I must be getting stronger - the need to post on here is less frequent however the cunt has excelled himself yet again!
I have been communicating with x over kids schooling and future living arrangements - they have to start thinking about uni and am aware open days are taking place. When I say communicating I mean emailing him to ask what if anything he is doing or discussing with Ds - also for feedback on Ds parent evening that I was unable to attend.
My finances are becoming a struggle - I am not sure I can continue in the family home until kids complete a levels as I would like. I am buying a house but it is 300 miles away which I want to tie in with kids going to uni - but I think this may be impossible. I have informed x - I have said kids may have to live with him as he rents a house local as well as having bought with OW in Sheffield. This is not ideal but the only way the kids lives can continue with least interruption.
(My finances are a struggle because I have paid Ds school fees alone, I got shafted in divorce and because the cunt is pursuing child maintenance through the courts)
As per normal I get nothing back. I have contacted his father - the kids grandfather - to see whether he will make funds available that is held for the kids - I get nothing back from him either!
Sunday - Father's Day as I am waiting for Dd I get an email to tell me to stop emailing him and his dad as he sees these emails as harrassment and that he will get his solicitor to tell me to stop ( as previous) if I don't.
What sort of cunt sees email communication about his kids schooling and living arrangements as harassment - I was unable to keep this from Dd.
It is his contact night tonight - Dd has just sent me a pic of a Father's Day card from Ow' s kids it says "thank you for always being there for us"
I am so angry -angry that he leaves this out for Dd to see - angry that he is "there" for her kids at the expense of his own, angry that he is such a fucking cunt!
My Dd says she is fine - she says why would they even get a card I don't understand - she's not fine - she knows what this means - her brain is just protecting her from the immense hurt that must be wracking through her! I can't even give her a hug!
When will this stop? I read on here somewher that abuse of a mother is abuse of kids - he cannot see the damage he is doing in his attempts to make me the evil one! One day karma - I hope to fucking god this is true!
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greenberet · 19/06/2018 19:21
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