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To think Dolly Parton was some sort of prophet or philosopher

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Judicioususeofthewordgirdle · 26/08/2026 16:42

There have been loads of clips of Dolly Parton interviews around and articles with quotes and the more I watch and read, the more I think she was some kind of font of wisdom. An oracle. A prophet.

Her approach to life, everything, she was like Yoda in rhinestones. Just the perfect attitude, and a long, productive, inspirational life.

”Legend” is thrown around liberally but in her case it is fully deserved.

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CarbootJunction · 28/08/2026 16:50

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Newname26 · 28/08/2026 16:52

NovemberMorn · 28/08/2026 13:13

...and busy.
However, there is no record of her ever saying she had been unfaithful, so to state she was open about her affairs, was a lie.

I think the open bit means they were both free to have friendships outside the marriage, and he wasn't fussed about being attached to her 365 days a year tagging along with her on the road.
He was happy to stay at home, maybe travel with her when it suited him.

But friendships doesn't mean affairs or friends with benefits, just good friends.

NovemberMorn · 28/08/2026 17:00

Newname26 · 28/08/2026 16:52

I think the open bit means they were both free to have friendships outside the marriage, and he wasn't fussed about being attached to her 365 days a year tagging along with her on the road.
He was happy to stay at home, maybe travel with her when it suited him.

But friendships doesn't mean affairs or friends with benefits, just good friends.

She has given interviews where she says neither were ever unfaithful, but they were free to flirt with other people. it's the sort of relationship they had with each other.
That's when she used the word 'open'.

NovemberMorn · 28/08/2026 17:01

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She died of cancer.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 28/08/2026 17:12

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Don't be so ridiculous.

She had Rheumatoid Arthritis for many years. This in itself carries a statistically significant risk of developing some types of cancer - and 80 is a perfectly normal lifespan in any case.

Snowdropsaremyfavourite · 28/08/2026 17:17

bigplate · 26/08/2026 16:51

She was a 'poet'. Her lyrics were incredible.

She appealed to both men and women, which is highly unusual.

I love the lyrics to Jolene - "Her voice is soft like summer rain."

I think that's so beautiful and poetic.

Loveinbloom · 28/08/2026 17:34

Dolly came to the hospital I worked at in South Yorkshire as part of her Imagination Library. I remember seeing her surrounded by 'the management' though she did meet some of the 'proper' staff and went on to the maternity unit. The parents of the latest newborn was pictured with her, and the huge picture is still displayed in the hospital to this day.

For such a huge personality, she was tiny.

Small but mighty.

NovemberMorn · 28/08/2026 18:01

When Des O'Conner commented that she had a tiny waist and tiny feet, she answered, 'That's because nothing grows in the shade.'😆

saveforthat · 28/08/2026 18:09

ForRealHedgehog · 27/08/2026 23:01

Really? In all cases? What about for breast reconstructions after a mastectomy? What about correcting terrible birth defects? Those people could just put up with their lot too. But if their personal mental health and wellbeing is better because of plastic surgery then thank goodness for plastic surgery. What people do with their body is their business. Perhaps we should save our criticisms for the society that judges people on how they look instead.

I'm pretty sure you knew I didn't mean breast reconstruction etc.

lebin · 28/08/2026 20:52

I think she has such a wonderful way with words! Obviously she was a gifted songwriter but she was great in interviews and quick witted too.

FrankieNeverRelax · 29/08/2026 15:01

She was lovely but no single person should be put on such a pedestal

wasieverreallyhere · 29/08/2026 19:32

She was just a decent human being not many left she did go round doing charity work and wanting a prize for it she put her money were her mouth was not like the fakes like the beckams she was the real thing probly one of the last

NovemberMorn · 29/08/2026 19:44

I think when it comes out after their death that they did a lot for charity....that's the true measure of how generous and good-hearted someone is.
...George Micheal springs to mind.
There is a celeb who is always talking about what he is going to do to help people....and he does it, if only he didn't have to announce it.

Niccinuuxx · 29/08/2026 20:20

Flamingojune · 26/08/2026 18:17

So what's the message. Women cant age?

I think her message was woman can be who they want to be.

SetTheWorldOnFire84 · 29/08/2026 21:00

Flamingojune · 26/08/2026 16:47

Love her, but not sure all that plastic surgery is a great message about being a woman

Never mind. It's called free choice

SetTheWorldOnFire84 · 29/08/2026 21:01

FrankieNeverRelax · 29/08/2026 15:01

She was lovely but no single person should be put on such a pedestal

She should. You should actually do a bit of research into all she did for people

SetTheWorldOnFire84 · 29/08/2026 21:02

NovemberMorn · 29/08/2026 19:44

I think when it comes out after their death that they did a lot for charity....that's the true measure of how generous and good-hearted someone is.
...George Micheal springs to mind.
There is a celeb who is always talking about what he is going to do to help people....and he does it, if only he didn't have to announce it.

I truly loved George, but Dolly was just on another level.

Lassofnorth · 29/08/2026 22:41

Flamingojune · 26/08/2026 16:47

Love her, but not sure all that plastic surgery is a great message about being a woman

I think the whole point was she was totally free to do what she wanted, and felt the same about everyone else.

Betterbegood · 30/08/2026 09:34

no but think she had enormous charisma was a woman of god and gave joy and happiness to many around the world to that extent i would describe her as philanthropist and evangelist

NovemberMorn · 30/08/2026 13:30

SetTheWorldOnFire84 · 29/08/2026 21:02

I truly loved George, but Dolly was just on another level.

No scandals followed her; George had a few, but I think he wasn't as mentally stable as Dolly.
But my point was they both did loads for charities and good causes behind the scenes; neithet felt the need to tell the world what they were doing.

AuntyBumBum · 30/08/2026 13:38

If you want the rainbow, you've got to put up with the rain.

Do you know which "philosopher" said that? Dolly Parton.

And people say she's just a big pair of tits.

ScottishSoupDragon · 31/08/2026 11:47

I admired her for so many different reasons. But the thing that was most impressive for me, is that she made a point of NOT becoming a billionaire. That definite financial choice allowed her to set up and maintain all her wonderful humanitarian projects.
The world would be a better place if more billionaires thought like Dolly. 💔

OnTheBoardwalk · 31/08/2026 12:15

I live in the UK and didn’t realise Dolly’s Imagination Libraries have given out 7m books in the UK. Amazing

Newname26 · 31/08/2026 13:00

OnTheBoardwalk · 31/08/2026 12:15

I live in the UK and didn’t realise Dolly’s Imagination Libraries have given out 7m books in the UK. Amazing

What an amazing legacy.

I knew books had been given out in the uk but not that many.

FrankieNeverRelax · 08/09/2026 08:57

SetTheWorldOnFire84 · 29/08/2026 21:01

She should. You should actually do a bit of research into all she did for people

I have thank you and I’m a fan I think she’s an amazing person but I stand by what I said.

“A prophet is a person who speaks on behalf of a divine being, serving as a messenger or intermediary to deliver religious teachings, warnings, or guidance to humanity”