I will be 10 weeks pg with dc 2 on weds following 2 miscarriages in October last year and feb this year. I just find myself consumed with anxiety that things are going to go wrong again. I constantly over analyse how strong my symptoms are and if I have a few hours when I don't feel any symptoms or think they are not as strong I start to panic. I just find it exhausting. I just wish I could go to sleep and wake up in a months time when I am further along and over the 12 week hurdle.
I have been scanned at both 6 and 8 weeks and everything looked fine but this only really comforts me for a day or so as with my first mmc we saw a heartbeat at 6.5 weeks and was then told at 8.5 weeks that the baby must have died just a day or so after the last scan. My second mmc also stopped growing at just past 6 weeks but I did not find out until nearly 11 weeks. I thought I would feel better having got past the 8 weeks scan as that is further than I got with my mmc's but I still grind myself down most days wth worry. I have my 10 week scan on weds and am dreading being given bad news.
I was just wondering if anyone else who has had similar experience and gone on to full term can say at what point the anxiety started to ease off and you felt better and started to enjoy your pregnancy a bit more or should I expect to feel like this until much later on in third trimester.
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Miscarriage anxiety - when does it get better?
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mylittlemonkey · 16/07/2012 19:29
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