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Is the viral "lexi" video real?

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AnxiousRabbit · 19/04/2024 07:25

So yesterday my DD13 asked me if I knew about "lexi" who beat up an 8yr old boy.
The way she said it I initially thought it was an old case from years ago, but I have just searched it up.
There is nothing official anywhere that I have found yet (and no thread on MN)
It's a video from last week of a girl beating up a much younger boy (seemingly) its on tik tok and youtube
Since then the girl has supposedly been named and her address revealed.
There are also videos (not watched any) claiming to be interviews with the attacker and of other things happening to her.
And mixed reports of the alleged victim being "fine" along with unverified photos of a boy in hospital.

Without any verification I am very uneasy about all this (I mean if true its also ALL appalling)
But the fact it appears to only be playing out on tik tok and YouTube just doesn't ring true to me.

Does anyone know more?

YaBu - it's real
YaNBu - it's fake

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SD1978 · 19/04/2024 23:45

No one seems to know, really. Only footage I've seen is of a boy initially hitting a much older girl, no footage after that, but he allegedly has multiple spinal injuries and a ruptured testicle. With multiple tik toks saying they ve seen the footage and it's terrible, same as you tube, but no evidence past that. Maybe it did happen, but it's definitely grown massive arms and legs, and seems to have been local to everyone, and everyone knows the boy's, cousin's, auntie's, sister and so they know it happened beside them. Also surprised, if true, there has been no media on it, no daily mail sad face, nothing. So I find it highly unlikely

aurynne · 20/04/2024 01:13

It's a scary proof of how easy is to rile up a mob against a person/country/group of people using social media.

It should be used as an educational case, really.

Smokeysgirl · 20/04/2024 01:26

I live in Chorley, Lancashire and this was posted on our local Facebook page last week. The post was from a woman who said her child had shown her the video of a much older girl attacking an 8 year old boy in a local park. No one actually said which park it was but the woman said she was disturbed by the boys screams. I really believed it and reading about it really upset me and dh. I really hope it's all fake and some kind of Internet hoax.

Garlicked · 20/04/2024 01:53

aurynne · 20/04/2024 01:13

It's a scary proof of how easy is to rile up a mob against a person/country/group of people using social media.

It should be used as an educational case, really.

Absolutely. I hope, after it's been cleared up, this is used as an educational case for teenagers and pre-teens.

Despite the clearly English accents in the video, half of America thinks it happened there and the boy died!!

Garlicked · 20/04/2024 01:57

she was disturbed by the boys screams

The kid whined briefly, exactly like a little brother asking a big sister to lay off. No screaming.

CoralReader · 20/04/2024 06:41

Garlicked · 20/04/2024 01:57

she was disturbed by the boys screams

The kid whined briefly, exactly like a little brother asking a big sister to lay off. No screaming.

Not in the video I saw

HasToStop · 20/04/2024 06:42

Skillest · 19/04/2024 19:51

I'm a DSL.

I got a report about this from a student. Student provided me with a school the child apparently attended (according to the doxxing online).

I did my due diligence and found the school website, the DSL team email addresses and emailed them.

The following day, I received a message back from one of the DSLs at the school. It appeared to be one of those secure messages that required a sign in first. It took me to a Microsoft Forms sign in.

But the sign in seemed off to me. Plus it's not the way DSLs usually talk to each other. I looked closer. While it's not been confirmed, I chose not to sign in to read the message.

I think it was phishing fir my school log in details. It might not be, but I wasn't prepared to risk it. I deleted it instead.

So my guess is, scam.

"It's not the way DSL's usually talk to each other?"

It sounds like an Egress secure login or similar. The vast majority of emails I receive from external agencies only communicate via secure email.

Malbecormerlot · 20/04/2024 06:43

Im in Scotland and it apparently happened local to me. The kids were telling me the other day that the girls windows got smashed and crowds were outside her house.

IamChipmunk · 20/04/2024 06:49

West Yorkshire for me. My year 10's I teach were telling me about this in the week and were convinced it was local to us! I'm not on TikTok etc so not seen it.

Scary the pace it has gone round!

Dymaxion · 20/04/2024 06:58

DS brought this up the other day, we are in Yorkshire, he believed it had happened in Plymouth and the child had died.

Had a quick google and couldn't find anything on reputable news sources, plenty of SM links, so assumed it was all rubbish.

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 20/04/2024 07:04

There's clearly clips of a video but not having seen the whole thing it is hard to tell what exactly happened. She does kick him and call him "gay boy" at one point so she did assault him.

Dabralor · 20/04/2024 07:11

Wow - a lesson on why tiktok is so dangerous for kids.

