I have a 5 months old DD and we go to swimming lessons every Thursday. After the 1st lesson my MIL said she would have liked to come to see how DD got on. I politely invited her to the next lesson which she came to and then told her to come back to ours for a coffee, as she hadn't had any time with DD during the swimming session. She stayed 2 hours.
DD slept pretty much the whole time MIL was at home as she is normally exhausted after swimming. As MIL was about to leave she said she'd like to come the week after again. I didn't know how to say no ðŸ˜
So now she wants to come every week. DH is at work so I'm the one who has to entertain her, while DD is asleep.
AIBU to not want to hang out with her every week? I have told DH that I understand if she wants to see DD more as she is the first grandchild, but it should be when he is around, so evenings or weekends, but he said she's lonely and doesn't have anything else to do.