The double standards on here are getting out of hand

Then I'm guessing the few who aren't either will fall into the goady twats section. Which one are you?

On another thread you have mentioned that you have a PGCE. I'm don't know whether you are curretly teaching but it's downright scary to think that someone with your misogynistic attitude might be responsible for teaching and instilling values into young people. Do you feel that most girls are 'bitter hateful shrews' in training and that most boys are just lovely?

Yeah sure.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jan/31/violence-against-women-girls-epidemic-uk

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jan/26/the-pelicot-trial-revealed-the-banality-of-gender-based-violence

At this point the attacks on women are also an attack on free flow of information and on reason.

It's Olympic bloody level.

Banning people for giving different advice to different people is a whole new level of women hating.

Which category do you fall into?

Life treats men and women differently, so the advice given to a woman will be different to what I would give a man. You are free to advise as you see fit, and I will advise as I see fit.

That's far too complicated and nuanced for this thread. You're wasted here! 😆

Maybe actual posters who post differing advice towards men and women could be given a short ban. That has to be the same poster, not two completely different people with different opinions. It sounds like there are some people on this thread who might be able to police that.

this, its only double standards if its the same poster 🤷🏻

@namechangeGOT "Are you accusing women with a differing view to you of being men?"

No. But I am assuming, with good cause, that some posters on this thread are men.

Hardly a 'different view'. That poster is very obviously having a laugh!😂

God I hope so. That would be new!

Are you accusing women with a differing view to you of being men?

I see MisogynistsRUs posting as a bloc to start the thread. Again. Perhaps you could all bugger off back to the pub where you used to do your whinging while wife stayed at home doing the washing up. As any wife should.

Which one are you?

Aww shrews are cute!

I won’t even entertain nonsense like this.
The fact is most women on here are bitter hateful shrews and most men are lovely.

I've had to accept through therapy that there's a good chance she knew, or at least had a suspicion, various behaviours indicate she did, but no one really wants to believe their husband could do that either I guess.

I’m glad he’s not around children. Do you think your mother knew?

NAMALT.

Great. Exactly what victims of sustained CSA, child abuse, VAWG, and sexual violence, really need to hear. I find it an ever-constant source of surprise that some people can be quite this tone deaf. In any event, who ever said AMALT? I'm unaware of anyone. What I am aware of is the unassailable statistics, that the overwhelming (to the tune of 98%+) perpetrators of sexual crime are men.

NAMALT, but almost all the perpetrators are men, and abuse of this nature is so rife that these men cannot be in a minority. They simply can't. And that is an uncomfortable point to confront in a society which is far easier with levelling blame at women - or suggesting that we lie - than that too many men - way too many men - abuse.

I'm mother to a lovely son, wife to a very loving man, sister to a caring and sensitive brother. I'm also the daughter of a violent, abusive monster of a father. I don't view it as any benefit to my child to raise him in denial of the fact that these very unpleasant facts do indeed exist - and that an acknowledgement of this uncomfortable truth means society is somehow out to 'persecute' men. They are not the ones mainly on the receiving end of the shit-stick, and denial of the facts in the light of them, personally, being lovely people is a deep segue from what is actually a very pressing - and worsening - social problem.

How on earth do we bring our boys up from childhood to be better men - the good men who are not violent, who don't abuse, who don't view women as receptacles for male need - if we keep our arses in the air and our heads firmly embedded in the sand?

Nor do we raise our boys in a vacuum. And that is a fact to really keep me awake at night.

Unfortunately not! He's not around children though and I'm not sure he'd be brave enough to try it with anyone else, he seemed to have a weird fixation on me. If i thought he had the oppotunity though, even though I have no evidence, I'd have to try and go to the police, I couldn't stand by and let that happen to another child.

Naunet, I’m so sorry. Is your dad gone now?

I used to work in a male dominated environment and they were so toxic. I definitely know there are disgusting men out there and they are the ones that have made it harder, I don’t mind admitting that.

I'm not trying to make you feel bad, Im ok, I've been in very dark places in the past, but Im ok now, I just wanted to explain why women don't always have evidence, that doesn't mean they should be silenced too. It really destroys lives, they shouldn't be made to feel bad for talking about their experiences too.

That’s horrific. I’m glad you have your sister and partner to lean on and even though the therapist is expensive I hope they help and it’s worth it.

I’m sorry about your experience with your mum too, makes me feel almost as sick as your dad.