Hi, I'm Mum to a lovely little boy, who lives with me. We've been divorced for three years, and are both seeing other people. My issue is that my ex is moving in with his g/f and her two daughters (both slightly older than my son), and is making noises about our son moving in with them to make a complete family.
My issues are as follows:
1 I only heard about this g/f and her family because my son mentioned "Daddy's new friend" about 6 months ago
2 I only heard about them moving in together when my son mentioned he has a room at her house, and I questiond my ex about it.
I don't have a problem with my ex having a relationship (far from it - he is SO much nicer when he's getting laid), but I DO have a problem with the fact that I haven't had the opportunity to meet this woman who is playing such a part in my son's life, and the fact I haven't really had any warning that this was about to happen.
I DO have parental responsibility (I did move back up to Northumberland from Bradford when the divorce came through - I have family up there, and a social network missing down in Yorkshire - but my ex didn't make any legal challenge regarding this at the time), but I don't live with my partner, as I prefer the autonomy after 20 years with my ex. My ex works abroad a lot and, up until now, hasn't had anyone at home to look after my son when he's been away.
This ISN'T about me losing the child support, but is about the fact I'm terrified that I'll lose my son.
I have only just found all this out, so haven't had time to talk to a solicitor. Any help would be very much appreciated.
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SarahB1971 · 20/01/2016 20:31
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