Hi,
I have been in a relationship for 9 months and it was pretty full on from the beginning and I got swept away wth it.
Lovely man and very generous has bought me lots of gifts right from the first date ie flowers, wine, perfume and candles, followed by flowers every week.
For some reason I have a feeling that it hasn’t been right for me for the last 6-8 weeks and can’t put my finger on why I’ve wracked my brains and feel that I no longer want this relationship, it’s really confused me and got me down.
I finished it today and I feel really shit if I’m honest as he wasn’t a bad person but something doesn’t sit right with me and I feel sadly relieved it’s over.
When I told him he just said “oh I’m sorry you feel that way” and that was it.
Don’t know what I’m asking but feel confused as to why my gut instinct was so strong on this when he never showed me his colours so to speak. We are both in our 50’s perfect for each other on paper but something was missing for me.
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Trusting your gut instinct?
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user1470296287 · 10/12/2018 17:29
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