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To wish I could stop paying into the utterly broken NHS black hole

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Juanhundred · 29/08/2024 14:38

The last few years have really opened my eyes to the utter chaos of the National Health Screwers

If you've not needed them or only needed them for minor things, you honestly have no idea how bloody scary it is to be seriously ill and under the "care" of people I wouldnt usually trust to look after a dog

Every month I pay out about a weeks worth of wages in tax towards the NHS, then I pay a bit off my staggering credit card debt thats accumulated on going private when the NHS fail at life (rheumatology, gynaecology, dermatology, podiatry, basic antibiotics when my GP insisted an infected tick bite was "just allergies", the list is endless!)

I'm not rich, I earn less than 30k. Some days towards the end of the month I literally cant afford to eat what or when I want

20 years ago (when the NHS was actually the envy of the world) I had cervical cancer. Caught early by a smear test and treated in time to save my life. I was told by the consultant, "Another 6 months and your chances wouldn't have been good. Be very mindful of any changes moving forwards, and act on them immediately"
It was around the same time that Jade Goody died; she was told if she'd been seen 6 months earlier, her chances would have been infinitely better.
That brush with the Big C scared me shitless, and as per the advice given I'm super mindful of any changes and take them seriously.

Well I've probably just saved my own life this time by getting a private smear test, because despite my history and all the symptoms I am now experiencing (irregular heavy bleeding, random spotting, discharge, bleeding after intercourse, tummy and back pain), I was refused an NHS smear as I'm "not owed one" until three years after my last test, history / symptoms be damned.

The system was "reformed" in 2017. The NHS no longer do proper smear tests, just HPV tests. If you have HPV, you get a smear, if you dont, its off you go we'll see you in 3 years.

My private test showed major cell changes but HPV negative. My NHS GP surgery refused to acknowledge it or record the results on my medical record.
Luckily I'm already under an NHS gynaecologist (due to my symptoms), who initially agreed to refer me for colposcopy off the back of my private smear, but the referral was "triaged" and then rejected. My gynaecologist is just like 🤷🏻‍♀️ "You dont have HPV and around 50% cell changes rectify themselves without treatment. So yeah, bye."

50%? So 50% DONT rectify? And you think I'm betting my life on being in the lucky 50%, with my history and current symptoms? Is 50% really a good enough percentage to deny women with symptoms any further investigations? I dont think so, but apparently the NHS now does.

The NHS insists that as most (not all!) cervical cancers are caused by HPV, the women who fall into the grey area who have bad cells but no HPV are pretty rare, therefore our lives dont matter. Thats the message I'm getting.

Basically, I've just been abandoned by the NHS until I've got full-blown Big C, then maybe they might do something, if I'm lucky?

They can fuck off. I have two DDs who need their mum!

So here I am faffing around online trying to up my credit card limit so I can book myself in for a private colposcopy, and thinking to myself "If I didnt have to pay all this fucking money towards the NHS every month, I'd be able to afford this without credit!"

Sorry for the rambling ranty post I'm just stressed scared skint and at the end of my fucking tether

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taxguru · 30/08/2024 23:00

SaltAndVinegar2 · 30/08/2024 21:01

That's not what unemployment is.... Unemployment is people on job seekers.
Economically inactive includes a lot of students, people who retired before 65, spouses whose husbands or wives pay their living costs, mums of young kids who will go back to work in a few years, as well as long term sick and disabled.

Yes, but it’s still lots of people not contributing! Whether by actually doing work or paying taxes.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 30/08/2024 23:15

The Tories destroyed the NHS. People voted Labour in to fix it but it can only be done if we get out of the "Tax cuts good / tax rises bad" mindset set by the tabloid press. You get what you pay for. And going private - as you have found - is way more expensive than any tax increase.

Babadookinthewardrobe · 31/08/2024 09:29

ForGreyKoala · 30/08/2024 02:33

So? Is this an MN thing or a UK thing? I don't live there and I have literally never heard anyone discuss how much they "contribute" to the health system - or any other system - here. Everyone expects the same treatment, as they should.

OP has had shocking treatment, and I can understand her questioning why she is paying for this - but why oh why are so many of you intent on showing how clever you are by calculating how much she actually does, or doesn't contribute. IT DOESN'T MATTER!!! The point of her post is the treatment she has not received, not the amount she has paid it. What is wrong with you all?? Some of you seem to have got your money's worth from the NHS with your empathy bypass.

Absolutely agree. What a shitshow reading through the thread and seeing all the posters completely ignore the point of the post and gleefully start going on about how great their maths is. Empathy bypass is bang on.

taxguru · 31/08/2024 09:30

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 30/08/2024 23:15

The Tories destroyed the NHS. People voted Labour in to fix it but it can only be done if we get out of the "Tax cuts good / tax rises bad" mindset set by the tabloid press. You get what you pay for. And going private - as you have found - is way more expensive than any tax increase.

Brown and Blair also did the same tax cuts good, rises bad mantra too!

We as a country have had that for a few decades now.

Brown brought in a new Lower 10% tax rate and starter O% corporation tax rate. Also brought in tax credits, increased ISA allowances etc.

Successive governments have consistently sent the message of lower taxes by all kinds of different incentives etc.

You really can’t blame it solely on the Tories!

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2024 15:41

BIossomtoes · 30/08/2024 15:23

It’s still got fewer beds and spends less than other European countries. There’s been virtually no investment in infrastructure in the last 14 years. It didn’t take long for Johnson’s 40 new hospitals to go by the wayside.

