I had started dating someone since April.
We had intense chemistry, including sexual which he admitted as well.
The problem was/is, that since April I have seen him just a handful of times (7 times).
We have discussed this matter and he has said to me he is a busy guy.
It has happened that he has cancelled even last min.
This guy is a single dad with 50% custody and i understand the busy schedule. I myself dont have kids. I just didnt expect and to be honest didnt believe this is a solid reason for not meeting often.
He also just once has invited me to his house but i couldnt go. He has told me that temporarily lives with his parents, as he bought a new house and he is doing work in it. This has been going on for months and he is not moving in. The whole situ seemed and still seems dodgy.
I met him online and I tried to make it clear from the beginning that i am not involved with attached guys. That was in April. He told me he is over his situation and that they don't talk apart from matters concerning the kid.
Last time we met was end Oct, where we had a talk about him being busy and he explained to me the exact reasons why he does not have time for a gf. We did have sex. Also he did act jealous as we had three weeks to talk up until to that point and was asking me if i did anything with others. I said no and even he commented to my phone notifications "Oh someone wants your company" I said jokingly "ye im popular" and he said "ye I bet you are".
When he left my house we kissed and to meet for drinks soon.
He didnt reach out to me since then....
I am wondering if he was just looking for a distraction or he is really over with his ex. I did some digging on her instagram and she seemed to had posted that she is single and that she is doing her.
2 days after we met, I saw that he was with his kid but she was also in the same place with also her kids from another relationship, but not interacting all together. Just hin . with his kid.
I really dunno whats going on, I always had at the back of my mind that something might be going on... I even went to psychics....
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A bit disappointed and worried
GinTonic32 · 02/12/2019 11:59
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