DH is in the spare room as apparently my cold is stopping him sleep. He is a bad sleeper any way.
This morning he was in a foul mood and walked into our room spotted a child in the bed and went off on one about how we are heading for a divorce.
Apparently I spend all my time on the kids and he is forgotten. We spend no time together and it is all my fault.
I am not perfect. I am well aware.
My husband has a very stressful job and is either working away or out of the house 6.50am - 8 or 9pm. He then often takes calls and does more work. He works a lot at the weekend. I am a SAHM.
We have 4 kids - aged 1 -12.
We live along way from family and have only lived in the area 18 months (moved from overseas) so although I know a lot of people to say hi to I know practically no one who could babysit.
I feel like Cinderella - in so far as I seem to spend all my time clearing up after someone (DH as bad as kids), cooking, helping with homework etc etc. I never leave the kitchen/diner in an evening.
My husband is bad tempered and has brief moments of being fun dad - mostly ignores/ shouts at kids and occasional losing it moments were he is too rough with them. I feel like a referee - DH apologise to ds1 you have hurt him etc etc.
Sorry waffle.
I have a bad tempered husband, I'm not exactly loving life myself.
I don't know what to change and I don't know how.
Is everyone like me?
Thank you anyone who has managed to get this far.......
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Kidsarebetterthanchocolate · 03/03/2016 08:01
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