Whether you had PND or the stress of a new baby tore you apart, or for other reasons (cheating, financial stress etc), how many of you have split up from their partner (doesn't matter who left who) after having a baby?
I left my ex when my baby was 3 months old. I had PND caused by the discovery of his porn addiction, finding out he'd cheated on me at the start of our relationship, him prioritising another woman (who he is now with), we were stressed from lack of sleep, and it was the 2nd anniversary of my mum's death. I couldn't cope. I walked. He never looked back, eventually moved on with the OW.
I regret it, still love him - wish I didn't, often think we could've worked it out had we had more information about supporting each other and the challenges of a newborn, and the signs of PND and how to get the right support. Obviously wouldn't take him back now after him being with this other woman but it wouldn't have come to this had we had the right information in place.
I want to see how common it is and if you had any information prior to having your baby (midwife, antenatal lessons etc). Ideally, I want to try and find a way to help - I don't want families being destroyed through lack if understanding and support.
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Split up after having a baby: how many of you has it happened to?
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RLEOM · 26/01/2020 14:54
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