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Is the viral "lexi" video real?

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AnxiousRabbit · 19/04/2024 07:25

So yesterday my DD13 asked me if I knew about "lexi" who beat up an 8yr old boy.
The way she said it I initially thought it was an old case from years ago, but I have just searched it up.
There is nothing official anywhere that I have found yet (and no thread on MN)
It's a video from last week of a girl beating up a much younger boy (seemingly) its on tik tok and youtube
Since then the girl has supposedly been named and her address revealed.
There are also videos (not watched any) claiming to be interviews with the attacker and of other things happening to her.
And mixed reports of the alleged victim being "fine" along with unverified photos of a boy in hospital.

Without any verification I am very uneasy about all this (I mean if true its also ALL appalling)
But the fact it appears to only be playing out on tik tok and YouTube just doesn't ring true to me.

Does anyone know more?

YaBu - it's real
YaNBu - it's fake

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ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 20/04/2024 07:04

There's clearly clips of a video but not having seen the whole thing it is hard to tell what exactly happened. She does kick him and call him "gay boy" at one point so she did assault him.

Dymaxion · 20/04/2024 06:58

DS brought this up the other day, we are in Yorkshire, he believed it had happened in Plymouth and the child had died.

Had a quick google and couldn't find anything on reputable news sources, plenty of SM links, so assumed it was all rubbish.

IamChipmunk · 20/04/2024 06:49

West Yorkshire for me. My year 10's I teach were telling me about this in the week and were convinced it was local to us! I'm not on TikTok etc so not seen it.

Scary the pace it has gone round!

Malbecormerlot · 20/04/2024 06:43

Im in Scotland and it apparently happened local to me. The kids were telling me the other day that the girls windows got smashed and crowds were outside her house.

HasToStop · 20/04/2024 06:42

Skillest · 19/04/2024 19:51

I'm a DSL.

I got a report about this from a student. Student provided me with a school the child apparently attended (according to the doxxing online).

I did my due diligence and found the school website, the DSL team email addresses and emailed them.

The following day, I received a message back from one of the DSLs at the school. It appeared to be one of those secure messages that required a sign in first. It took me to a Microsoft Forms sign in.

But the sign in seemed off to me. Plus it's not the way DSLs usually talk to each other. I looked closer. While it's not been confirmed, I chose not to sign in to read the message.

I think it was phishing fir my school log in details. It might not be, but I wasn't prepared to risk it. I deleted it instead.

So my guess is, scam.

"It's not the way DSL's usually talk to each other?"

It sounds like an Egress secure login or similar. The vast majority of emails I receive from external agencies only communicate via secure email.

CoralReader · 20/04/2024 06:41

Garlicked · 20/04/2024 01:57

she was disturbed by the boys screams

The kid whined briefly, exactly like a little brother asking a big sister to lay off. No screaming.

Not in the video I saw

Garlicked · 20/04/2024 01:57

she was disturbed by the boys screams

The kid whined briefly, exactly like a little brother asking a big sister to lay off. No screaming.

Garlicked · 20/04/2024 01:53

aurynne · 20/04/2024 01:13

It's a scary proof of how easy is to rile up a mob against a person/country/group of people using social media.

It should be used as an educational case, really.

Absolutely. I hope, after it's been cleared up, this is used as an educational case for teenagers and pre-teens.

Despite the clearly English accents in the video, half of America thinks it happened there and the boy died!!

Smokeysgirl · 20/04/2024 01:26

I live in Chorley, Lancashire and this was posted on our local Facebook page last week. The post was from a woman who said her child had shown her the video of a much older girl attacking an 8 year old boy in a local park. No one actually said which park it was but the woman said she was disturbed by the boys screams. I really believed it and reading about it really upset me and dh. I really hope it's all fake and some kind of Internet hoax.

aurynne · 20/04/2024 01:13

It's a scary proof of how easy is to rile up a mob against a person/country/group of people using social media.

It should be used as an educational case, really.

SD1978 · 19/04/2024 23:45

No one seems to know, really. Only footage I've seen is of a boy initially hitting a much older girl, no footage after that, but he allegedly has multiple spinal injuries and a ruptured testicle. With multiple tik toks saying they ve seen the footage and it's terrible, same as you tube, but no evidence past that. Maybe it did happen, but it's definitely grown massive arms and legs, and seems to have been local to everyone, and everyone knows the boy's, cousin's, auntie's, sister and so they know it happened beside them. Also surprised, if true, there has been no media on it, no daily mail sad face, nothing. So I find it highly unlikely

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 19/04/2024 23:37

My 10-year-old daughter asked about this when she came home from school today (S. Wales).

