AIBU to turn down a huge huge promotion due to guilt?
posted on parenting thread but still in two minds. Feel guilty accepting a full time role which means more time away from LO - longer days at work with condensed hours.
Single parent so will be difficult juggling nursery drop and pick ups will be difficult. My employer is somewhat flexible but I do have concerns that the nature of the role will inevitably mean less flexibility than I currently have as it is more senior. Commute would be into central London and I would have to ask to leave early on office days - twice a week - as I won’t make it home before nursery closing otherwise.
Was renting but moved in with parents to save. This would be an opportunity to move out and have a place of our own again.
really torn - can’t tell if being unreasonable to turn town, or crazy to take it and make it work.