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AIBU to ask why French high streets seem to thrive?

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Hoppity80 · 29/08/2026 20:11

I realise this is probably a very naive question but I have just come back from a hol in France. We visited a mix of touristy and some very non touristy towns - in all of them the high street was thriving.

Lots of independent shops, alongside chains and cafes busy streets. There were also big out of town hypermarches too but they didn’t seem obviously to impact the town centres. Hardly any of the vape shop, nail bars and boarded up charity shops in our town centres.

My question is what are the French doing to achieve this that we are not? Are there tax incentives of some kind, if so, how does
the French gov afford it and why couldn’t we adopt at least some of this model for the UK?

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Persephonia1966 · 30/08/2026 17:51

Needmorelego · 30/08/2026 17:46

@Persephonia1966 I can't think of anything more boring than having to pop to the shops everyday 😂
As I have said though in this thread - more people would shop (or go to cafés) on their local high street if the shops were actually open past 5.30pm.
That's the major reason why people don't - in my personal opinion.

Well it's not everyday. But like if you run out of milk/carrots/bread you know you can get it quickly. You don't need to load up on all the milk/vegetables/bread your hypothetical family of four might need for a whole week in one go. And you can send your children to buy bread from the shop on the corner etc. which is actually less effort than buying it yourself. It's all personal but I find having to do a "big weekly shop" at an out of town you need to drive to and park and do all the shopping and load the car and come back and unload it more annoying. That's usually half a Saturday gone. Plus the stress of it being the "weekly shop" and how annoying it is if you forget something because then you still have to go to the shops again.

Needmorelego · 30/08/2026 17:57

@Persephonia1966 I have to admit I do use my local (overpriced) corner shop frequently for extra bits and bobs - it's pretty much across the road so not much effort.
I have a secret fondness for shops like Londis or Budgens and will often pop in if walking past one. I love they always have 563 different flavours/brands of fizzy drinks.
There's quite a lot of "European" shops round my way where you pop in to buy milk and come out with obscure flavours of jam, a giant bag of Lays crisps and Haribo from Turkey 😂
Thinking about it.... I probably do shop at little convenience stores more often than I should.

Goldenbear · 30/08/2026 18:32

Octavia64 · 30/08/2026 15:55

cambridge traffic is a fucking nightmare to be fair.

yes, many people do cycle around but most people do the food shop by car at one of the big supermarkets that are out of town.

there’s loads - big Sainsbury’s at coldhams common roundabout, Tesco on Newmarket Road, Asda at the beehive centre, etc. many people who live in Cambridge very rarely go into the historic centre - that’s left to students and tourists. Much of the employment is in the science park to the north or addenvrookes/babraham biotech park to the south both of which now have their own train stations.

I'm sure it is but the people do live in Cambridge not just students, like Oxford, like many parts of London but that doesn't equate to no high street independent shops as that simply isn't true. Equally, the Brits and big cars isn't a thing at all in many cities up and down the country. Perhaps in France there is no traffic but I highly doubt it, on Germany there is certainly traffic and they still have independent high street shops frequented as much as they are in the City I live in the UK. These things are not mutually exclusive. Many people where I live don't own a car so they definitely use the high street shops and most residents within a certain radius walk or cycle everywhere. I know that this is the case in Oxford as DH is from there and everyone he knows lives centrally, it isn't just tourists and students, like the city I live in.

Goldenbear · 30/08/2026 18:34

WasShocked · 30/08/2026 17:39

The difference is customers and quality, and not just in France.

Other European countries also have thriving high streets and markets, The Netherlands, Spain, Hungary and Germany.

Customer (us) spend money in shops, they pay for quality. Thriving shops, making a profit means more thriving shops.

Instead (us) in the UK are buoyed by the cheapness of SHEIN, TEMU and the multiple online ‘fake’ websites selling copied clothing, of poor quality.
We in the UK don’t even seem to notice the tat, poor fabrics and make, dangers of chemicals or the horrid way workers are treated.