Although for context, under in the Bliar / Brown years, partly hidden by badly negotiated PFI that some trusts are still suffering with, the NHS delivered worse patient outcomes than any other ‘first world’ health service. And that was after 13 years of significant spending increases.

The NHS is unable to deliver world class healthcare in its existing structure. Failure to reform means continued reform by the back door…which is the increasing privatisation by stealth started by the last Labour government. At least the Tory’s are open about it.

Labour, let’s not forget, brought in 100 privately funded hospitals, privately run dialysis clinics in 2008, and outsourced most community care through the ‘Transforming Community Care’ initiative. Arguably leading to the crisis in community care we now face.

No government understands how or can be trusted to deliverer a fit for purpose, never mind world class, heath service as long as its (a) subject to short term polictal interference and (b) held to ransom by its staff.

BIossomtoes · 03/09/2024 16:35

Although for context, under in the Bliar / Brown years, partly hidden by badly negotiated PFI that some trusts are still suffering with, the NHS delivered worse patient outcomes than any other ‘first world’ health service. And that was after 13 years of significant spending increases

Can you verify that? And what about the last 14 years?

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2024 16:59

BIossomtoes · 03/09/2024 16:35

Although for context, under in the Bliar / Brown years, partly hidden by badly negotiated PFI that some trusts are still suffering with, the NHS delivered worse patient outcomes than any other ‘first world’ health service. And that was after 13 years of significant spending increases

Can you verify that? And what about the last 14 years?

Which bit would you like verifying? The worse patient outcomes? Take a look here:

http://eprints.lse.ac.uk/51215/1/__libfile_REPOSITORY_Content_CASE_CASE%20Social%20policy%20in%20a%20cold%20climate%20series_Working%20papers_spccwp02_full%20text.pdf

Page 11

Or perhaps the scale of privatisation under the last Labour government? For that you could look here:

https://tribunemag.co.uk/2023/07/forty-years-of-nhs-privatisation

And yes, I agree, the last government should have put more emphasis on NHS reform, to give the taxpayer the same type of service our European neighbours get. They failed as well.

That’s why we need to take tribal politics, failed ideology and dogma driven focus on ‘because NHS’ out of the equation.

To wish I could stop paying into the utterly broken NHS black hole
To wish I could stop paying into the utterly broken NHS black hole
BIossomtoes · 03/09/2024 17:19

You’ve quite deliberately cherry picked from the report at your first link. Look at the first para of the conclusions on p12. I’ve tried really hard to copy and paste it but it’s not having it! It says there was 70% public satisfaction with the NHS in 2010 and - this is very telling - demand for private health insurance was down.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2024 17:35

BIossomtoes · 03/09/2024 17:19

You’ve quite deliberately cherry picked from the report at your first link. Look at the first para of the conclusions on p12. I’ve tried really hard to copy and paste it but it’s not having it! It says there was 70% public satisfaction with the NHS in 2010 and - this is very telling - demand for private health insurance was down.

I’ve just highlighted a fact. The NHS delivered worse outcomes than many other healthcare systems. As set in in an independent report. No one’s disputing that it didn’t improve. The point is, despite all the spending and all the improvement, other health care models consistently deliver better outcomes. I just think that the public is entitled to better outcomes than the NHS can deliver.

You’ve cherry picked the 70% satisfaction number, if you want to be petty. Sure, they were happier than they had been - although almost a third of people weren’t. But in isolation it means little.

You’re of course free to disagree on better healthcare outcomes being important, and you might well choose to put the NHS as a system as above reproach with the impact on patients being acceptable collateral damage. But the facts say otherwise. And I think the public is entitled to better. And better is achievable under different models.

I note you have chosen not to comment on the level of privatisation and long term damage through piecemeal fiddling with the model rather than reform under the last Labour government, and subsequent coalition / Tory ones as well…. That’s why it needs reform.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2024 23:49

BIossomtoes · 03/09/2024 17:19

You’ve quite deliberately cherry picked from the report at your first link. Look at the first para of the conclusions on p12. I’ve tried really hard to copy and paste it but it’s not having it! It says there was 70% public satisfaction with the NHS in 2010 and - this is very telling - demand for private health insurance was down.

Worth noting also, now I remember, that one of the reasons take up of private healthcare was down in the period was the the Labour government abolished the tax relief that one used to be able to get, if over 60. So I’m not sure that particular statistic tells you what you think it’s telling you.

BIossomtoes · 04/09/2024 10:19

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2024 23:49

Worth noting also, now I remember, that one of the reasons take up of private healthcare was down in the period was the the Labour government abolished the tax relief that one used to be able to get, if over 60. So I’m not sure that particular statistic tells you what you think it’s telling you.

It’s one of the report’s conclusions. Better take it up with its authors. 🤷‍♀️

BIossomtoes · 04/09/2024 10:25

All the details are here.

https://researchbriefings.files.parliament.uk/documents/SN01441/SN01441.pdf

LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:28

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LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:32

Note they don’t agree

LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:35

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LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:36

Unreasonable colonist

LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:38

Blair brown years the biggest deficit ever

LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:38

This is the deficit labour inherited

LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:40

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LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:51

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LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:52

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LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:57

Nation insurance is NHS funding

LivelyFox · 04/09/2024 11:59

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CelestialNexus · 04/09/2024 12:16

Carriemac · 29/08/2024 14:40

I'm sorry about your diagnosis and poor treatment but you certainly do not pay about a weeks wages every month twoards the NHS . If you earn 30k you are not a net contributor.

I agree

30k,
Monthly total 2.5k, tax 290
Weekly £ 576.92

To wish I could stop paying into the utterly broken NHS black hole
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