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to ask for a Hitachi Magic Wand as birthday present from my partner?

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newmorning · 30/01/2014 14:27

I've heard the most wonderful things about the Hitachi Magic Wand and I'd love to have one but should I buy it myself or suggest it to my partner as a birthday present?

I wouldn't want to make him him feel he isn't 'enough' by making the request, because he's very good in bed actually.

Would I be being unreasonable?

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DayAfterYesterday · 30/01/2014 15:33

Fancy one of these myself, heard good things!

Damage to your bits though?? That doesn't sound to good!

Joysmum · 30/01/2014 14:56

We have one, really noisy (I wouldn't switch it on again if DD is in the house) and far too intense to be used as a sex toy so it's never been out of the case since.

ILoveDHIDo · 30/01/2014 14:56

I asked my DH to buy me a vibrator once, he did but wasn't happy. I was shocked when it arrived as I was half joking.. I threw it away and never used it once out of respect for him as he really felt shit about it.

MrsMoon76 · 30/01/2014 14:50

I'm just warning you now that the damn things can do some serious damage to your bits. DH bought me one and now its used as a back massager.

Er....unless you are buying it as a back massager and in that case pretend you didn't read the above Grin

Topaz25 · 30/01/2014 14:38

Breaking should be broaching

Topaz25 · 30/01/2014 14:38

Maybe just mention you heard good things about it and see how he reacts before breaking the subject of him buying it.

Topaz25 · 30/01/2014 14:37

Have you discussed sex toys before? Is he generally open-minded or uptight? This should give you an idea how he might react. The Hitachi Magic Wand doesn't look like a penis so he might not find it as threatening as some other sex toys. Maybe you could incorporate it into your lovemaking. But if you think it will upset him just buy it yourself.

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