Pregnancy niggles in week 29
Everything works a bit slower during pregnancy, which can have some unpleasant side effects. As well as your digestion slowing down and causing constipation and piles, your circulation is slowed down which can contribute to varicose veins.
Varicose veins
You may remember your mother having varicose veins. Now you know it was probably your fault. A baby in the womb presses on the veins in your pelvis that collect blood from the veins in your legs. As a result, the blood doesn't leave your legs as quickly as it used to and pools there instead. Additionally, the hormones in pregnancy affect the valves in your leg veins that should help push the blood up the leg. Consequently, your leg veins start bulging and they may itch and ache – as well as your general swelling in your feet, legs and hands.
If this is your first pregnancy, they are highly likely to go (well, mostly) a few months after birth. If it isn't, they're likely to get worse with each pregnancy and stay behind afterwards.
There isn't much you can do to stop them – some people suggest support stockings (choose maternity ones as others may be too tight and restrict your circulation), others suggest that regular swimming or other exercise can help. Another tip that may improve things is not to cross your legs when you're sitting and, if possible, raise them higher than the level of your heart.
Carpal tunnel syndrome
When you hit the 29-week mark you might also experience numbness, tingling or pain in your hand, arm or fingers, or perhaps you have trouble gripping, which could be a sign of carpal tunnel syndrome.
The symptoms come and go, but are usually worse during the night. Luckily, CTS usually disappears within a few months.
Treatment for CTS includes:
A wrist splint – to be worn at night, it will keep your wrist straight and reduce the pressure on the nerve. It takes at least four weeks to have an effect
Painkillers – paracetamol or ibuprofen might be able to offer you some short-term relief
Cut out bending and gripping – if there are certain things that cause you to bend your wrist or grip hard, make an effort to cut them out as much as possible
Yoga, acupuncture and hand exercises
If your current plan of attack isn't working and your symptoms get worse, go and speak to your GP. They will be able to advise you more.
Things to think about during week 29 of pregnancy
Pregnancy is an emotional time, even when everything is going well. You're likely to find yourself crying into your dinner because you've remembered you 'just really like pasta and it's made you so happy'.. If you're finding any aspect of pregnancy difficult, though, hormones can make it feel even more raw.
Loneliness
Everyone pats your stomach and asks how you are, but you may still feel quite lonely. The changes your body goes through and the extraordinary process of growing a baby inside you can make you feel 'separate' from the rest of the human race at times. You may feel preoccupied with being pregnant and the physical changes it brings. Some women also feel strange that their partner or childless friends have no real idea of what they're going through. Try to talk to your partner (if you have one) and concentrate a bit on your relationship.
Body image
Weight gain in pregnancy can be a tricky issue to cope with for many women. You may not like your pregnant body. If you are used to being thin or exercising a lot and feel you can't be or do either, then you may resent your body. While you don’t want to pile on too many pounds (your appetite has increased but you should only be eating an extra 200 calories a day) and increase your risk of things like gestational diabetes, it is important that you eat well for both you and your baby.
Some women feel liberated by having a big belly and enjoy not having to worry about their tummy hanging out for a while. But if you are feeling a bit underconfident, perhaps treat yourself to some new maternity clothes to help you feel a bit more 'Fertility Goddess' than 'fat and lumpy'.
"Overall, I'm grumpy. Need to have a word with myself though, to be honest. I cried this morning because my mat jeans are too small – my legs have got too fat to pull them up."
"Everyday tasks are hard – picking things up off the floor and getting out of bed are the first two that come to mind! Trying not to stress that I've done no work today and hoping I'll have more energy tomorrow! I can't wait for maternity leave to start…"
"My feet have puffed up. No swelling elsewhere so I'll just keep an eye on it. I'm feeling even more hippo-like because of that!"
"I'm 29 weeks and my baby is moving a lot, especially at night, and when I come back home from work and lie down."
"Movements are getting more distinctive – some big jabs and rolls – but they come in small segments of time, mainly evening. I pretty much worry every day that it's not moving enough…and then it does and I feel reassured."