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To be really glad I don't live in America right now

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AnonymousBleep · 31/01/2025 09:57

I really feel for ordinary Americans. It's bad enough on this side of the Channel, hearing daily about Trump's latest petty, spiteful, idiotic bullshit - that rant against the Bishop who asked him to have mercy on immigrants, the ridiculous and insulting attempt to blame 'diversity' for the plane crash - but living under it must be so much worse. And heaven help you if you're LGBT or a woman. Or an immigrant. Or not white. Or poor. Or anyone else Trump and his freakshow of a government despises. I moan about the UK all the time, like everyone else who lives here, because god knows it's far from perfect, but at least we don't have a government in charge who is trying to strip huge swathes of the population of their rights and citizenship.

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RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 14:10

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:53

  1. So he has not “reinstated border controls” he has merely closed one route for claiming asylum (the legality of which is currently being challenged in court.)

  2. So he has not rescinded birthright citizenship (which as you acknowledge is not a decision he has the power to make.)

  3. Why is it important to clarify this? How do you enforce this in the private sphere?

  4. Yes diversity for diversity sake is nonsense. What does that have to do with DEI?

  5. Why specifically do you think it is beneficial to shut down the dept of education and the other government agencies he is closing? What do you expect the benefit to the average american to be?

If you paid attention to the border crisis (and no reason for you to do so, if you’re not American) then you’d know that asylum claims were the reason we had a huge number of illegal immigrants cross the border. Removing that option is a key strategy.

And producing an EO is an efficient way to rid ourselves of birthright citizenship.

Personally I think preventing men from
officially designating themselves as female is important. You may not care, fine. But that’s why I’m pleased with that EO

DEI departments/Dept of Education/USAID are all a massive waste of taxpayer money, need no further justification tbh

MissConductUS · 05/02/2025 14:04

snugsnug1 · 05/02/2025 13:59

Well presumably, since the US is a country of immigrants, the 14th Amendment applied to one of your ancestors? Or did your family spring up, bingo, from the very rocks of American soil?

If both parents are American citizens, so are any children, regardless of where they are born.

https://www.uscis.gov/citizenship/learn-about-citizenship/i-am-the-child-of-a-us-citizen

This happens frequently when the parents are serving overseas in the military or foreign service jobs.

I am the Child of a U.S. Citizen | USCIS

Citizenship Through U.S. Parents There are two general ways to obtain citizenship through U.S. citizen parents: at birth, and after birth but before the age of 18. Congre

https://www.uscis.gov/citizenship/learn-about-citizenship/i-am-the-child-of-a-us-citizen

snugsnug1 · 05/02/2025 13:59

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 13:49

You cannot make asylum claims after illegally crossing the border anymore. That has cut down on the incentive to cross.

He made an executive order on birthright citizenship. It will go to SCOTUS ofc I’m hoping for a positive outcome (14th amendment was for slaves only—otherwise the 1924 Indian Citzenship Act would have been unnecessary)

I think it’s important to clarify bio men can never be considered as women.

I also think diversity for its own sake is not important. Only competence.

And he is paring down several government agencies and hopefully will shut down the Dept of Education.

Pretty much Gaza is the only head scratcher for me

Well presumably, since the US is a country of immigrants, the 14th Amendment applied to one of your ancestors? Or did your family spring up, bingo, from the very rocks of American soil?

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:56

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 13:52

Two state solution is seemingly unacceptable to Israel. Especially after October 7. How would you ever get them to agree to it?

What does that have to do with being opposed to ethnic cleansing?

How do you expect to get the Palestinians to agree to being ethnically cleansed from their land? Why is one unrealistic and the other acceptable?

If Israel chooses not to come to the table after a terror attack that’s on then. The UK had IRA bombs in their streets and still sat at the table with Ireland.

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:53

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 13:49

You cannot make asylum claims after illegally crossing the border anymore. That has cut down on the incentive to cross.

He made an executive order on birthright citizenship. It will go to SCOTUS ofc I’m hoping for a positive outcome (14th amendment was for slaves only—otherwise the 1924 Indian Citzenship Act would have been unnecessary)

I think it’s important to clarify bio men can never be considered as women.

I also think diversity for its own sake is not important. Only competence.

And he is paring down several government agencies and hopefully will shut down the Dept of Education.

Pretty much Gaza is the only head scratcher for me

  1. So he has not “reinstated border controls” he has merely closed one route for claiming asylum (the legality of which is currently being challenged in court.)

  2. So he has not rescinded birthright citizenship (which as you acknowledge is not a decision he has the power to make.)

  3. Why is it important to clarify this? How do you enforce this in the private sphere?

  4. Yes diversity for diversity sake is nonsense. What does that have to do with DEI?

  5. Why specifically do you think it is beneficial to shut down the dept of education and the other government agencies he is closing? What do you expect the benefit to the average american to be?

AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:53

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 12:08

He reinstated border control and I had no trust she’d do that. He even went so far as to rescind birthright citizenship, which he’d not even campaigned on.

