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Anyone else sad summer is drawing to a close?

229 replies

Summerover2 · 21/08/2026 21:22

I’ve had a great summer - loads of memories with our daughter (3), playing in the garden daily and trips in the sun.

I already feel sad it’s coming to a close - I like the Christmas build up in December but apart from that I really struggle with the grey days and know I’ll be reminiscing loads for summer 😥

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AlwaysPurple · 23/08/2026 16:25

Am I going to miss this summer of dealing with a high energy toddler whilst pregnant with twins in seemingly endless hot weather? Not a chance! I love autumn, the cosy evenings. I also dislike that's light at 4.30/5am. I sleep so much better when it's not summer.

PancakeCloud · 23/08/2026 17:19

I’m very sad. Yes I know it’s been hot but I just love the light.

Netcurtainnelly · 23/08/2026 17:59

A lovely day today. 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞

Cara707 · 23/08/2026 18:14

Totally agree OP. Also I'm in Scotland and feel we missed the nice heatwave bit of the summer! (we had the odd day over 25c but mostly 16-21c and some rain) so I'm even less ready for Autumn to start.

Shinyhappyapple · 23/08/2026 18:35

starrynight009 · 23/08/2026 15:37

I had the best summer ever and we didn't even go away. I started working a term time job this year so I've had the whole summer off with my DD. It has just been fantastic not having to worry about rain. Granted it was too hot at times. But I'm going to remember this summer forever. I'm not looking forward to going back to the school and work routine.

Working term time is so lovely when your children are primary age. I used to love planning all the cheap / free activities and days out.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 23/08/2026 18:38

I agree. I love summer and spending so much time with my daughter. If it wasn't for having to earn a wage I'd homeschool her. I don't like the romanticisation of autumn by people who've seen too many pictures of hedgehogs knitting by candlelight in treehouses or American movies featuring sunny days with flame coloured leaves and cute jumpers. Not what we get- endless rain, a few destructive storms and relentless, depressing darkness.

DrFaustina · 23/08/2026 23:44

There's an edge to the mornings now. The squirrels are going bonkers. This time of year always reminds me of going to uni for the first time and of all the parties I went to that summer; walking home at daylight as it got cooler.

scalt · 24/08/2026 07:06

It looks like “El Nino” is going to become the new gloomy buzzword 😩, and we’re going to hear it all year, 25 years after Bridget Jones turned it into something funny.

”It’s a blip, I think Latin music is on its way out.”

panomara · 24/08/2026 09:23

Too hot, too cold, too wet, too dry, too calm, too windy, too bright, too dark.

It's just in our nature I think to talk about all things weather isn't it? Anyway I'm off now to check how awful this El Nino thing is going to be. And for sure it will be hyped up no end so we enter the Winter terrified. Again.

Snackpocket · 29/08/2026 11:31

I’m so bummed out with today’s weather. The miserable rain, it’s an insight of what it to come and I hate it. I hate not being able to to do things because it’s wet. I’m in a foul mood today.

DrFaustina · 29/08/2026 12:22

Snackpocket · 29/08/2026 11:31

I’m so bummed out with today’s weather. The miserable rain, it’s an insight of what it to come and I hate it. I hate not being able to to do things because it’s wet. I’m in a foul mood today.

The weather is basically now a teenager: all or nothing and no in between.
You want sun? OK, I'll fucking burn it all.
Oh, you want rain now? Here. Have it biblical.

Ihateasthma · 29/08/2026 12:24

I’m loving it

Much better for my health.

Plus round here the kids went back to school- varied from school and the school year. No more screaming.

The rain has brought some green back into the grass

iloveanearlynight · 29/08/2026 13:16

Snackpocket · 29/08/2026 11:31

I’m so bummed out with today’s weather. The miserable rain, it’s an insight of what it to come and I hate it. I hate not being able to to do things because it’s wet. I’m in a foul mood today.

Christ, do you not understand how critical this rain is after months of drout? It's essential for the crops for a start or we won't have enough food...

Dilemma999 · 29/08/2026 13:44

I can’t wait for the schools to start as my garden is surrounded by (mostly nice) 7-10 year olds. Incessant screaming, trampolines both sides, footballs against the fence and in the garden. Bliss today with the heavy rain plus it’s much cooler. I like Autumn the best.

Snackpocket · 29/08/2026 13:57

iloveanearlynight · 29/08/2026 13:16

Christ, do you not understand how critical this rain is after months of drout? It's essential for the crops for a start or we won't have enough food...

That doesn’t mean I have to like it though, me hating it and it being needed can both be true.

AgnesMcDoo · 29/08/2026 14:05

It’s been fairly shit. Mostly grey. Lots of rain. Only 5/6 decent days of weather. I’ve had my central heat in a bunch of days because it was cold.

2026letsgo · 29/08/2026 14:29

iloveanearlynight · 29/08/2026 13:16

Christ, do you not understand how critical this rain is after months of drout? It's essential for the crops for a start or we won't have enough food...

Don’t be dense. It’s possible for the poster to understand we need rain but hate a day of continuous wet weather and gloom.

Ideally it should rain every night with nice bright days.

DrFaustina · 29/08/2026 15:09

Having watched the washing line from the confines of the house, my tumble dryer is having its moment again. Several moments.

Silverbirchleaf · 29/08/2026 15:38

DrFaustina · 29/08/2026 12:22

The weather is basically now a teenager: all or nothing and no in between.
You want sun? OK, I'll fucking burn it all.
Oh, you want rain now? Here. Have it biblical.

Love this description.

MissyB1 · 29/08/2026 15:53

DrFaustina · 29/08/2026 12:22

The weather is basically now a teenager: all or nothing and no in between.
You want sun? OK, I'll fucking burn it all.
Oh, you want rain now? Here. Have it biblical.

And sadly that’s the future for our weather I suspect, stroppy teenager forever 😱

MrsLFii · 29/08/2026 16:01

I am very torn, as ever. Ok the one hand my husband is home more in the winter months due to the nature of his job but on the other, I LOVE summer. I’ll miss the long days in the sunshine in the garden, at the beach, in the woods etc etc with my children terribly. My eldest starts school on Thursday and I’m not ready, I don’t think I’d ever be, I hate the thought of it. It’s been a really special summer for me, and I hope for the kids too, although they won’t remember it.

Netcurtainnelly · 29/08/2026 20:08

Hate it today's been awful.

DallasMajor · 29/08/2026 20:11

Hate it. Hate that I'm wet and the coats are wet and shoes and I can't dry them.

Problem is we won't have the right amount of rain, we will have too much and then all the farmers crops will wash away/flood.

Totaldramallama · 29/08/2026 21:14

I loved today. Garden got a lovely soaking. I got soggy on my dog walk and now my hair is curly. I love getting a bit soggy then having a warm shower when I get in. Dd and I did some baking. I am delighted the rain has come. Maybe I won't be in a few months when the fields are too drenched to walk in but for now I'll enjoy it

sanityisamyth · 29/08/2026 21:41

Had a shit day today. DS usually does archery on Saturday mornings but I turned his alarm off as it was torrential rain from 4am (which woke me up 😡) and I didn’t want to stand in that for 2 hours being cold and wet. I bloody hate autumn and winter.