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Is the viral "lexi" video real?

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AnxiousRabbit · 19/04/2024 07:25

So yesterday my DD13 asked me if I knew about "lexi" who beat up an 8yr old boy.
The way she said it I initially thought it was an old case from years ago, but I have just searched it up.
There is nothing official anywhere that I have found yet (and no thread on MN)
It's a video from last week of a girl beating up a much younger boy (seemingly) its on tik tok and youtube
Since then the girl has supposedly been named and her address revealed.
There are also videos (not watched any) claiming to be interviews with the attacker and of other things happening to her.
And mixed reports of the alleged victim being "fine" along with unverified photos of a boy in hospital.

Without any verification I am very uneasy about all this (I mean if true its also ALL appalling)
But the fact it appears to only be playing out on tik tok and YouTube just doesn't ring true to me.

Does anyone know more?

YaBu - it's real
YaNBu - it's fake

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qazxc · 19/04/2024 07:35

There are so many accounts claiming to be "Lexi" or the other people involved. There are so many different versions of the story ( the assaulted boy is either fine, has a broken spine or is dead). It's impossible to know what if anything happened.
The fact that rhere are so many accounts with go fund me links ( claiming it's for the boy) makes me think it may be a hoax to make money.

EmbarrassedToBeEmbarassed · 19/04/2024 09:45

Are you in England?

My DD came home from school a couple of days ago saying about this and apparently it was a local girl and boy with 2 broken feet or something.

Im not convinced

DemBonesDemBones · 19/04/2024 19:36

I'm in Scotland and the kids here are convinced it was local to us. Honestly I think it's nonsense. Interesting to hear there are fundraisers.

Skillest · 19/04/2024 19:51

I'm a DSL.

I got a report about this from a student. Student provided me with a school the child apparently attended (according to the doxxing online).

I did my due diligence and found the school website, the DSL team email addresses and emailed them.

The following day, I received a message back from one of the DSLs at the school. It appeared to be one of those secure messages that required a sign in first. It took me to a Microsoft Forms sign in.

But the sign in seemed off to me. Plus it's not the way DSLs usually talk to each other. I looked closer. While it's not been confirmed, I chose not to sign in to read the message.

I think it was phishing fir my school log in details. It might not be, but I wasn't prepared to risk it. I deleted it instead.

So my guess is, scam.

Skillest · 19/04/2024 19:52

BTW - I'm in North Midlands. School given was Shropshire, not local to us.

Namechanger124 · 19/04/2024 19:54

My son also told me about this, supposedly happened in the next town along from us, the little boy died and the teenage girl killed herself after. I also googled it and found nothing and definitely wasn’t in our local news.
i did however see the video of a teenage girl beating a young boy so suspect the video is real but the rest of the story not.

idontlikealdi · 19/04/2024 20:16

What's a DSL?

I think it's a modern day version of the Chelsea Smilers.

LetYourHairDownClaire · 19/04/2024 20:22

idontlikealdi · 19/04/2024 20:16

What's a DSL?

I think it's a modern day version of the Chelsea Smilers.

Designated Safeguard Lead

I saw this on TikTok but when I googled I could not find it on a credible news source only twitter. TikTok etc. I think it is fake until I read about it on a local newspaper site but then it would surely be picked up by national news sites.

Whatwillitbenext · 19/04/2024 20:24

Skillest · 19/04/2024 19:51

I'm a DSL.

I got a report about this from a student. Student provided me with a school the child apparently attended (according to the doxxing online).

I did my due diligence and found the school website, the DSL team email addresses and emailed them.

The following day, I received a message back from one of the DSLs at the school. It appeared to be one of those secure messages that required a sign in first. It took me to a Microsoft Forms sign in.

But the sign in seemed off to me. Plus it's not the way DSLs usually talk to each other. I looked closer. While it's not been confirmed, I chose not to sign in to read the message.

I think it was phishing fir my school log in details. It might not be, but I wasn't prepared to risk it. I deleted it instead.

So my guess is, scam.

Would you not just phone the school and explain who you are etc rather than relying on messaging etc? All seems very cloak and dagger.

Bluepetergarden · 19/04/2024 20:24

The original video is doing the rounds on TikTok. A girl attacking an autistic boy

Anothnamechang · 19/04/2024 20:25

It was reported on an English Police forces age- I’ll do some digging and find out which one. The boys mum came out and said he was absolutely fine just cuts and bruises.

