Hi girls,
Right then I need a women's perspective on this.
My girlfriend of 4 years recently returned from a family holiday with her family in which I couldn't attend this time around due to work anyway we spoke everyday texts the odd phone call everything was cool. Until, she gets home she has letters and emails from the bank saying that she has been overdrawn and that they are charging her penalty fees etc. Well understandably she goes into frenzy really upset over the fact she has no money until her next pay day. I assure that everything will be ok and that I will give her money to tide her over until she gets payed. Now she's a proud girl this way and won't accept which is ok the offer was there anyway. Know she's back from her holiday a few days I come back from working away and say hey stranger missed you do u want you want come over tonight....in which her reply was...and do what? With this I flipped I was like do u need a reason to see me? I know you very little money but come on I haven't seen you in almost 3 weeks I was angry that she didn't feel the same. So with this the little insults and bickering got worse over 2 days and now it's like I'm the one to blame. She is accepting non of the blame and it's all my fault. She has since gone down the road to analysing our relationship to the point where she doesn't want to talk to me at all. Now I have apologised and that I do understand that I went in all guns blazing at a bad time and it didn't help at all. But surely this isn't all my fault? And that she is just taking her upset out on me?
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Small argument turned huge!
Nik22d · 18/07/2015 10:05
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