We don’t seem to be able to use any critical thinking to work out that something is wrong if an item made from a metre of fabric and flown across the world, costs less than the metre of fabric.

We don’t seem to have worked out that if we don’t shop on the high streets, there won’t be a high street, just lots of empty shops to be filled with nail bars, vape shops and barbers.

We have ourselves to blame, business owners do not run shops as a form of voluntary service to the community.

Again, not true where I am at all..

Goldenbear · 30/08/2026 18:37

Raraskirtsagogo · 30/08/2026 16:31

But you must know that Cambridge has huge traffic problems? It's healthy because it's wealthy, but would I ever live there now? No, because for several hours a day it's gridlocked.

But you can be wealthy and go to the gym, I live in one of the healthiest places in the country the good health is down to the willingness to walk everywhere or cycle, these things are either free or relatively cheap if you use the hired bikes.

Goldenbear · 30/08/2026 18:40

Phineyj · 30/08/2026 15:43

I was referring to the stereotype expressed of French people cycling and British people driving everywhere (I actually doubt there's any difference on an average, daily level).

I feel Cambridge demonstrates that it's only that a lot of Britain doesn't have a critical mass of cyclists: if the culture and infrastructure were there, they'd appear.

I see, yes apologies, but slow in the uptake then.

Phineyj · 30/08/2026 18:46

Goldenbear · 30/08/2026 18:40

I see, yes apologies, but slow in the uptake then.

No need to apologise! I was on my way out the door and didn't explain...

Phineyj · 30/08/2026 18:50

Needmorelego · 30/08/2026 17:57

@Persephonia1966 I have to admit I do use my local (overpriced) corner shop frequently for extra bits and bobs - it's pretty much across the road so not much effort.
I have a secret fondness for shops like Londis or Budgens and will often pop in if walking past one. I love they always have 563 different flavours/brands of fizzy drinks.
There's quite a lot of "European" shops round my way where you pop in to buy milk and come out with obscure flavours of jam, a giant bag of Lays crisps and Haribo from Turkey 😂
Thinking about it.... I probably do shop at little convenience stores more often than I should.

I love Budgens! Even though it is a front for Tesco.

Needmorelego · 30/08/2026 19:12

Phineyj · 30/08/2026 18:50

I love Budgens! Even though it is a front for Tesco.

Yes Budgens sell the "Jack" branded stuff - which is a Tesco brand. Decent prices though.
I love going to the Londis near my mother in law's house.
It's a wonderful selection of Happy Shopper/Euro Shopper products.

CrushingOnRubies · 30/08/2026 20:25

More free parking in town centres
more of a cafe culture
still the ethos of going to get produce from the weekly market.
getting the baguette which goes stale within a day. Oh and whilst you’re out can you get … type thing

Moonstonesareunlucky6 · 30/08/2026 20:33

Howmanycatsistoomany · 30/08/2026 10:52

Me too!

In my little town in Normandy (the town and 4 surrounding communes total about 3500 inhabitants) we have: butcher, traiteur, boulangerie, greengrocer, cave, artisanal biscuiterie-chocolaterie, 2 pharmacies, 4 hairdressers, 2 beauty salons, 2 opticians, a hearing aids centre, post office, the ubiquitous PMU, several cafes/bars, restaurants, couple of takeaways, 2 newsagents/cafes, a jewellers, an Aladdin's cave that sells everything from toys to homewares to pet supplies, a bloody fabulous wool/haberdashery shop, 2 florists, 3 boutiques, a shoe shop, a secondhand books/vinyl shop, a bicycle sales/repairs shop, 3 banks, 1 insurance office, 2 estate agents.

That's just in the town centre, on the outskirts we also have a small SuperU and a Lidl (both of which sell coriander and ginger), Point P, Maison, etc.

And a library, swimming pool, outdoor tennis courts, skate park, and a sports centre. Weekly market (although smaller than it was pre-pandemic), artisanal bread stall on a Thursday and fishmonger on a Friday in the market square.

