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To remind people NOT to use hot water bottles?

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Laptopsas · 21/09/2025 22:40

There is another thread running about cold weather and hit water bottles are being recommended as safe. They are not.

Get a heated throw or the microwaveable bags.

If you must use one, don’t use boiling water.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5068468-to-remind-you-all-to-throw-out-old-hot-water-bottles

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5176765-water-bottle-exploded

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2kd7k2e48jo

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdxnez4zxkno

Picture of Sharon Portingale smiling

Hot water bottle warning after woman suffers severe burns

Sharon Portingale woke up with an oozing blister and still has mobility problems, two years on.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2kd7k2e48jo

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UrbaneProfane · 22/09/2025 08:22

I cut my finger badly on my kitchen knife once but I didn’t put it in the bin afterwards.

Star458 · 22/09/2025 08:22

Love a hot water bottle, much more that the other options tbh - cheaper too. I always put boiling water in (on top of a little cold) and had quite a few get a little leak on me, and still never been burned. People should be sensible but i certainly won't stop using hot water bottles.

HerewardtheSleepy · 22/09/2025 08:21

Laptopsas · 21/09/2025 22:40

There is another thread running about cold weather and hit water bottles are being recommended as safe. They are not.

Get a heated throw or the microwaveable bags.

If you must use one, don’t use boiling water.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5068468-to-remind-you-all-to-throw-out-old-hot-water-bottles

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5176765-water-bottle-exploded

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2kd7k2e48jo

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdxnez4zxkno

Total rubbish. There's nothing wrong with hot water bottles. The issue is that some people weren't taught by their mothers as kids NEVER to fill a bottle with boiling water - just in case something like this happens.

I'm not giving up my 2 (yes, 2) bottles just because some other people are too stupid to use them properly.

YABVVU.

PistachioTiramisu · 22/09/2025 08:20

Sometimes I find it difficult to believe some of the nonsense people put up on here! HWBs have been around for years and years (with copper warming pans before that). I appreciate that some people are stupid and don't take the appropriate precautions around using them, but whatever happened to common sense? There is nothing more comforting than a lovely warm HWB - infinitely preferable to lying on something electrical in bed!

limescale · 22/09/2025 08:13

I am life long HWB user. I will however replace both mine and DS's this winter.
I've just checked my Amazon orders and they are both coming up for 3 years old.

Walkaround · 22/09/2025 08:07

Advise people not to drink tea or coffee, either, OP - loads of serious burns from cups of those, too. Handles breaking on cups, uneven surfaces, accidental spillages… Lethal, I tell you, lethal…

EmpressOfTheThread · 22/09/2025 08:02

Tastaturen · 22/09/2025 07:38

That's no way to refer to your OH!

😂

marchmash · 22/09/2025 07:54

In the Netherlands they use metal ones with a screw top. Advantage is it can't randomly burst or come undone that easily. Of course it then needs a slightly thicker cover. But still...

MissFitss · 22/09/2025 07:52

NewHome2026 · 22/09/2025 07:49

My brother suffered a severe burn from a hot water bottle where the cover slipped and the rubber bit pressed against his leg. He has been on a night out and was a little worse for wear so didn’t notice until it was practically stuck to his skin

So it was because he was drunk, not because he used a hot water bottle. He was too drunk to wake up when the bottle burned his skin. I hope he's ok but it's a bit like saying ban cars because the driver was killed while driving when drunk.

HoppingPavlova · 22/09/2025 07:52

I use them and will continue to use them. I get replace at 3 years or if the bottle is under 3 years but has done 2 full winters of use. I use hot but not boiling water, don’t overfill, expel extra air and use a cover so there is a barrier between the rubber and my skin.

I’ve had a wheat bag combust in flames a while after being taken out of a microwave so I’m not too fond of them but some of my kids prefer them.

I’ve also seen pretty much every accident known to man over the years but would never tell people not to walk on the pavement for example - had quite a few people die after cars lost control, mounted pavements and hit them. You just need to be sensible about things and accept there is risk in pretty much every single aspect of life.

MissFitss · 22/09/2025 07:51

I've not read all the links in the OP but what is typical with these stories in the media is that no one asked the 'victim' what they did wrongly.

There are risks to everything, even pouring boiling water from your kettle into a teapot or getting the roast out of the oven.

Years ago, before we had airfryers and oven chips, there used to be accidents and fires with chip pans. The oil would catch fire. But no one said ban chip pans.

The answer was to educate people how to use them safely.

LillyPJ · 22/09/2025 07:51

MissFitss · 22/09/2025 07:47

Yes! People were burned.
Many old electric blankets were a fire hazard and the wires were almost exposed. Lethal.
People would sleep on top of them all night with dire consequences.