I’m also pleased that he codified sex as male and female and has slashed DEI efforts federally. I’m also a ‘small government’ person so reducing the size and scope of the federal government is a welcome move.

Honestly, it’s been beyond my expectations. Gaza is perhaps the first misstep to me personally.

So you believe that people should stay in the countries they 'belong' to because of their ancestry but you also think it's fine for America to kick 2 million Palestinians out of the land they've lived in for thousands of years and make them stateless?

Hypocritical, no?

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RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 13:52

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:37

So a belief in a two state solution is “wildly unrealistic” but the ethnic cleansing of Gaza and the colonisation of the land by the USA is realistic.

Two state solution is seemingly unacceptable to Israel. Especially after October 7. How would you ever get them to agree to it?

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 13:49

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:32

How has he reinstated border control?

How has he rescinded birth citizenship? Do you think an EO is sufficient to repeal the 14th amendment to the US constitution?

Ok he codified two sexes - what benefit does that have?

What do you think Diversity, Equity and Inclusiveness initiatives mean at a federal level and why is their repeal a good thing?

How has he reduced the size and scope of the federal government? Specifically?

You cannot make asylum claims after illegally crossing the border anymore. That has cut down on the incentive to cross.

He made an executive order on birthright citizenship. It will go to SCOTUS ofc I’m hoping for a positive outcome (14th amendment was for slaves only—otherwise the 1924 Indian Citzenship Act would have been unnecessary)

I think it’s important to clarify bio men can never be considered as women.

I also think diversity for its own sake is not important. Only competence.

And he is paring down several government agencies and hopefully will shut down the Dept of Education.

Pretty much Gaza is the only head scratcher for me

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:37

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 12:13

This is the problem. People are wildly unrealistic about Israel. America doesn’t even have that much leverage on them.

So a belief in a two state solution is “wildly unrealistic” but the ethnic cleansing of Gaza and the colonisation of the land by the USA is realistic.

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:36

SernieBanders · 05/02/2025 12:06

Don't be silly. I am saying the best thing for everybody is to accept reality and find a new solution. Going round in circles blowing each other up is not long term viable. Unless you think it is?

So that’s a “yes” you support ethnic cleansing of the Palestinian population from Gaza.

I am not being “silly” - I am clarifying what you are advocating.

For the record I absolutely do think nothing will get better until both Israel and Palestine accept the other side is going nowhere and until both stop behaving in ways that ensure the radicalisation of future generations.

But I will never support ethnic cleansing. Ever. And I think people who do are evil.

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:33

AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:31

Nothing like a good old world war to make men feel like men again. Everything can burn so long as Donald gets his ego trip.

I wonder how many American lives he is willing to sacrifice supporting Israel’s desire for regional conquest.

And I wonder what support he will have from Americans in that decision.

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:32

RingoJuice · 05/02/2025 12:08

He reinstated border control and I had no trust she’d do that. He even went so far as to rescind birthright citizenship, which he’d not even campaigned on.

I’m also pleased that he codified sex as male and female and has slashed DEI efforts federally. I’m also a ‘small government’ person so reducing the size and scope of the federal government is a welcome move.

Honestly, it’s been beyond my expectations. Gaza is perhaps the first misstep to me personally.

How has he reinstated border control?

How has he rescinded birth citizenship? Do you think an EO is sufficient to repeal the 14th amendment to the US constitution?

Ok he codified two sexes - what benefit does that have?

What do you think Diversity, Equity and Inclusiveness initiatives mean at a federal level and why is their repeal a good thing?

How has he reduced the size and scope of the federal government? Specifically?

Mrsbloggz · 05/02/2025 13:32

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:28

I genuinely think he has been reading, or more likely somebody has read to him about history and the European empires history of conquest and he feels left out.

Toddlers don't have the brain power for that kind of thing.

AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:31

JHound · 05/02/2025 13:28

I genuinely think he has been reading, or more likely somebody has read to him about history and the European empires history of conquest and he feels left out.

Nothing like a good old world war to make men feel like men again. Everything can burn so long as Donald gets his ego trip.

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JHound · 05/02/2025 13:28

AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:25

I KNOW! It was insane that they believe that in the first place. Trump wants his own American Empire. Starting with Gaza, apparently.

Countries forcibly settling other countries is the leading cause of war.

I genuinely think he has been reading, or more likely somebody has read to him about history and the European empires history of conquest and he feels left out.

AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:28

ThePlanetaryParade · 05/02/2025 12:14

If feels like we are living in a parallel universe. A sick parody. Trump is utterly reprehensible. How anyone can support or admire him is beyond me. He has no redeeming features. He is a dangerous creep.

Can you imagine a foreign power hosting a globally broadcast press conference and saying 'oh we will probably just go in and take LA. Rebuild it. It's a disaster over there. Awful. We will be asking Mexico and Canada to take in the Los Angelenos - get them a nice piece of land there. Build them something lovely out there. Yes we will be taking ownership of LA for the long term. What if the Los Angelenos want to come back? Why would they, it was horrible those fires and of course there will just be more fires so why would they want to come back? It's by the Ocean you know, we can make it real nice and global people can live there'.