I do think it was absolutely true but grew arms and legs as per usual with social media

Whatwillitbenext · 19/04/2024 20:25

Namechanger124 · 19/04/2024 19:54

My son also told me about this, supposedly happened in the next town along from us, the little boy died and the teenage girl killed herself after. I also googled it and found nothing and definitely wasn’t in our local news.
i did however see the video of a teenage girl beating a young boy so suspect the video is real but the rest of the story not.

Jesus no wonder kids are all messed up these days. Dreading the day my kids get smart phones.

Skillest · 19/04/2024 20:43

Whatwillitbenext · 19/04/2024 20:24

Would you not just phone the school and explain who you are etc rather than relying on messaging etc? All seems very cloak and dagger.

Ease. Speed. Nothing more than that.

An email is faster to action when you have 6 million incidents open. Plus, easier to evidence onto CPOMS/MyConcern by c&p the email.

(So ofsted knows you're doing your job properly 🙄)

Garlicked · 19/04/2024 20:52

Just did a quick search on Lexi Bonner (she's from Leeds, apparently: unconfirmed) and it's honestly scary. Dozens & dozens of posts on various platforms, using the same phrases to stigmatise the girl as violent and worse, even calling for people to stalk and attack her. If she exists, this must be horrifying for her and her family. Even if she doesn't, I wouldn't fancy being a Leeds teenager who looks a bit like the child in the video.

I did not find a single mention on any police website of her name or of a viral social media campaign concerning an assault on a child by a teenager. I'm hoping she's not a real person! Either way, it'd be good if one of the reliable fact-checking organisations could clarify.

sciencemama · 19/04/2024 21:02

Nope, in Kent and people here say she went to local school and got kicked out after doing this to boy on high street yet vid is in a park or something. I feel like I've seen the video before a few years ago though

Bluepetergarden · 19/04/2024 21:06

An adddress in Shropshire is being shared everywhere ?????

AnotherNew01 · 19/04/2024 21:23

My 13yo came home with this story last week. We are in Ireland. Younger boy autistic, assaulted by older girl.
I looked at the video - I think it was play-fighting. There was no kick in the genitals - just a kick in the bum. Another kid counted down from 10 in the end. There was a lot of laughter. I've seen as bad in my back garden. I cannot see where the autistic part comes in.

Garlicked · 19/04/2024 21:35

Yep - if the video I've just watched is the right one (who knows??!!) there is no real violence, it's playing. Also, the kids' accents don't sound particularly Leeds or Oswestry - probably much further south.

Online vigilantes are scary.

Axx · 19/04/2024 21:42

Hopefully it's a fake.

EveSix · 19/04/2024 21:53

My DC1 (also ND) was in tears over this a few days ago, begging me to sign a petition to have Lexi brought to justice. DC's socials had been flooded with posts by outraged friends essentially baying for blood.

I googled it and watched the 4 videos available online of the supposed attack. My immediate reaction was that it was playfighting and nobody was actually coming to harm. DC was convinced that there were other videos of nastier parts of the alleged assault; friends claimed to have seen footage of the boy faceplanting on concrete after a kick to the head and emerging covered in blood with visibly broken teeth, pleading for his life, and more. These clips were nowhere to be found.

A photo that's circulated purporting to be of the 8 year old recovering in hospital is obviously not the same child as the one in the video.

To me it is an obvious set-up fake fight. DC1 was outraged that I could so blithely dismiss it. But I'm 99.9% sure. It's shocking that so many seem to want it to be true...

WouldYouLikeMeToSpellThatForYou · 19/04/2024 21:56

Yes we reported it to the police from our school as it was going around, kids getting themselves worked up and angry.

WouldYouLikeMeToSpellThatForYou · 19/04/2024 21:57

In reality, not sure it's even true as there are so many mixed messages

likepebblesonabeach · 19/04/2024 22:38

My teebage DD asked me yesterday if I knew this Lexi girl. She told me what the video showed, I didn't watch it. We're in Scotland so the video seems to be getting around.

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 19/04/2024 23:37

My 10-year-old daughter asked about this when she came home from school today (S. Wales).

Something about a teenage girl beating up a younger child who later died. I hadn't heard about it before but my husband seemed to know what she was talking about, although he said that no one had died.

It's doing the rounds on social media, so who knows what, if any, truth there is to it.

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