To think most women on here hate men

I've asked a few times but I'm not sure I am going to get an answer

if a stranger calling you stupid on a post on an online forum is mild abuse how is your partner (of either sex) screaming and shouting at you not also at least mild abuse?

Cool story, bro.

What does this have to do with anything?

So, as stated, it's now abundantly clear that the users of this site don't hate men, just their cunty behaviour.

Excellent :)

I watched a survival show on youtube about a group of men and a group of women on an island.
Guess witch group done better the men did.
The womens group did nothing but moan cry and argue and used their emergency phone call for help and supplys.
While the men had made a camp got a fire got water fish and a crocodile for lunch.
While on the womens side of the island they were arguing about who was washing knickers and how much the men were gonna fail.

None of the claims in my post are unsubstantiated, a very brief internet search will provide plenty of evidence that these structural inequalities do exist. But it's not my job to do research for you and provide you with a reference list. We all have access to the same information. 2/3 of the board of directors in your particular organisation being women is not proof that we've achieved an equal society.

So, back to the point, sidestepping all the hatred of women, it's now abundantly clear that users of this site don't hate men, just hate it when men behave like cunts and refuse to be tone policed, terrorised, minimised or coerced into pretending cunt behaviour is ok.

Good to know :)

My SIL has been a family mediator for over 10 years. She gets to hear the issue from one partner and then the other. She said that there is one thing she's definitely learned is that the account of just one side, however convincing, is very rarely the reflection of the full story.

The is the whole point of mediation, accepting that one situation can be perceived totally differently by the people involved.

It is extremely delusional to believe that what is written here, usually at a time where the main drive is anger and the need to vent, is in anyway representative of the situation as seen by someone who is not directly involved.

I'm not talking about severe abuse. I'm talking about the exemple of the 5 months pregnant poster who describe a situation in the park. Yet so many concluded that it was a clear fact her OH was abusive and that OP needed to leave him. Utterly ridiculous!

@Missamyp I have, and your response does not make any sense. Are you implying that the "nonsense bickering" by women on boards that you have witnessed negates the reality of sexism?

Women can be awful, terrible, abusive. But sexism still exists. So what point are you trying to make?

Read the quoted post and stop being so facetious.

The majority of posters on this forum are women the MRA-style posters are obvious, they're called out quickly and gain zero support.
The bullying and lack of cohesive thought and emotional rhetoric are wholly created and carried out by women on this forum.

"I'm on the board of directors, 2/3rds are women. And over 2/3rds of nonsense bickering between colleagues is guess what.
Women."

@Missamyp what does the above have to do with anything? Can you explain please.

Yet you make unsubstantiated claims in your post and then say I don't care.
It's like saying this is my opinion so it must be right.
I'm on the board of directors, 2/3rds are women. And over 2/3rds of nonsense bickering between colleagues is guess what.
Women.

There are individual men who I love dearly, but men as a whole need to do better.

Casual sexism and misogyny is still rife in every area of society. Too many women are still discriminated against or overlooked in the workplace, too many women are subjected to sexual assault and harassment in public and in private and Domestic Abuse continues to be a massive public health issue in this country.

I work with children and families and I genuinely think the average person has no idea how common coercive control and emotional abuse from men towards women in relationships actually is, and the many forms it can take. If there are many women on MN "projecting" about control and abuse on relationship threads that is because so many have experienced it and are hypervigilant as a result. I also work with a lot of women who are experiencing it but are in total denial because they are conditioned to accept shit treatment for themselves and make excuses for men. For every post I see on here saying LTB I see a lot more falling over themselves to excuse vile male behaviour.

Before anyone starts bleating that it's NOT ALL MEN by the way, I really don't care. Because let's be honest, it may not be all men but it is a fuck-ton of men. And you rarely see the ones it's not actually doing anything about it. Most men think that if they're not the one doing it that's enough but they're not challenging other men, they're not stepping up and making a stand. At least not in a way that requires any genuine sacrifice.

It's not just at home and at work either. Institutional sexism is still a big problem in this country. It is well documented that women with chronic pain are less likely to recieve timely and effective treatment. Women have been given good reason to distrust or even fear the Police in recent years and the Court system is letting everyone down, but women and children most of all. The press continues to pit women against each other, and even the most powerful, successful and influential women are objectified, infantilised or vilified in all of our media.

I wouldn't say I "hate men", but I'm definitely sick and tired of their collective shit. Maya Angelou said it best "I'd be stupid not to be on my own side" and I'm sorry but anyone who says there aren't sides hasn't been paying attention.

No, it's not OK to call another poster on MN stupid. If a person's comment indicates they are not particularly intellectually capable, the polite thing is to keep that to oneself and comment on the stupidity of their point not them as a person. However, I don't really understand what you're trying to demonstrate with that? That sometimes women can be rude on MN? We know this.
That throwing around insults is abusive behaviour? We know this too, it's exactly what the people who say LTB are arguing, surely? If you've become upset at a stranger on here calling you stupid, doesn't that just prove the point that if you hear than from your husband it's even less ok, and if he does it and upsets you on the regular you may indeed want to consider LTB?

Take the number of women who experience rape, sexual assault, domestic abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse. Add in those that experience cat calling, objectification, inequality at work. Add in general sexism or inequal division of Labour.

Then add in the number of men wanking themselves watching images of women being raped /abused. Men who use prostitutes. Men having affairs.

Divide by total number of men.

Even allowing that some men will fall into more than one category, the sad truth is that a significant majority of men are horrible, even if only for a part of their daily lives, which women may or may not get to see.

I do. I could quite easily become a full on misandrist, if it wasn't for my lovely DS.

A poster on a forum was advised to (LTB) by other posters because her partner was not giving her enough attention or emotional support after receiving negative feedback in her job performance review. Many users on the forum tend to start their complaints with similar issues, such as unequal division of household tasks and feeling unsupported by their partners. For instance, some users may complain that their partners work longer hours than they do, yet they still expect them to contribute equally to household chores. Usually admitting the DP in question is under pressure at work, ill or some other extraneous. circumstance.

It's the place to vent, yet others take great delight in extrapolating that scenario to either fit a fictitious story or compare it to their own.