Overhead neighbours talking about me?

7 or 8 pm calling your cats in is okay. My cat is so dang loud at 4am he wakes up the neighbors himself when he wants in. Some neighbors yell when kids too loud.. it is what it is. Pretend like u didnt even hear the conversation. And keep your gaurd up when u see them

Why aren't you saying what time you shout them in and how many cats do you have?

Your neighbour looking after your cats wasn’t rude so I don’t know what the problem was? If she said ‘’I know, she’s an inconsiderate cow! I effing hate her!’’ I’d have more sympathy, but it was the second neighbour that was rude, and I can see where she’s coming from if you’re waking her every night, but she could have raised it with you politely. She’s allowed to vent, though.

Time to take heed and get a cat flap.

Get a cat flap, shouting on the street every night sounds really annoying for your neighbours.

Sounds like neighbour looking after cats was just going along with the conversation and was truthful as it clearly is loud and annoying. Doesn’t sii pi nd like she was that bothered but gave her experience when it was mentioned by others. Don’t just stop talking to people just apologise and move on. Mention the music of it is bothering you

Tbh the neighbour playing loud music is MUCH more antisocial

Cats are resilient creatures and will come back when they are ready, hungry, etc. I don’t think it is really necessary for you to be shouting loudly for your cats to come in several times, late at night. This must be incredibly annoying for your neighbours if it is waking them up.
I think a cat flap is definitely the answer.
As regards the loud music, when and how often does this occur? If it, too, is late at night and disturbing your sleep, then you have good reason to bring the matter to her attention. If it is only occasionally and in the day time/early evening, then perhaps you need to accept it unless it is every single day and the whole street can hear it. If that is so, you can report it, especially if other neighbours are bothered by it.

My old neighbour used to do this between 10-11 at night when I was trying to sleep, it’s maddening and inconsiderate. I think they intended for you to overhear as they’re probably fed up.
I don’t know what it is about pet owners, they think everyone else cares about their animal as much as they do.

Knock on their door if it's bothering you and ask them to turn it down.

You're focusing on the wrong thing here.

They are well within their rights to have a little moan about something that is incredibly annoying. It is a good thing you overheard and now you need to stop disturbing your poor neighbours.

My in-law' neighbour did this. ROSIE! ROSSSSIE! COME IN ROSIE, WHERE ARE YOU GIRL. No response, repeat in 10 min. Over and over.

Don't be that person