Something about a teenage girl beating up a younger child who later died. I hadn't heard about it before but my husband seemed to know what she was talking about, although he said that no one had died.

It's doing the rounds on social media, so who knows what, if any, truth there is to it.

likepebblesonabeach · 19/04/2024 22:38

My teebage DD asked me yesterday if I knew this Lexi girl. She told me what the video showed, I didn't watch it. We're in Scotland so the video seems to be getting around.

WouldYouLikeMeToSpellThatForYou · 19/04/2024 21:57

In reality, not sure it's even true as there are so many mixed messages

WouldYouLikeMeToSpellThatForYou · 19/04/2024 21:56

Yes we reported it to the police from our school as it was going around, kids getting themselves worked up and angry.

EveSix · 19/04/2024 21:53

My DC1 (also ND) was in tears over this a few days ago, begging me to sign a petition to have Lexi brought to justice. DC's socials had been flooded with posts by outraged friends essentially baying for blood.

I googled it and watched the 4 videos available online of the supposed attack. My immediate reaction was that it was playfighting and nobody was actually coming to harm. DC was convinced that there were other videos of nastier parts of the alleged assault; friends claimed to have seen footage of the boy faceplanting on concrete after a kick to the head and emerging covered in blood with visibly broken teeth, pleading for his life, and more. These clips were nowhere to be found.

A photo that's circulated purporting to be of the 8 year old recovering in hospital is obviously not the same child as the one in the video.

To me it is an obvious set-up fake fight. DC1 was outraged that I could so blithely dismiss it. But I'm 99.9% sure. It's shocking that so many seem to want it to be true...

Axx · 19/04/2024 21:42

Hopefully it's a fake.

Garlicked · 19/04/2024 21:35

Yep - if the video I've just watched is the right one (who knows??!!) there is no real violence, it's playing. Also, the kids' accents don't sound particularly Leeds or Oswestry - probably much further south.

Online vigilantes are scary.

AnotherNew01 · 19/04/2024 21:23

My 13yo came home with this story last week. We are in Ireland. Younger boy autistic, assaulted by older girl.
I looked at the video - I think it was play-fighting. There was no kick in the genitals - just a kick in the bum. Another kid counted down from 10 in the end. There was a lot of laughter. I've seen as bad in my back garden. I cannot see where the autistic part comes in.

Bluepetergarden · 19/04/2024 21:06

An adddress in Shropshire is being shared everywhere ?????

sciencemama · 19/04/2024 21:02

Nope, in Kent and people here say she went to local school and got kicked out after doing this to boy on high street yet vid is in a park or something. I feel like I've seen the video before a few years ago though

Garlicked · 19/04/2024 20:52

Just did a quick search on Lexi Bonner (she's from Leeds, apparently: unconfirmed) and it's honestly scary. Dozens & dozens of posts on various platforms, using the same phrases to stigmatise the girl as violent and worse, even calling for people to stalk and attack her. If she exists, this must be horrifying for her and her family. Even if she doesn't, I wouldn't fancy being a Leeds teenager who looks a bit like the child in the video.

I did not find a single mention on any police website of her name or of a viral social media campaign concerning an assault on a child by a teenager. I'm hoping she's not a real person! Either way, it'd be good if one of the reliable fact-checking organisations could clarify.

Skillest · 19/04/2024 20:43

Whatwillitbenext · 19/04/2024 20:24

Would you not just phone the school and explain who you are etc rather than relying on messaging etc? All seems very cloak and dagger.

Ease. Speed. Nothing more than that.

An email is faster to action when you have 6 million incidents open. Plus, easier to evidence onto CPOMS/MyConcern by c&p the email.

(So ofsted knows you're doing your job properly 🙄)

Whatwillitbenext · 19/04/2024 20:25

Namechanger124 · 19/04/2024 19:54

My son also told me about this, supposedly happened in the next town along from us, the little boy died and the teenage girl killed herself after. I also googled it and found nothing and definitely wasn’t in our local news.
i did however see the video of a teenage girl beating a young boy so suspect the video is real but the rest of the story not.

Jesus no wonder kids are all messed up these days. Dreading the day my kids get smart phones.

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