Hi
Name changed for this as its a bit tmi.
I've been seeing someone for 2 months now and the sex side of things is bothering me, nothing really weird or fetish however...
He doesn't like women with body hair, that's ok, I don't have any! But every time we have sex he wants to use a vibrator on me, never uses his fingers or god forbid his mouth or even offers and he can't get off with penetrative sex, has to manually do it himself, takes ages as he says hes got desensitised?.
doesn't really like me doing it for him either
He's also constantly wanting anal and I don't
And once when we were DTD he was muttering things, and sort of said I'm raping you
He obviously wasn't but it alarmed me and I suppose I am wondering if he is a big porn user or something
Sex is basically a few thrusts, vibrator comes out, then he wanks himself off?
I'm a bit WTF now, I know it takes time but I don't think that's good n bed
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New bloke...sex is beginning to creep me out a bit
baffledbeyond · 22/06/2013 13:34
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