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To be annoyed nobody mentioned who started the war

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Normalized · 07/09/2026 02:03

Recently on YouTube the Oxford Union Channel released a debate titled this house believes Israel never really wanted peace. I'm not going to go through the arguments back and forth as anyone can watch it, however what's really annoyed me is that's not a single debater, including on the Israel side, mentioned who actually started the war.

There was a lot of talk whether Israel did truly ever want peace or not, but nobody actually spoke of the fact that Israel never started any wars. It was the Arabs and Palestinians who started first the Civil War in 1947, then Israel's war of independence in 1948. I would think the onus for peace is on the party who actually started all the wars.

It's such a weird debate to pull up Israel for 'never truly wanting peace' while completely ignoring the role of the other side who actually started all the wars.

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Gingerclove · 11/09/2026 15:13

Just to add there are other reasons people want to stay in the UK!
The NHS for example.
It’s not just Protestants or British or Unionists (the hint is in the name!) who want to stay.
Brexit again highlighted the differences though.

Overall NI voted against Brexit but there was clear divide depending on background.
‘85% of Catholics voted Remain compared to only 40% of Protestants, and 88% of people who describe themselves as ‘nationalist’ voted Remain compared to only 34% of ‘unionists’. Similarly, 87% of respondents who identify as Irish voted Remain, compared to only 37% of British identifiers.’

Gingerclove · 11/09/2026 14:57

Makkka · 11/09/2026 13:17

So are you saying that religion played no role in the Troubles?

The example you use about the French is moot because French view themselves as such and nothing to do with England. You wouldn’t find many British Flags in France regardless of being the same religion.

The Irish wanted their independence and fair enough but it was the Protestants who were more keen to stay part of Britain so why do you think that is?

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Because they identify as British, unlike the native Irish. That is their heritage.

Religious affiliation is a shorthand way of identifying the communities.

There are British flags in NI because people who identify as British put them there.

Identity in NI is complex. Many of the hardline Unionists would never describe themselves as Irish (something that I think is not at all clear to many in GB!)
Many in the nationalist community do not identify as British.
The census information makes it clear, even though these were taken post GFA so things have softened somewhat.

(ETA Clink on the image to view it properly.)

To be annoyed nobody mentioned who started the war
Makkka · 11/09/2026 14:01

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 11/09/2026 13:37

The hundreds year war lasted as long as it did because the Burgundians sided with England.

There will aways be wars in various names, power hungry maniacs (Putin), due to cultural differences, religion differences and varying other factors, but notably religion is often prevalent in that particular society and peope hold strong faith.

The Middle East is a prime example, being a very religious area and this seems to creates conflict, not in isolation and some would say it’s x y or a, buy if you look at the way women are treated in the most religions countries it’s heartbreaking and that’s what I means when I say religion has a lot to answer for. If you look at secular countries there are problems of course but nothing in comparison

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 11/09/2026 13:37

Makkka · 11/09/2026 13:17

So are you saying that religion played no role in the Troubles?

The example you use about the French is moot because French view themselves as such and nothing to do with England. You wouldn’t find many British Flags in France regardless of being the same religion.

The Irish wanted their independence and fair enough but it was the Protestants who were more keen to stay part of Britain so why do you think that is?

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The hundreds year war lasted as long as it did because the Burgundians sided with England.

Makkka · 11/09/2026 13:17

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 11/09/2026 13:16

As pointed out denomination is used as a short-hand for communities in Ireland. The Irish didn’t object to English rule because they were Protestant, just like the French didn’t say ‘ok, come and rule us we are both Catholics after all’ during the hundred years war.

So are you saying that religion played no role in the Troubles?

The example you use about the French is moot because French view themselves as such and nothing to do with England. You wouldn’t find many British Flags in France regardless of being the same religion.

The Irish wanted their independence and fair enough but it was the Protestants who were more keen to stay part of Britain so why do you think that is?

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 11/09/2026 13:16

Makkka · 11/09/2026 11:51

The fact we’re discussing Catholic/Protestant regarding identities, shows how much religion can be a huge influence over it and why religion can be problematic and cause more harm than good.

As pointed out denomination is used as a short-hand for communities in Ireland. The Irish didn’t object to English rule because they were Protestant, just like the French didn’t say ‘ok, come and rule us we are both Catholics after all’ during the hundred years war.

