I paid £30 to be cheated on basically.

[Slaylormoon]

My on/off (currently apparently on) boyfriend of 3 years casually mentioned going to (city) this weekend to see his mates, and asked could I lend him the train fare so I did.

Only he's actually in a different town meeting up with his ex.

I feel like less than dust.

[TheNaze73]

That’s awful. How do you know for certain? Some ex’s can be full of shit

[NotSuchASmugMarriedNow1]

You paid £30 and now you know your boyfriend is a cheating freeloader - that might possibly be the best £30 you've ever spent!!!

Give him his fucking marching orders and tell him to keep the £30.

What. A. Cock.

[Slaylormoon]

He has his computer set up at the main tv in his apartment (where I'm currently staying) and he left Facebook logged in. A message popped up from her while I was watching YouTube, asking if he was at the station yet, and I saw him send her a reply.

Sorry for drip feed. I feel numb.

[Blackcatonthesofa]

At least you found out what a knob he is. 30 isn't that much money. Next month treat yourself something for 30 pounds. At least you will have some fun out of it instead of giving ot to a twat.

[BenLui]

Slay I’m so sorry.

You aren’t less, he is.

What’s your situation, do you live together? Have kids?

[Slaylormoon]

I suppose it's not really that much money. I sent her a message from his account saying

It's Stbx's girlfriend, could you tell him to answer his phone please.

She read the message but he's since turned his phone off.

[Slaylormoon]

@Benlui I moved in from my student accommodation literally a week ago. I'm abroad from all my family.

[YouCantArgueWithStupid]

Sorry OP. He sounds like a bell end

[MyfatheristheKing]

Wow. He’s some catch!

Are you staying there permanently? Do you have somewhere else to go?

[ravenmum]

Shame you didn't lend him enough money to get himself a brain cell or two. Must feel awful but you are clearly extremely well rid. Any reason to have further contact with him?

[BenLui]

Can you go back to your previous accommodation?

[luckkkkkky7]

Aw luv so sorry what a bell end cock twat!

[LurkingHusband]

It's Stbx's girlfriend, could you tell him to answer his phone please.

That made me smile ...

OP

[Slaylormoon]

Not entirely sure where I can go, I'm not expecting he will come back from hers tonight now but I'm frantically trying to scrape some money together for a hotel or something. Which is also why I'm so upset I basically funded his sordid meet up, because money is really tight for me and i don't know what to do.

[Slaylormoon]

Sorry missed the question, no kids.

[luckkkkkky7]

Have you got any friends ?

[Slaylormoon]

@luckkkkkky7 Not around here, I'm in NI but from England.

[Catinthecorner]

Are you still logged into his Facebook? I’d be having a bit of fun with that if you are.

Of course my ex was stupid enough to use my laptop to check his dating website profile. So I helped honest him up a little.

[luckkkkkky7]

I can't believe he took your money he's a scumbag

[luckkkkkky7]

Haha I agree with last comment go on he profile and embarrass him you should also of told her he is using your money to take her out !

[user1480334601]

You should send her another message: "actually ignore that last message. Can you tell him we're done. Enjoy his cheating ass he's all yours now :)"

So sorry op. What an idiot and the cheek to ask you for money for it!! Unbelievable

[luckkkkkky7]

What's in his flat you can sell ? 😆

[BenLui]

Can your university help you?
Or your family?

[Notreallyarsed]

Oh OP he’s a shit, a complete shit. Could your family lend you the ferry/plane fare to get home?

[crisscrosscranky]

Best £30 you’ve ever spent!

I know you probably feel shit right now but honestly, he’s done you a favour. Start planning an adventure x