They've definitely changed since those days. You can get ones you can sleep on top of and can leave on all night if you want. I love my electric blanket. I put it on for 15 minutes while I clean my teeth and it warms the whole bed.

NewHome2026 · 22/09/2025 07:49

My brother suffered a severe burn from a hot water bottle where the cover slipped and the rubber bit pressed against his leg. He has been on a night out and was a little worse for wear so didn’t notice until it was practically stuck to his skin

MissFitss · 22/09/2025 07:47

Amberlynnswashcloth · 22/09/2025 07:39

Is nobody here old enough to remember the spate of horrific accidents caused by electric blankets when they were popular in the 70s and 80s? I know the technology will be different but the thought of being electrocuted and burning alive in my bed gives me nightmares. I'll stick to my hot water bottle. I'll just make sure its in date, not filled to bursting with boiling water and removed before going to sleep so it doesn't get squashed.

Yes! People were burned.
Many old electric blankets were a fire hazard and the wires were almost exposed. Lethal.
People would sleep on top of them all night with dire consequences.

MissFitss · 22/09/2025 07:46

Crimble123 · 22/09/2025 07:41

I worked in a primary school a couple of years ago and they gave out hot water bottles!!! I was always so shocked. One day I did fill one up and ended up burning myself. Guess what even after that they still used hot water bottles.

But surely that was because you did something wrong.

StrongLikeMamma · 22/09/2025 07:42

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 21/09/2025 22:49

Yes.

You need to make sure they’re new, and not damaged. If you use boiling water, make sure you let the air out of the top.

I use one most nights in the winter. I have a long one and wrap it in a blanket and put it under my duvet. It means my bed is warm and I can get in, and wrap myself in the blanket. I then put the hot water bottle behind me.

Always let the air out!

Crimble123 · 22/09/2025 07:41

I worked in a primary school a couple of years ago and they gave out hot water bottles!!! I was always so shocked. One day I did fill one up and ended up burning myself. Guess what even after that they still used hot water bottles.

Antimimisti · 22/09/2025 07:40

Washingupdone · 22/09/2025 07:36

The material used is perishable and should only be used 2 to 3 years after the date of being manufactured, check the flower.

You can also see if the rubber is starting to perish as it begins to look shiny and then to develop hairline cracks - it's worth doing a visual check in addition to looking at the date of manufacture.

Amberlynnswashcloth · 22/09/2025 07:39

Is nobody here old enough to remember the spate of horrific accidents caused by electric blankets when they were popular in the 70s and 80s? I know the technology will be different but the thought of being electrocuted and burning alive in my bed gives me nightmares. I'll stick to my hot water bottle. I'll just make sure its in date, not filled to bursting with boiling water and removed before going to sleep so it doesn't get squashed.

Tastaturen · 22/09/2025 07:38

MissFitss · 22/09/2025 07:18

I like HWB that have a nice fluffy or quilted cover. That means you can use hot water 😃 but it cools gradually and stays hot longer overnight.

Nothing worse than waking up in the night with a freezing cold lump of rubber next to your bum.

That's no way to refer to your OH!

LillyPJ · 22/09/2025 07:37

Iheartmysmart · 22/09/2025 07:30

Heated throws are not without their own risks. I nodded off under mine last winter and when I woke up, the half eaten bag of Maltesers I’d got on my lap had melted. And I had to go back several chapters in my audiobook.

I really think you should start a thread warning people NOT to eat any chocolate products while reading because of the risk of nodding off before they've finished. I hope you've recovered from your trauma.

Washingupdone · 22/09/2025 07:36

Washingupdone · 21/09/2025 23:37

Hot water bottles are good. However check that they are ok by looking for the flower symbol near the top of the bottle.
This flower symbol, found on hot water bottles, indicates exactly when it was made. The number in the middle is the year it was made, the flower segments represent the 12 months of the year and the dots inside those represent the number of weeks.13 Jan 2025

The material used is perishable and should only be used 2 to 3 years after the date of being manufactured, check the flower.

LillyPJ · 22/09/2025 07:34

JustMyView13 · 22/09/2025 07:13

Specifically what other cases they’ve seen lots of, and that they work in A&E.

It just said 'anyone working in 'A&E'. That wasn't an assumption.

EmpressOfTheThread · 22/09/2025 07:31

Iheartmysmart · 22/09/2025 07:30

Heated throws are not without their own risks. I nodded off under mine last winter and when I woke up, the half eaten bag of Maltesers I’d got on my lap had melted. And I had to go back several chapters in my audiobook.

Thank you for that timely warning. I can only imagine your distress.