One night stands/casual sex

Yeah, that’s what it sounds like to me. Together for 15 years and married for 3 x

You haven’t missed out. I’ve had a number of sexual partners and my relationship with my children’s father didn’t last more than ten years. I have friends who have been married for many many years, first sexual partners for both them and their spouses and really happy. I envy them. If I could go back and choose I’d rather have had just one partner, happy in a long marriage than numerous partners.

That's not adding up. In this thread the op says she's been with husband 15 years and has kids. In the quotes it states husband of 3 years. Unless of course they lived together a long while first

You're not happy are you, OP? Misery loves company and all that.

If you hadn't met your husband (or another partner that you'd marry) you would have stayed a virgin?

Some people have multiple partners. Some people don't. I'm not gonna check statistics but I'm gonna assume that people that meet their spouses younger on average has less partners than those who are single longer. People view sex differently. I've had a few partners but not that many. Some good, soem bad, some relationships, some just for fun.

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Why are you so bothered ??

Oops that’s embarrassing 😂

Each to their own.
I would hate to have had only one sexual partner.

I suppose not everyone wants the life you lead. Horses for corses and all that. You’ve found someone your happy with and that’s fantastic.

some people don’t want long term they are happy single but still have sexual needs they want meeting.

DH and I are in our 50s, married 30 years and we've only been with each other. It's great.

My husband and I have only been with each other, and frankly, we both wish that we'd been able to play the field a bit more instead of stupidly falling in love so young!

I'm fact, we got together as a one night stand initially. It just escalated a bit.

But how do you know OP that you have this amazing sex life with the wholesome husband (who only shows you affection when he wants to put his genitalia in you' when you've got absolutely no experience of what it's like with others?

I have had other peoples genatalia in me and I can tell you that my husband has the best of the lot, one of the reasons I married him, but I also enjoyed the vast majority of the other ones attached to other men, especially the ones where I realllllly fancied them and we went on to have a fabulous time!

Don't knock what you haven't had, it's not special love it's just how your life panned out! I hope you get that affection thing sorted!

Well of course you don’t like the idea of having sex with someone else, you’re in a loving committed relationship, the majority of people in the same situation feel exactly the same (myself included) , no matter how many people they slept with before.

I slept with a decent number of men before I met my husband, some one night stands, some short relationships some longer relationships. I learnt a lot from all of them about myself, what I like, what i don’t like, built my confidence sexually and frankly had a lot of fun, don’t regret any of it. Fine if you married the first person you shagged, but that doesn’t make you a better person than anyone else.

I’m guessing they have been married for a shorter length of time than they have been together. So they’ve been together for 15, possibly married for three.

Ha ha very smug, Op!
I was just like you……… until my delightful stbx decided after 25 years that he had missed out and wanted to see what he had missed. Needless to say, I have learned my lesson and am not so judgemental and now realise there are pros and cons to every different experience.
It’s lovely that your relationship is so ‘special’, doesn’t make you any better than someone who has multiple sexual partners.
I prefer to judge a person on their kindness of others now, not how many people have seen their genitals 🤷🏻‍♀️

If you think sex with a person and sex with a toy is the same, I think perhaps the sex you're having isn't as good as it could be and you've actually missed out quite a lot by not having other people put their genitalia in yours.

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Off to Google…

'It's quite nice though isn't it? Sounds a tad smug but I also feel like our relationship is quite special when you look at how casual putting your genitalia into another person has become.'

Wow this is so judgmental! Really you've created this thread to say you're a better person for only ever having sex with one person. Very narrow minded and very smug not a tad. Why do you think only having sex with one person makes you special?

Yikes, OP. At least the sex is amazing though...

For me, it’s the passion and that little flutter you get for the first time. I’m in my 40s and can’t imagine a situation where l had only had sex with one person.

In this thread she says she has been with him for 15 years.
I am confused; yes, it happens regularly, but which of OPs stories is the correct version?

I (being old and doddery) just googled a tracy's dog...
I have had to lie down with a cup of coffee
And my barclaycard...

Anyone who thinks playing with a toy is the same as sex with another person should not be judging other people's sexual choices.

So thats what this thread is really about