I've posted in here a few times. First I couldn't understand where my boyfriends money was going and it came back that most of you thought he had a gambling addiction, and this turned out to be true.
So after lots of promises he's stopped etc I just don't believe him anyway and it all came to a head yesterday and I asked him to leave and he did. We have two children but are not married. We own a house together though this is a new thing and so it's not like he has ever laid a lot towards the mortgage or anything. All his massive amount of lending is not in my name and not secured on the house.
I just don't know what to do. I've really believed in this relationship and even when everyone else said to finish it I didn't as I loved him.
Day 1 and I feel really positive about the future without him.
I'm worried if he can force me to sell the house but his investment in it is minimal and with his small contribution to the mortgage he has been living here after all so I'm not sure I owe him anything? Anyone else had a similar situation?
The thing is it is just so easy to have him back and try and carry on as normal. What to do.
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I asked him to leave and he did. What next?
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pinkcandyflossy · 09/10/2016 09:59
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