We also have free town centre parking and lots of Mairie-organised events to bring people into the town. I think that's one of the biggest differences between France and the UK - the Mairies here actually give a shit about the villages and towns and we can see where our taxes are being spent.

Yes I was going to say; devolved power helps and having more decision-making happening at a very, very local level and also more state intervention and legislation governing town planning and which chain stores are permitted where.

Howmanycatsistoomany · 30/08/2026 20:47

KlippityKloppity · 30/08/2026 15:45

Balls. You missed out income tax on business owners and URSSAF payments. CFE is a miniscule percentage of what a business gets taxed

Yup.

DeeferDogg · 30/08/2026 21:04

The French like to take their time food shopping, its an art not like in UK where we shove everything in a trolley not caring where it came from.

Oh nonsense!

Persephonia1966 · 30/08/2026 21:39

Moonstonesareunlucky6 · 30/08/2026 20:33

Yes I was going to say; devolved power helps and having more decision-making happening at a very, very local level and also more state intervention and legislation governing town planning and which chain stores are permitted where.

Agree!
The share of tax money that goes to local authorities in the UK (councils) is tiny compared to the share that goes back to local authorities/regions in most other countries. We are very very centralised in terms of power. The powers councils do have are for things like social care which were going up in cost over the same 15 year period they received funding cuts. They also, by law, can't raise council taxes by more than a small amount each year. So the only available revenue stream available to them to raise needed revenue to cover their costs is......
Raising rents in council owned commercial properties (shops in the local high street). And given reduced customer spending the only shops that can afford it are dodgy vape shops etc.

WasShocked · 30/08/2026 21:48

Goldenbear · 30/08/2026 18:34

Again, not true where I am at all..

In what way?

CarrieOakie · 30/08/2026 22:03

Needmorelego · 30/08/2026 16:33

@CarrieOakie if it's just for 2 that's very different to a family of 2 adults, couple of kids, few pets...

That’s why when I host students for 3 months I use Ocado home delivery. It’s not cheating in my book to get someone else to do the heavy lifting, packing, & drive it to my home

Needmorelego · 30/08/2026 22:12

CarrieOakie · 30/08/2026 22:03

That’s why when I host students for 3 months I use Ocado home delivery. It’s not cheating in my book to get someone else to do the heavy lifting, packing, & drive it to my home

I was being a bit tongue in cheek saying you were "cheating" because you originally said you could get a weekly shop home in bike bags 😁
Maybe I should have said "fibbing".
I didn't mean it in a nasty way - just making a little joke 🙂

Genevieva · 30/08/2026 22:13

KlippityKloppity · 30/08/2026 15:45

Balls. You missed out income tax on business owners and URSSAF payments. CFE is a miniscule percentage of what a business gets taxed

Employees pay these. Just like employees pay income tax and national insurance in the UK. The point is that when setting up a new business with a shop on the high street, the costs are much greater in Britain, because you are liable for business rates even if your business makes no profit. It’s an expensive risk compared with in France.

Howmanycatsistoomany · 30/08/2026 23:10

Genevieva · 30/08/2026 22:13

Employees pay these. Just like employees pay income tax and national insurance in the UK. The point is that when setting up a new business with a shop on the high street, the costs are much greater in Britain, because you are liable for business rates even if your business makes no profit. It’s an expensive risk compared with in France.

Employers pay a share of social contributions to the URSSAF or MSA.

Crikeyalmighty · 30/08/2026 23:37

@WasShocked it’s a factor though and I do see it - when we lived in Copenhagen they don’t allow Amazon.dk - you have to get from Amazon Germany or Sweden and so consequently Amanzon then charge shipping and are not cheaper than getting from a shop -hence Copenhagen had all sorts of weird and wonderful niche shops that can’t make it pay in the UK - plus they don’t have the kind of business rates system we have in the UK - the UK has the worst of all worlds if it comes to physical retail and making it pay - a consumer who usually can go online and get cheaper, plus big rents and big business rates

Crikeyalmighty · 30/08/2026 23:40

DeeferDogg · 30/08/2026 21:04

The French like to take their time food shopping, its an art not like in UK where we shove everything in a trolley not caring where it came from.