Can you imagine how the Orange Shit Gibbon would react to that.

Exactly. Imagine if China was saying this about LA right now? They've got as much right to LA as America has to Gaza though.

I can't think the USA making blatant land grabs is going to go down particularly well with other global superpowers.

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AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:26

Ablondiebutagoody · 05/02/2025 12:29

What a total word salad. Makes no sense

What bit are you struggling to understand exactly?

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AnonymousBleep · 05/02/2025 13:25

JHound · 05/02/2025 11:59

Also for all those people who claimed Trump was against the USA involving itself in foreign wars….

I KNOW! It was insane that they believe that in the first place. Trump wants his own American Empire. Starting with Gaza, apparently.

Countries forcibly settling other countries is the leading cause of war.

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Mrsbloggz · 05/02/2025 12:33

Trumpy-shit-for-brains is a joke, a horrifying joke.
I predict riots.

Skurge · 05/02/2025 12:31

SernieBanders · 05/02/2025 09:37

I'm quite passionately anti zionist, and left leaning. But I have come to the conclusion that Israel is never going to go anywhere and so possibly the best thing to do is to move the Palestinians, who to be clear I think have a better claim to the land, to somewhere where they will not be perpetual victims of war. There will never be peace until someone moves, and Israel, backed by the US, is never going to is it.

You're someone who believes that Israel should not exist, but also think that Palestine should move so that Israel should exist. Right.

Ablondiebutagoody · 05/02/2025 12:29

Monka · 05/02/2025 11:07

So funny! Yes he promised cheaper groceries but guess what with the tax cuts that Trump has given to the billionaires he has a deficit so that means tariffs, which will mean things will cost more for the average American. Elon’s wealth has increased to 154 billion under Trump. Meta, google and other corporations are benefiting from the huge tax cuts that ordinary Americans will have to fund. I hope that though keeps them warm at night when they can’t pay their bills.

What a total word salad. Makes no sense

Donttellempike · 05/02/2025 12:27

SernieBanders · 05/02/2025 09:53

Why should they? So they can have a better quality of life and not be blown up every 18 months, to be very frank. As I say, I'm on their side, I just think it's about time people were honest about the situation, just like Trump is.

What would you say if you were rendered stateless by a despot who wants to make money out of your homeland?

You can be a perpetual refugee in an era when every right wing thug is whipping up hate against refugees.

Would you Thank Trump for the opportunity?

Hamas is still holding Israeli hostages. God help them now.

Don’t be so ridiculous.

SernieBanders · 05/02/2025 12:19

MeTooOverHere · 05/02/2025 12:07

Which bits are categorically wrong?

Of course there is such a thing as intersex. It's well known in biology. Often in crustaceans and fish but also in mammals.
This body of biological study?

People who are intersex have genitals, chromosomes or reproductive organs that don't fit into a male/female sex binary. Their genitals might not match their reproductive organs, or they may have traits of both. Being intersex may be evident at birth, childhood, later in adulthood or never. Causes may be trisomy or may be developmental.
This body of biological study?
What about those with CAIS? XY but develop as females. Are they male or female? Do you propose they be surgically altered to make them align with their chromosomes, and not with their assigned gender at birth?
https://isna.org/faq/conditions/ais/

FYI I have an ancestor who was registered as a girl at birth (1871) but developed as a boy and went on to found a successful business and family.
Are you calling me a liar?

Edited

Here, we went into this in depth today - https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5267492-i-do-not-believe-in-gender-identity have a look at the DSD stuff.

I do not believe in gender identity. | Mumsnet

There are two sexes: male and female. Occasionally, that matters. There is no such thing as an innate ^gender identity^—no internal essence th...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5267492-i-do-not-believe-in-gender-identity

SernieBanders · 05/02/2025 12:16

MeTooOverHere · 05/02/2025 12:07

Which bits are categorically wrong?

Of course there is such a thing as intersex. It's well known in biology. Often in crustaceans and fish but also in mammals.
This body of biological study?

People who are intersex have genitals, chromosomes or reproductive organs that don't fit into a male/female sex binary. Their genitals might not match their reproductive organs, or they may have traits of both. Being intersex may be evident at birth, childhood, later in adulthood or never. Causes may be trisomy or may be developmental.
This body of biological study?
What about those with CAIS? XY but develop as females. Are they male or female? Do you propose they be surgically altered to make them align with their chromosomes, and not with their assigned gender at birth?
https://isna.org/faq/conditions/ais/

FYI I have an ancestor who was registered as a girl at birth (1871) but developed as a boy and went on to found a successful business and family.
Are you calling me a liar?

Edited

I am saying you are wrong all over.

Your ancestor was still either male or female, they never changed half way. People with DSDs are always male or female.

Intersex does not exist, as in, there is nobody in between the sexes. you re always one or the other regardless of chromosomes or DSDs.

People with CAIS are always MALE. People with Complete Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome (CAIS) are biologically male (XY) but develop a female-appearing body because their cells do not respond to androgens (male hormones).

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