Springchickenonion · 20/04/2024 07:16

Maybe it's a lesson to all kids not to beat others up, not to beat about anyone with a disability and also how everyone is watching and they will be seen and vindicated. I hope the poor boy is OK.

I probably sound horrible. But I have only a little sympathy for the girl. Its the poor boy people should be worried about

Countrygirlxo · 20/04/2024 07:18

From what I've seen yes she did assault him, he didn't die and she didn't take her own life. But on almost every video I've seen of the 'fake Lexi's' her address is plastered all over them, even down to what cars and the reg plates.

Faircastle · 20/04/2024 07:35

So many people discussing this on social media are convinced that it happened in their local area. It has been linked to dozens of places.
The young people in the video have (Southern) English accents.

RotundCheese · 20/04/2024 07:56

Just googled out of interest. It does look like play fighting to me initially (with the kid playing along/being very dramatic and flinging himself around) but not sure towards the end of the video. Some of the kicks look pretty real.

On Reddit (where I saw the video) people are calling for the girl to be raped/beaten to death and addresses are being posted. So that's great.

Namechanger124 · 20/04/2024 08:04

The police/media etc need to get a grip of it really and confirm what is and isn’t correct and get some statements out there. Someone could end up seriously injured/dead if there are addresses circulating.

Celticliving · 20/04/2024 08:11

Springchickenonion · 20/04/2024 07:16

Maybe it's a lesson to all kids not to beat others up, not to beat about anyone with a disability and also how everyone is watching and they will be seen and vindicated. I hope the poor boy is OK.

I probably sound horrible. But I have only a little sympathy for the girl. Its the poor boy people should be worried about

So you haven't read the thread at all, then?

Rosebel · 20/04/2024 09:33

My DD told me about this a few days ago but didn't say anything about it being local. I think it's a hoax, well I hope so anyway.

LondonStreets · 20/04/2024 09:42

Skillest · 19/04/2024 19:51

I'm a DSL.

I got a report about this from a student. Student provided me with a school the child apparently attended (according to the doxxing online).

I did my due diligence and found the school website, the DSL team email addresses and emailed them.

The following day, I received a message back from one of the DSLs at the school. It appeared to be one of those secure messages that required a sign in first. It took me to a Microsoft Forms sign in.

But the sign in seemed off to me. Plus it's not the way DSLs usually talk to each other. I looked closer. While it's not been confirmed, I chose not to sign in to read the message.

I think it was phishing fir my school log in details. It might not be, but I wasn't prepared to risk it. I deleted it instead.

So my guess is, scam.

That's interesting. A school I know has fallen victim to cyber crime and entire computer system is down, has been for days. I wonder if something like this is how it happened?

Everythinggreen · 20/04/2024 09:43

What's strange is everyone convinced its local to them. Has this been set up with an algorithm that is using IP location of the viewer to then generate a location local to them. It just seems a bit much to be chinese whispers that from Kent to Scotland to Ireland that kids are convinced it's local to them. AI capabilities terrify me.

Trulyme · 20/04/2024 09:51

Springchickenonion · 20/04/2024 07:16

Maybe it's a lesson to all kids not to beat others up, not to beat about anyone with a disability and also how everyone is watching and they will be seen and vindicated. I hope the poor boy is OK.

I probably sound horrible. But I have only a little sympathy for the girl. Its the poor boy people should be worried about

No I completely agree.

I don’t believe in mob mentality and attacking a teenage girl but sharing videos on SM can absolutely be a blessing and hold people accountable when they would have otherwise had people turn a blind eye to it.

If people thought they were being recorded and it would go viral then they would act very differently.

The internet has many cons but I think about how many videos that have been shared (police officers attacking people, the voice recording of footballer trying to rape his DP, animal violence etc) and these people have all had to answer for it because it was videoed and shared and rightly so.
If not, they would have just carried on and their multiple victims would continue to suffer.

Perhaps this video will make children/teens think twice before attacking a vulnerable child.

Springchickenonion · 20/04/2024 09:54

@Celticliving yes I have. Looks like no one actually knows anything. Apart from that article posted up top.

I just said what I was thinking....!?

AIstolemylunch · 20/04/2024 10:01

On twitter there loads of Lexi Bonner stuff all clearly ai generated and linked to porn videos. This is some weird ai generated thing.

itsmeagainagain · 20/04/2024 10:08

Why on earth are so many children allowed on tik tok and other social media platforms it’s scary the stuff they have access to! My 12 year old isn’t allowed tik tok or Snapchat etc yet but all her friends tell and show her stuff and she came home asking if that story had been on the news as she was really worried by it. It’s out of control really the access young kids have got and the influence it has over them.

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