So some of you may have read my thread
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5474719-to-ask-if-this-is-what-long-marriage-looks-like?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share
Just by means of an update, he's still not talking to me nearly 3 weeks now
And yesterday was my birthday
He got a generic happy birthday card from the DDs and that's it.
My DD11 got up early and decorated for me and sung me happy birthday with an apple turnover she'd made in school the day before.
She asked me in the sweetest voice "have you not got any presents...did you not ask for anything?"
So yeh, he's left me with the emotional load of dealing with that too.
Add this on top of the fact that my mum had a stroke in September, my dad died in October, my mum has had multiple hospital admissions since then due to complications so ive also "lost" my mum, or at least the version of her that was my mum
DD11 is ASD and im dealing with a lot with school with her and ive "taken on" my brother who is also ASD and needa a lot of suplort who was previously supported by mum / dad
But yeh, obviously "D"H needs are a priority and im a terrible person for not prioritising them.
I thought he would get me at least a token gift from the girls. A packet of fruit pastilles, a keyring, anything. But no, that was too much effort for him.
Im done
Im getting my ducks in a row
This is the end.