans women than it is to say excluding all men implies something about all men.)

So if we take that on board and go to the next level of finding specific examples of trans women who have posed a risk or behaved in ways that demean, insult, hurt, silence or intimidate women, or of specific examples of vulnerable or traumatised women who need fair single sex support, now we are making personal attacks and instigating pile-ons on trans people simply because they happen to be trans, and that is transphobic.

As I said, the true story here is that there is no form of words to say "no" to this that will ever be considered acceptable, because it is the very fact of women saying "no" that is unacceptable.

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 15:29

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 15:17

I don’t believe there is an innate property called “gender” which is distinct to a person’s biological sex. It’s an ideological claim based on an incoherent world view.

Me neither. However, what I have been trying to get an explanation of is why (for those who do believe there is an innate property called 'gender') it is the only 'innate property' (of the human personality or mind or identity) that is sometimes so out of whack with the body it requires the body to be brought into line. What's so special about the thing people are calling 'gender'?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 15:31

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 14:52

No. My point is that prison statistics do not allow us to estimate the sexual offending rate of trans women in the general population. That is a basic statistical limitation. I am not proposing either of the explanations you’ve invented for me,I am simply saying that the available prison figures simply do not answer the question you want them to answer.

This conversation is not a valid discussion about statistics, it's just the reproduction of the usual stereotypes about trans women as sexually perverted predators.

So, your point then is "meh - who knows why TW seem to have such a higher rate of offending. Maybe it's real, maybe it's not. Until it can be proved why, let's just ignore it"?

This is a very different position to your "Who knows why trans people feel what they do - but regardless it is clearly real and we must therefore accomodate it".

As I said, double standards.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 15:43

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 15:31

So, your point then is "meh - who knows why TW seem to have such a higher rate of offending. Maybe it's real, maybe it's not. Until it can be proved why, let's just ignore it"?

This is a very different position to your "Who knows why trans people feel what they do - but regardless it is clearly real and we must therefore accomodate it".

As I said, double standards.

No, my point is that prison statistics are not sufficient to evidence the claim that TW have a higher rate of offending. That is not a valid statistical inference to draw about the general TW population based on prison stats- it's not a representative population.

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 15:44

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 15:43

No, my point is that prison statistics are not sufficient to evidence the claim that TW have a higher rate of offending. That is not a valid statistical inference to draw about the general TW population based on prison stats- it's not a representative population.

Ok so how is a man "feeling like a woman" supposed to be taken as fact if you won't take the fact TW sexually offend more than women as a fact?

soddingspiderseason · 11/09/2026 15:46

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/09/2026 15:17

What seems to me to be genuinely tragic is men who have had the various surgery to get rid of their male genitalia and characteristics, and medication to grow their moobs, but then get dementia and forget they have done so, and seemingly wake every morning in panic and terror because they are in the wrong body. That's horrible to think of.

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1363460719876835 – you don't need the full article: the abstract offers nightmare enough.

(I'm sorry this isn't about Lacksie as most of the rest of the thread seems to have been at the point where I rejoined it this morning, but I am not particularly interested in Lacksie whereas I do care about human suffering even in the most exasperating individuals.)

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I just read that extract and that’s an awful situation. I expect there will sadly be much more of this as the current, much larger, cohort of trans identified men/women who have had surgery age and develop dementia. Not sure how the NHS would deal with this?

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 15:46

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 15:43

No, my point is that prison statistics are not sufficient to evidence the claim that TW have a higher rate of offending. That is not a valid statistical inference to draw about the general TW population based on prison stats- it's not a representative population.

What do you think is behind the fact that in all different subgroups of people - divided by say ethnicity, religion, disability etc - it is only among the group called 'trans' that the man/woman offending rates and patterns see the 'women' offending at a much higher rate than the 'men'?

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 15:49

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 15:44

Ok so how is a man "feeling like a woman" supposed to be taken as fact if you won't take the fact TW sexually offend more than women as a fact?

First of all, I never said that “a man feeling like a woman is supposed to be taken as fact.” That is a ridiculous reformulation of what I actually said.

I said that the existence of trans experience — a persistent experience of gender identity that differs from natal sex — is a real, documented phenomenon. This is a proposition supported by decades of clinical and scientific evidence.

That has absolutely nothing to do with whether you can infer population-level sexual offending rates from a tiny, highly selected, non-representative sample of people who are already in prison. You can’t.

These are completely different evidential questions

soddingspiderseason · 11/09/2026 15:59

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 15:49

First of all, I never said that “a man feeling like a woman is supposed to be taken as fact.” That is a ridiculous reformulation of what I actually said.

I said that the existence of trans experience — a persistent experience of gender identity that differs from natal sex — is a real, documented phenomenon. This is a proposition supported by decades of clinical and scientific evidence.

That has absolutely nothing to do with whether you can infer population-level sexual offending rates from a tiny, highly selected, non-representative sample of people who are already in prison. You can’t.

These are completely different evidential questions

Please can you define gender identity?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 16:09

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 15:43

No, my point is that prison statistics are not sufficient to evidence the claim that TW have a higher rate of offending. That is not a valid statistical inference to draw about the general TW population based on prison stats- it's not a representative population.

Again your ability to understand is hampered because you have a blind spot when it comes to considering where women are in this.

The question isn't "does this prove, without a doubt, that TW have higher rates of sexual offending than other men?" because we already have the principle that we exclude all men. We aren't suggesting we need to somehow extra-exclude trans women because just the normal justification for excluding men is enough.

The question is "does this create enough of a concern that TW have higer rates of sexual offending than women that we should not be claiming there is no mesningful difference between trans women and women when it comes to safeguarding risk?"

Again, your concern that TW are not treated unfairly just because there is no evidence that 100% absolutely proves their gender expereince is real seems very different to your lack of concern that women are being treated unfairly simply because the data that suggests very strongly there is something amiss has not been fully explained yet. Seems like the benefit of your doubt is always tilted one way.

As an aside, it strikes me how close the TRA position is to the argument oil producers and tobacco companies used to make - "yes there are differences in the statistics, but you don't know for certain we are the cause so you can't act on that (and we'll sue you if you say it out loud")

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 16:14

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 16:09

Again your ability to understand is hampered because you have a blind spot when it comes to considering where women are in this.

The question isn't "does this prove, without a doubt, that TW have higher rates of sexual offending than other men?" because we already have the principle that we exclude all men. We aren't suggesting we need to somehow extra-exclude trans women because just the normal justification for excluding men is enough.

The question is "does this create enough of a concern that TW have higer rates of sexual offending than women that we should not be claiming there is no mesningful difference between trans women and women when it comes to safeguarding risk?"

Again, your concern that TW are not treated unfairly just because there is no evidence that 100% absolutely proves their gender expereince is real seems very different to your lack of concern that women are being treated unfairly simply because the data that suggests very strongly there is something amiss has not been fully explained yet. Seems like the benefit of your doubt is always tilted one way.

As an aside, it strikes me how close the TRA position is to the argument oil producers and tobacco companies used to make - "yes there are differences in the statistics, but you don't know for certain we are the cause so you can't act on that (and we'll sue you if you say it out loud")

It's not that it "doesn't prove without a doubt" it's that you literally cannot extrapolate from one to the other. It's not evidence of anything except characteristics of the prison population.

(Even if there were evidence that TW offend at higher rates than other groups , I don't accept your assumptions about the policy conclusions that would follow from that. I don't accept that policing entry to toilets based on the assumed shape of someone's genitals is rationally connected to safeguarding ).

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