My ex is a coercively controlling narcissist.
He is desperate for my child to attend a private secondary school and he expects me to pay half.
I have been crystal clear that I cannot and will not be doing this, and that I would prefer my child not attend private school in any case.
He will be taking our child to open days at private schools anyway, and he began a PR campaign against state school / for private school long ago.
I believe his aim is to ensure that our child will only be happy with a private school and will blame me if they attend a state school. He has also threatened to take me to court to force our child to attend private school.
I have said that I will attend any open days since this is my child and I want to understand what they are seeing and learning. I would also like to bring my husband, as my ex is horrible to deal with.
Welcoming any thoughts and advice!
For the voting to make sense:
YABU - Private school is great and you should definitely commit to this huge financial burden!
YANBU - You should not be forced to pay for private school if you don't agree with it.