Makkka · 11/09/2026 11:51

Gingerclove · 11/09/2026 11:07

I’m not minimising the significance religion has on identity. I’m saying a difference in religious beliefs is not why the Troubles happened in NI. Systemic discrimination against one community (the Irish, Catholic one) was why things erupted.

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The fact we’re discussing Catholic/Protestant regarding identities, shows how much religion can be a huge influence over it and why religion can be problematic and cause more harm than good.

Gingerclove · 11/09/2026 11:07

I’m not minimising the significance religion has on identity. I’m saying a difference in religious beliefs is not why the Troubles happened in NI. Systemic discrimination against one community (the Irish, Catholic one) was why things erupted.

Makkka · 11/09/2026 10:47

Gingerclove · 11/09/2026 10:32

I rolled my eyes because it was a stupid comment regarding NI.
Religion was not ‘at the heart of it’, it didn’t all ‘ultimately come down to religion’ in the case of the Troubles. Religion was a marker indicating the ethnic community you were from (as were names, addresses, schools attended etc) and, as such, it was used as a shorthand or label. Certainly, there was widespread distrust and othering of the opposing community (and this included their religion) but the conflict was political and territorial at heart. It started as a civil rights movement.

You’re minimising the significance religion had on identity. The majority of Catholics didn’t want NI to be part of Britain, because Britain was considered Protestant. Of course it was political because land and settlement is by nature political, but the underlying theme was historically religious.

Have you been to NI? Have you noticed the British flags in certain areas? Did you see the size of the wall to separate the two sides? There will have been some mixed areas but there were areas where people would live with others who shared their political views and that was generally whether they were Catholic or Protestant.

Gingerclove · 11/09/2026 10:32

Makkka · 09/09/2026 08:08

As I said, not completely, however to deny opposing religious views were nothing to do with it, is like denying the existence of any issue, so I don’t know why you’re rolling your eyes. You do realise that there was wall to separate the Catholics and Protestants?

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I rolled my eyes because it was a stupid comment regarding NI.
Religion was not ‘at the heart of it’, it didn’t all ‘ultimately come down to religion’ in the case of the Troubles. Religion was a marker indicating the ethnic community you were from (as were names, addresses, schools attended etc) and, as such, it was used as a shorthand or label. Certainly, there was widespread distrust and othering of the opposing community (and this included their religion) but the conflict was political and territorial at heart. It started as a civil rights movement.

Normalized · 11/09/2026 09:47

Comesround · 11/09/2026 09:11

What you've written is not a complete, accurate or balanced representation of historical facts. It is a crafted narrative for a specific purpose and the intention is clearly not to inform. You're getting your facts from an echo chamber somewhere and that will help no one.

Stop insinuating. Specifically, what did I write that is inaccurate?

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Comesround · 11/09/2026 09:11

Normalized · 11/09/2026 09:03

"I'm not going to correct you because..."

Because what I wrote is the absolute truth. There is no alternative set of facts.

What you've written is not a complete, accurate or balanced representation of historical facts. It is a crafted narrative for a specific purpose and the intention is clearly not to inform. You're getting your facts from an echo chamber somewhere and that will help no one.

Comesround · 11/09/2026 09:06

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 19:06

Yes it is and these people don't really care about hiding their bigotry. How anyone can say circa 17 million murdered people is used as an excuse is beyond me.

I don't think they're in any way trying to suggest that the Holocaust was not an unfathomably atrocious event. I don't read anything that has been written as a dismissal of that. Positive steps were taken to try to ensure the Holocaust never happened again, with the Holocaust obviously being the reason or triggering event for those steps. That is not a dismissal of the Holocaust. At the same time, it's also possible that other steps might be taken following the Holocaust that are not appropriate and perpetrate negative or even atrocious outcomes for other communities and perhaps even eventually Jewish communities around the world. It's ok to talk about that and work towards solutions for everyone. It's not a dismissal of what happened. It's about trying to ensure that further atrocities happen to no one.

Normalized · 11/09/2026 09:03

"I'm not going to correct you because..."

Because what I wrote is the absolute truth. There is no alternative set of facts.

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Comesround · 11/09/2026 08:54

Normalized · 10/09/2026 16:58

The UN vote was 29 November 1947. The civil war (ie Arabs attacking and massacring innocent Jews) started then next day.

