Name changed because I'm really paranoid about someone I know finding this.
My baby's father hasnt treated me well and I think I'm only now realising how bad it has been. I'm not sure what I should do now.
I saw him very recently and all he wanted was sex. He hasn't asked about the baby, or how I am, or anything like that what so ever. He just kept constantly trying to initiate sex, I told him no less than 20 times that I didn't want to/stop/don't etc. He asked why after I said no and physically moved his hands away from me and I told him I was uncomfortable and didn't want to. After a while I stopped trying to stop him but it was just unpleasant and uncomfortable and not enjoyable for me at all.
This hasn't happened like this before so I don't know if I'm being sensitive to be getting anxiety over it. Everything else about it was as usual, before it happened we were talking had a meal etc and we aren't officially broken up or anything so I don't know if it's my fault for not making it clearer that I really didn't want to have sex.
I haven't told anyone at all at this point and I know he would say I'm making up lies. He's currently refusing to discuss when he will spend time with our child - apparently me asking this is trying to control him and force him to do what I say - the only way he will be happy with seeing them is if it's completely on his terms, spontaneously, and in his convenience rather than mine.
Am I overreacting to be really anxious about this entire situation? feel so alone.
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Nighttimeowl · 10/03/2017 04:20
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