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To be annoyed nobody mentioned who started the war

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Normalized · 07/09/2026 02:03

Recently on YouTube the Oxford Union Channel released a debate titled this house believes Israel never really wanted peace. I'm not going to go through the arguments back and forth as anyone can watch it, however what's really annoyed me is that's not a single debater, including on the Israel side, mentioned who actually started the war.

There was a lot of talk whether Israel did truly ever want peace or not, but nobody actually spoke of the fact that Israel never started any wars. It was the Arabs and Palestinians who started first the Civil War in 1947, then Israel's war of independence in 1948. I would think the onus for peace is on the party who actually started all the wars.

It's such a weird debate to pull up Israel for 'never truly wanting peace' while completely ignoring the role of the other side who actually started all the wars.

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TrishM80 · 09/09/2026 17:54

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 07:36

I've seen some sickening posts - direct and indirect- but this one is particularly sick. Do you care to cast your mind back to the holocaust. Try thinking before making insensitive comments by trying to point score. It says a hell of a lot about your motives.

On the planet right now, Israel is the biggest childkiller. Stop using the Holocaust to justify it.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 18:00

TrishM80 · 09/09/2026 17:54

On the planet right now, Israel is the biggest childkiller. Stop using the Holocaust to justify it.

Yeah to hell with relatives of those holocaust survivors eh. It's quite a disturbing line for you even to be using in the first place.

Neverstopwondering · 09/09/2026 18:01

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junebirthdaygirl · 09/09/2026 18:37

Savvysix1984 · 07/09/2026 08:02

It’s very hard for anyone to argue that Israel have ever wanted peace. All their actions show otherwise. They are a war mongering state.

Any state would be constantly ready for battle if they were completely surrounded by States who all hate them and people who train their children specifically at home and in school to hate them. States that are full of terrorists with one expressed wish to destroy lsrael. And also if 6 million of their people were killed in gas chambers less than a 100 years ago and that is part of many families history . I would be watching my back at all times if l was them. And also if a massive majority of the world absolutely are against you constantly and only need the slightest reason to rise up in hatred against you.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 18:40

junebirthdaygirl · 09/09/2026 18:37

Any state would be constantly ready for battle if they were completely surrounded by States who all hate them and people who train their children specifically at home and in school to hate them. States that are full of terrorists with one expressed wish to destroy lsrael. And also if 6 million of their people were killed in gas chambers less than a 100 years ago and that is part of many families history . I would be watching my back at all times if l was them. And also if a massive majority of the world absolutely are against you constantly and only need the slightest reason to rise up in hatred against you.

Fantastic post. Well said.

Twiglets1 · 09/09/2026 18:46

junebirthdaygirl · 09/09/2026 18:37

Any state would be constantly ready for battle if they were completely surrounded by States who all hate them and people who train their children specifically at home and in school to hate them. States that are full of terrorists with one expressed wish to destroy lsrael. And also if 6 million of their people were killed in gas chambers less than a 100 years ago and that is part of many families history . I would be watching my back at all times if l was them. And also if a massive majority of the world absolutely are against you constantly and only need the slightest reason to rise up in hatred against you.

Very very true and not acknowledged enough whilst anti Israel rhetoric is repeated over & over again on Mumsnet.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 18:54

Twiglets1 · 09/09/2026 18:46

Very very true and not acknowledged enough whilst anti Israel rhetoric is repeated over & over again on Mumsnet.

I get very annoyed when the holocaust is dismissed as an excuse or defence.

Neverstopwondering · 09/09/2026 19:01

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 18:54

I get very annoyed when the holocaust is dismissed as an excuse or defence.

Me too.

It is interesting though when the trauma or tragedies that have happened to various other groups of people around the world and throughout history are apparently generational trauma that must never be forgotten etc

Another case of Jews don't count isn't it

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 19:06

Neverstopwondering · 09/09/2026 19:01

Me too.

It is interesting though when the trauma or tragedies that have happened to various other groups of people around the world and throughout history are apparently generational trauma that must never be forgotten etc

Another case of Jews don't count isn't it

Yes it is and these people don't really care about hiding their bigotry. How anyone can say circa 17 million murdered people is used as an excuse is beyond me.

