@midgebabe
To ask what policies are in place to ensure that patients are not sleeping in the same space as people of the other sex
That's the problem in a nutshell. The standard "default" position is to just bung any old *trans person into a ward that corresponds with whatever pronouns or self-identification they're using at the time.
A couple of months ago I had to be admitted into hospital for a minor elective procedure which meant I had a stay of a couple of nights. By default, the bed manager arranged for me to be put into a female bay on the ward.
Despite being post-op and having a GRC I objected for two reasons
- I didn't want to make women uncomfortable with me being there
- I felt uncomfortable having to dilate (even behind closed curtains) with women around me.
Pointing this out to nurses and a sister caused confusion (at best) and consternation (at worst) that I was trying to be "difficult". I didn't want to go onto a female ward and they didn't want to put me onto a male ward (which tbf I didn't want to do either - for reason 2 above). They genuinely couldn't grasp my reasoning.
In the end they had to "bed shuffle" and stick me in a side room. To say they were not impressed at my speaking up was an understatement.
(As an aside, every time I had blood tests I had to keep telling them to put "m" on the test markers - cos biology, and had the confused look from MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS that I had to keep pointing this out when they kept ticking "f")
Be that as it may - there seems to be an automatic response that if you're using "she" as your pronoun or a designated female title, ie "Miss", then you go straight onto a female ward as a matter of course.
I'm not entirely sure WHAT the answer is - as there probably aren't enough *trans patients in a hospital at any one time to have some form of "trans-only" bay, and side rooms are usually reserved for the very sick/dying.
Of course many *trans people won't speak up because of either embarrassment or "validation", and will happily go onto female bays - but from a dignity point of view, for women especially, it has to change.
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