Oh nonsense!

I’m afraid that’s a bit stereotyped . Plenty are perfectly happy to buy cheap stuff - A lot of expats however are the type and with time to go around multi shop shopping - as are better off French

Crikeyalmighty · 30/08/2026 23:46

paomara · 30/08/2026 16:36

My neighbour had to stop driving due to illness. Well he was devastated naturally, and I got as much as I could for him when doing my own shopping. However, he enjoyed mooching around the shops himself, so eventually got himself a three wheel cycle. Well OMG it is amazing! He needed that for stability and balance. There's a massive basket on the back for "stuff". He is greeted and feted all around the area now on his big green trike.

I want one too but not yet. They are not cheap either, but cheaper than a car I suppose! I also think those bikes with the little covered carriage on the back for kids are fab. You'd get a lot of shopping in there, feck the kids!

I think there are electric versions out now, not sure, but that would be excellent. I'm future proofing for my older age, which is not that far away now!

It was like this when we lived in Copenhagen - big difference was a lot of people lived within Copenhagen and finished work at 4.15pm and started early and school pre care started early

Crikeyalmighty · 31/08/2026 00:01

Whyherewego · 30/08/2026 15:11

Well my parents live in SW France. The town centre has been absolutely devastated by the out of town supermarkets and retail parks. Yes there's a little bakery and a grocery shop and a couple of tourist bits but nothing like the town it was when they first moved there 30 years ago. My parents buy loads on Amazon because it's convenient. Yes they go to the weekly market too for veg, but it's far from being an idyllic thriving town. The local mayor has tried very hard to regenerate the town including bringing in loads of migrants as part of a wider scheme but none of it has really helped much unfortunately. No one has any money for independent shops so they all go to Lidl and Aldi in the out of town retail parks.

I think that’s the reality rather than what many romanticists want to think France is but isn’t - in all but the loveliest places with a strong tourist vibe

Crikeyalmighty · 31/08/2026 00:21

Persephonia1966 · 30/08/2026 15:01

The Dutch have much better public transport and (it's a stereotype but a true stereotype) a cycle everywhere culture. Most cities, towns, villages are constructed with pedestrians/cyclists in mind first and cars afterwards. If you are cycling or walking short distances you are going to your local shop or high street. If you are getting the bus/tram you are going to the in-town shopping centre. Whereas if the only way to get about easily is by car you might as well drive all the way to the giant Supermarket or out of town. Or just order it online. So local shops closed down so people use cars even more. It's a vicious cycle that affects the UK more because it's less walkable. Plus the Dutch spend a lot on different initiatives to help the high street/area feels alive through the year IME

The Dutch local shops situation is better than the UKs. And the UKs is better than Americas. It's not a coincidence that also mirrors the facilities for non-car drivers in each country. The Netherlands isn't a utopia and I think internet shopping has affected shops there to. But not to the same extent.

Very interesting you mention this - we are going to the EU for business reasons ( multiple hoop jumping in itself post Brexit) Netherlands really fitted for all sorts of business reasons ( we lived in Copenhagen for 2 years and sadly came back for family issues) we have dismissed Netherlands this time - partly because we like a decent car and partly because we also like a really nice rental house - and having been several times in last year, it’s clearly not very pro car and the rental houses were pretty poor for an awful lot of money having spoke to the relocation lady and people have ended up in Airbnbs for months - apart from that it’s great!!! - and my husband won’t compromise in our early 60s on these basics. So it’s going to be Sweden or Germany, like their cars, better value housing

Genevieva · 31/08/2026 07:04

Howmanycatsistoomany · 30/08/2026 23:10

Employers pay a share of social contributions to the URSSAF or MSA.

Employers in the UK also pay employer NI. The question was about high street shops.

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