Husband’s compulsion to constantly touch me

Erm, it sounds like DS was correct to call your creepy husband a mong. Why are you defending your husband? Your daughter is already defending you to your DH by calling out the inappropriate touching your DH is continuing to do to you without your consent.

You are sending s message to your DC that is damaging and not protecting them.

Grow up, put your creepy DH in his place and be a positive example for your children by showing you set boundaries.

What are you scared of thst you continue to put up with an abusive husband?

Moaning about him js changing nothing. You're messing up your DCs lives by allowing DH behaviour to continue.

Get some balls, kick him in his and LTB. He's an abusive pos.

Well done turning your plans into reality! I hope you and your children get the chance to thrive and your new safe and loving home.

You've secured another house to move to but failed to mention this in your OP?

Something very weird going on on MN tonight! Has the site been hacked or something?

I remember your other thread. To be brutally honest @HairyPeachy in your shoes I would tell him to fucking fuck off. I would be really really nasty about it, so much so that he would stop. Find your inner bollocks and deal with this.

Just read the update. Well done and good luck with everything.

It’s because there’s plenty of women with similar husbands/partners 🙁

Are you buying or renting?

My partner is very much like your DH. It’s constant groping. It’s going so bad I involuntarily shake when he comes near me and often when he hugs me and goes anywhere near my neck I have these involuntary jerky movements because my body is trying to get away from him.

One time we had a family hug with our toddler and he put my breast in his mouth through my t-shirt. It was utterly disgusting. I felt so violated.

If he walks past me he will grab me or poke my bottom or come up behind me and make thrusting movements and moan. Or he will stick his fingers into the sides of my hips. Or he will stand so close behind me to freak me out. Or we’ll be driving and the will lean over and scratch me repeatedly. I hate it. Ignoring doesn’t help. I find myself having to defend myself in my own home.
put my elbow out to create distance - I’ll remove his hand from my body by pulling back one finger.

It’s so awful. He’s abusive in other ways. The things he says to me and the names he calls me are utterly awful. If I use the bathroom to pee he says how much it smells like excrement. He regularly threatens to kick me out of the house (he owns the house).

I admire you for having a plan to leave.

How sounds very angry or resentful. He's repeatedly doing something you've asked him not to do because he knows you don't like it.

Good on you for leaving. You’re teaching your son the right behaviour around consent and autonomy, and by leaving you’re modelling it. That man sounds very fucked up. Jealous of your son, patting you like you’re a cross between a sex toy and a Labrador. Gross.

@HairyPeachy
If you get this moved to the Relationships board, you'll get some helpful practical advice on leaving, and support as you do. AIBU tends to get a tad brutal quite often, and what you need is support.

The very first words in OP's post are:
I’ve posted about my husband before

And from her updates it's clear she's been acting on the previous advice. She's obviously looking for a bit of validation and support as things are about to get difficult. Could you try that instead of hounding her?

I’ve just read the linked previous thread
This is a word for word copy

LTB

Yes the exact post, word for word, was posted in the past 12 months or so.

There was also this version in Jan https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5256782-dh-wont-stop-touching-me

Your husband sounds v odd..giving me horror film vibes! Please stans your ground. If he still won't respect you, I do think you should LTB & I don't use this often.

I thought Purple Aki was dead!

I am so relieved to hear you have plans to leave. Good luck, OP. This is the start of a much better life.

Yep, me too

God just reading this thread, I can’t wait for you to leave this twat!

Why are you still with him?

What is keeping you there?

This is to show ownership - so non-romantic, frankly, disgusting.

@HairyPeachy I don't think the arm thing is weird as many women do have nice soft arms and hands.

Not justifying his behaviour by the way, just explaining.

@HairyPeachy but he brought it in himself. He knows you don’t like the touching or his parenting. His attitude or anger. Yet he carried on. Why would any one stay? Just think how happy and peaceful life will be long term for the kids in your new home with a fresh start.

You need support when you tell him - have people with you. Preferably your largest and most intimidating friends or family.