He has left me

[bigissue]

And the children. Am broke and carless but currently don't give a fucking toss. So nice not to have the rows and stress.

[bigissue]

Are we all to busy navel gazing for someone to give me at least a reply

[Puff]

You sound relieved - are you really or is it bravado at the mo?

[Gwenick]

calm down - you only posted 4 minutes ago and the forum is going slowly (unless you hadn't noticed!!)

[suzywong]

was it a total surprise or did you see it coming?

[bigissue]

Am actually crying with self pity cos no one rushed to ruply but as i am posting under another name it probalby doesnt help.........

He is having a nervous breakdown i hthink due to rstress but it is too hard stoo support someone when they are bign a total arse.

[Puff]

Is he getting any medical help?

[suzywong]

do you feel like posting under your usual name?

do you know where he has gone?

do the kids know what has happened?

[bigissue]

It has grown worsre and worse and he has got more and more stresed an dun reasonalbe so i smupppose i could see it coming.

F*cker

[suzywong]

do you want him back?

[bigissue]

Cant post under mo own name - am well known
Kids are aware as he did all this infront of them nad in the street in front of all the neighbours
he is at a batchelor friends getting whisky and sympathy and arranging a new soxial life and a divorce

do i sound bitter?

[KBear]

So where do you go from here - have you got a plan? I'm happy for you if you feel that life will be better without the rows and stress but sorry that's it's happened to you as well.

[bigissue]

House and me much calmer today than for a while so i supporse no, currently do not want him back but dont kow how i will feel later

[Clementine]

So sorry to hear this. I think I know you do I -

[Puff]

You sound v fed up, with reason to be.

What was causing him so much stress?

[bigissue]

i have a v ery young baby and am breastfeeding so getting a job is not easy so money is an issue - i do need a plan and fast

[bigissue]

His job is the cause of the stress and i am the verbal and emotional puccnhbag

[suzywong]

what kind of help can your family be?

[bigissue]

gpunchbab

[Puff]

bigissue for you.

There's only so much of that anyone can take.

[bigissue]

No family locally

that should have been punchbag - i am not drinking!

[suzywong]

bigissue, do I know you quite well?

[Puff]

I've got to go out now, but will check in on this thread later.

Take care xx

[SenoraPostrophe]

well it sounds like it needed to happen.

agree about it being hard to support someone when they're being an arse.

don't know what to suggest, except perhaps that he should be involved in your plan in a financial way if you're that broke. Are you still getting mat leave?

[bigissue]

sahm

[SenoraPostrophe]

best get down the benefits office on monday then. Or call h and demand some money/ the car.

it really pisses me off when men walk out without a thought to how the babies will be fed.