BlessedIsTheFruit · 09/09/2026 21:56

junebirthdaygirl · 09/09/2026 18:37

Any state would be constantly ready for battle if they were completely surrounded by States who all hate them and people who train their children specifically at home and in school to hate them. States that are full of terrorists with one expressed wish to destroy lsrael. And also if 6 million of their people were killed in gas chambers less than a 100 years ago and that is part of many families history . I would be watching my back at all times if l was them. And also if a massive majority of the world absolutely are against you constantly and only need the slightest reason to rise up in hatred against you.

In addition, it seems a large proportion of people in the West, including on here, expect Israelis to care about Palestinians, and support them having a State next door, after the unimaginable atrocities (an actual genocide in intent) of Oct 7th together with the indiscriminate hostage taking of babies, children and elderly!

They saw it, lived it, dealt with the aftermath, and watched the celebrations of Palestinians while slaughtered bodies of Israelis were mutilated, beheaded, stamped on and defiled while being dragged through Gaza.

Yet, they are reviled as a collective nation for their Government's response to it.

It's insanity.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 22:16

BlessedIsTheFruit · 09/09/2026 21:56

In addition, it seems a large proportion of people in the West, including on here, expect Israelis to care about Palestinians, and support them having a State next door, after the unimaginable atrocities (an actual genocide in intent) of Oct 7th together with the indiscriminate hostage taking of babies, children and elderly!

They saw it, lived it, dealt with the aftermath, and watched the celebrations of Palestinians while slaughtered bodies of Israelis were mutilated, beheaded, stamped on and defiled while being dragged through Gaza.

Yet, they are reviled as a collective nation for their Government's response to it.

It's insanity.

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Cel77 · 09/09/2026 22:43

Israel retaliation became disproportionate very early on. At this point, the responsibility turned sides. Hamas is a murderous terrorist group who put their people in immense danger. The state of Israel doesn't represent the world Jews ( as expressed by most Rabbis in the UK today). All of the above is true so it's not as simple as saying " yes but they started it".

HettyMeg · 09/09/2026 23:22

Israel started a war when they stole lands that weren't theirs when the state was created.

BlessedIsTheFruit · 09/09/2026 23:48

HettyMeg · 09/09/2026 23:22

Israel started a war when they stole lands that weren't theirs when the state was created.

You just have to laugh at such an ill informed comment.

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Key quote: in the last 3 years. If you want to reduce the holocaust - the most infamous genocide in history - so you can score cheap points, carry on. I question why you would even want to Google that specific question anyway FFS.

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 08:58

Weird post. Didn't the war start when Palestine was invaded?

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 09:11

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 08:58

Weird post. Didn't the war start when Palestine was invaded?

When did that happen?

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 09:18

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 08:58

Weird post. Didn't the war start when Palestine was invaded?

People do like to pick a point in history to back up their own position. The area has been at war for millennia. Pretty much all borders to all countries have been established through wars, so perhaps a better question is why has this area not become stabilised like other areas?

Normalized · 10/09/2026 11:38

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 08:58

Weird post. Didn't the war start when Palestine was invaded?

No.

Briefly, the war started when the Arabs started a civil war against the Jews, following the UN vote in 1947. It escalated when war was officially declared by the Arabs of the Levant and surrounding Arab countries, following Israel's declaration of independence.

For more see my previous posts.

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TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 09:18

People do like to pick a point in history to back up their own position. The area has been at war for millennia. Pretty much all borders to all countries have been established through wars, so perhaps a better question is why has this area not become stabilised like other areas?

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 12:10

Normalized · 10/09/2026 11:38

No.

Briefly, the war started when the Arabs started a civil war against the Jews, following the UN vote in 1947. It escalated when war was officially declared by the Arabs of the Levant and surrounding Arab countries, following Israel's declaration of independence.

For more see my previous posts.

But was it the UN declaration or the end of the British mandate? The withdrawal of what had been a significant power in the area would have destabilised the region regardless of arrangements put in place after.

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 12:19

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

You really don't know the history of the region, do you? Its always so easy to say imperialism and colonialism are responsible for events. Sorry, but that's something I would expect from a 15 year old.

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 12:41

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

You mean the Ottomans? They certainly did!

Normalized · 10/09/2026 16:55

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

The Levant had been a colony of various emoires ever since the Romans colonised Judea almost 2,000 years ago. The Jewish state is the first time since, that it is once again sovereign.

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