The British Mandate was set to end at 11:59pm 14 May 1948. Due to that being midnight on the Jewish Sabbath, Israel declared independence several hours earlier, on Friday afternoon.

The Arab Legions attacked the next morning.

I don't know if you are deliberately spreading misinformation or if this is really the version of history that has been sold to you.

I'm not going to correct you because I'm aware of the pressures facing the Jewish community around the world and rehashing those events could lead to further trouble for them.

So I'm posting simply to say to anyone reading this thread: do your own research and do not take t what you read here at face value. They are counting on no one fact checking. It is a gross distortion of some events with other events, on which a great deal turned, completely ommitted.

Please don't allow this kind of poster to contribute to the hatred that is causing so much pain to families who have done nothing to deserve it. Think about why they started this thread and how far it contributes to the healing that we all want to see for communities on every side of this tragic situation.

BlessedIsTheFruit · 10/09/2026 21:51

Noras · 10/09/2026 17:10

Sorry to be a bit confused but to clarify - before the creation of Israel it was a British mandate area and before that part of the Turkish empire?

Yes, no Palestinian State ever existed.

Before Israel's inception there were Jews and Arabs. The Arabs refused to declare their own sovereign State in 1948 because they wanted ALL the land including what is now Israel.

Despite 78% of the British Mandate for Palestine already being given to the Arabs for an Arab State - Jordan.

Interestingly, there's no P (for Palestine) in Arabic.

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 17:12

Normalized · 10/09/2026 16:55

The Levant had been a colony of various emoires ever since the Romans colonised Judea almost 2,000 years ago. The Jewish state is the first time since, that it is once again sovereign.

There were colonisers over 2000 years before that - the Akkadian Empire around 2300 BC. The Phoenicians, indigenous to the area, became colonisers themselves 3000 years ago.

Noras · 10/09/2026 17:10

SpottyPyjama · 07/09/2026 05:48

Well, thousands of people were killed and displaced by having their homes stolen, so I’d say so, yes.

Sorry to be a bit confused but to clarify - before the creation of Israel it was a British mandate area and before that part of the Turkish empire?

Normalized · 10/09/2026 16:58

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 12:10

But was it the UN declaration or the end of the British mandate? The withdrawal of what had been a significant power in the area would have destabilised the region regardless of arrangements put in place after.

The UN vote was 29 November 1947. The civil war (ie Arabs attacking and massacring innocent Jews) started then next day.

The British Mandate was set to end at 11:59pm 14 May 1948. Due to that being midnight on the Jewish Sabbath, Israel declared independence several hours earlier, on Friday afternoon.

The Arab Legions attacked the next morning.

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Normalized · 10/09/2026 16:55

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

The Levant had been a colony of various emoires ever since the Romans colonised Judea almost 2,000 years ago. The Jewish state is the first time since, that it is once again sovereign.

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Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 12:41

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

You mean the Ottomans? They certainly did!

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 12:19

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

You really don't know the history of the region, do you? Its always so easy to say imperialism and colonialism are responsible for events. Sorry, but that's something I would expect from a 15 year old.

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 12:10

Normalized · 10/09/2026 11:38

No.

Briefly, the war started when the Arabs started a civil war against the Jews, following the UN vote in 1947. It escalated when war was officially declared by the Arabs of the Levant and surrounding Arab countries, following Israel's declaration of independence.

For more see my previous posts.

But was it the UN declaration or the end of the British mandate? The withdrawal of what had been a significant power in the area would have destabilised the region regardless of arrangements put in place after.

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 12:09

Chrysanthemumsinpots · 10/09/2026 09:18

People do like to pick a point in history to back up their own position. The area has been at war for millennia. Pretty much all borders to all countries have been established through wars, so perhaps a better question is why has this area not become stabilised like other areas?

you're minimising.
its fairly common currency that imperialism screws up a place.

Normalized · 10/09/2026 11:38

TessSaysYes · 10/09/2026 08:58

Weird post. Didn't the war start when Palestine was invaded?

No.

Briefly, the war started when the Arabs started a civil war against the Jews, following the UN vote in 1947. It escalated when war was officially declared by the Arabs of the Levant and surrounding Arab countries, following Israel's declaration of independence.

For more see my previous posts.

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