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No dinner after 120 mile journey

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spanieleyes22 · 16/04/2024 16:35

So I travelled to see my sister who is ill and when I got there her dh said to me that he had made spag bol for himself and the 2 kids but that I could have a look in the kitchen and cook something for myself and my sister (who didn't want a dinner as she didn't feel like it)

In the end my sis said to him could I not have the spag bol as well and he said perhaps but that he needed to eat with the kids 8 and 14. So he cooked pasta for them and the 3 of them sat up to the table and had their meal. Then he called me and showed me the uncooked spaghetti and the leftover bol and said I could cook mine.

What do you all
Think

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spanieleyes22 · 16/04/2024 16:39

Yeh nobody was replying so I thought I'd just ask about the dinner incident

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TrouserHem · 16/04/2024 16:37

I hate shit hosts with a passion. I come from a culture where you feed your guests before yourself. This is completely alien to me.

I read that as "I hate shit posts..." kand thought yeah, me too...

spanieleyes22 · 16/04/2024 16:38

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I don't know. It was the same on Sunday I cooked dinner and we arranged 5 pm but at 5 he was still in the pub so I went ahead and ate with the kids and left a plate for him. He obvs doesn't want to eat with me. That's all I can think of. It's really bugging me

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TrouserHem · 16/04/2024 16:37

I hate shit hosts with a passion. I come from a culture where you feed your guests before yourself. This is completely alien to me.

Sandwichblock · 16/04/2024 16:36

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MeMyCatsAndMyBooks · 16/04/2024 16:36

I hope you told him that he was rude.

Itsokish · 16/04/2024 16:36

There are no words 😶

Chatonette · 16/04/2024 16:36

Rude AF

TheShellBeach · 16/04/2024 16:36

You've already posted this.
That's what I think.

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